Has anyone ever on here have a lady grossly misinterpret your response then stop the match? I asked what she does for her man trying to get an idea of the positive things she does for her man but somehow she interpreted it as I was saying she did something. I'm not sure how you get that from what I asked.

"What she does for her man"?

Sounds like something out of the misogynist rule book.

Humm sounds like to me all your worried about is, what someone can do for you!

The all about me syndrome, will lead to others ghosting you in a heart beat~~


More like an Interview then trying to get to know someone,,,

I agree with both Mo & TG.. NEVER ask a woman what she does for her man.. especially in the 'get to know you' stage.. yeesh.. like TG said.. all about you much??

your choice of wording is very important.. you get one shot at a first impression.. do it right and make it count cuz there'll never be a second chance.. as I think you've just discovered.. hopefully it's a lesson learned..

Maybe You worded it wrongly. How about a context

No, no, NO!
That is a highly suggestive question.
Totally unsuitable for any getting-to-know-you
conversation.
That you cannot see this, is more disturbing
than placing blame.

Respect Spanky..

Spanky?

a nickname for someone mischievous (The Little Rascals show)

Okey-dokey

Farid's Dictionary is firmly in place ;-)

There is context instead of everyone assuming or prejudging.
She said somebody cheated on her so I asked what do you do for your man? I was then going to respond he's stupid if you do all that for him and didn't appreciate it. It's not about me, the person who says that about me is ignorant. I've never gotten this from any woman before so she told me her whole story upon meeting but I guess you think that's probably me right? Don't attack when you think you know how the conversation went, because you don't. you only think that because you don't have the whole conversation.

Well this isn't the whole conversation but you give advice but are you dating anyone or just in here trying to act high and mighty. I didn't post this to have you prejudge. I didn't write the whole thing cause it's private but for you to judge my character says more about you. As you no no nothing about me. This is your ignorance and is a big no no.

Quit being a phony and trying to get brownie points on a dating forum. You didn't know the whole conversation. It was a follow up to a question she asked but you knew that because you were there, oh right you weren't so keep your opinion to yourself. You no nothing about me

Well if you don't like the answers that many gave.. Then just maybe you should be clear on what was said..

But still you asked her what she does she do for her man.. Instead of asking what did he expect from her..

Again you need to be more clear when you ask others to respond instead of giving a half baked issue which is only your version..

Believe me if he cheated on her then it does not matter what she did for him for it sounds like you think she was in the wrong... shshs

Ohh and if you are going to respond to a certain person click the Quote icon on their post so others know who you are responding too...So they know you are responding to them so they can respond to you..

No I don't and it's not half baked. I don't think she is wrong. Nobody is wrong if they get cheated on. But someone saying it's half baked is BS.
If I was as rude as you I you would have put the whole conversation on here. I'm not going to do that because I have some morals. So don't give me the canned garbage response. I gave what I thought was enough without putting the whole thing out there. But anyone who uses common sense knows that there are two sides to a story

Then maybe you should not have only put your half the conversation on here for others to respond to ...

Rude heck I was trying to explain to you why you got the responses you got.. But guess I should have put it more plainer for you to understand!

Ohh and still there is a Quote icon on each post to respond to those you are responding too.. Or do I need to draw a MAP?

This person gets it and was the only one on here that was fair and used common sense. Everything has context. Anyways. I won't post on here again. At least you are fair and looked at it with a fair disposition. So bless your heart.

Not everything works smoothly on a phone and if your are a jerkoff like this with everyone then you'll be single forever. Giving advice isn't calling someones response canned that's using words that you know will create tension. I don't need a map. Talking to me like I'm some sort of idiot. Go do something else

Actually I'm only a so called Jerkoff when someone else can't see the real issue was the way they posted something!


And then wants to tear others apart for their responses~~~

There was only one response on here who used common sense they said maybe you wrote it wrong and that there is context. That person gets it. They at least know how to be diplomatic. I was called misogynist and a whole bunch of other crap. So please spare me this holier than thou persona. I gave back the energy so many threw.