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Topic: Something to ponder
semiloco2007 Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 232	Tue 01/08/08 06:43 PM
You want to go on a second date with them. Should you A. Tell them before the first date is over B. Contact them the next day C. Wait for two or three days then contact them D. Contact them immediately after the date E. Wait until they contact you or my favorite answer jump her bones and show her what a real man you are hahahaha JK This should be interesting.

BoaterMatt Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 78	Tue 01/08/08 06:46 PM
(A).....but I'm just a twit on a dating site so what the hell do I know

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 01/08/08 06:47 PM
A or D... I once had a blind date...that lasted 6 days!

semiloco2007 Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 232	Tue 01/08/08 06:47 PM
A or D... I once had a blind date...that lasted 6 days! Good date

designer83 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 96	Tue 01/08/08 06:48 PM
I think A. But not right away. If the date is coming to an end and you want to see her again ask her as your walking her to the door.

jujubean73 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 53	Tue 01/08/08 06:50 PM
I would be happy to just get the 1st date

madigirl59 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 171	Tue 01/08/08 06:51 PM
A. You should make sure that the vibes are being returned. If that is the case, casually mention that you would like to see her again. Don't sound too desperate though. Then it might get creepy hehe. Good luck

revolution Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 489	Tue 01/08/08 06:51 PM
You want to go on a second date with them. Should you A. Tell them before the first date is over B. Contact them the next day C. Wait for two or three days then contact them D. Contact them immediately after the date E. Wait until they contact you or my favorite answer jump her bones and show her what a real man you are hahahaha JK This should be interesting. I would say B or C...

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Tue 01/08/08 06:52 PM
A or D... I once had a blind date...that lasted 6 days! Good date It was a Great date!! Poor guy didn't know what hit him!

nba21 Joined Mon 08/13/07 Posts: 341	Tue 01/08/08 06:53 PM
None of the above, call the escort service and book a 2nd date at a discounted price.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 01/08/08 06:53 PM
depends if things went well

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Tue 01/08/08 07:49 PM
A I think you should ask her how she would feel about having another date. What is up with this waiting a few days stuff? Men and their rules!!! If it feels good..just do it!!

ladynluv2be Joined Sun 07/08/07 Posts: 840	Tue 01/08/08 07:54 PM
A why wait and take a chance of someone else turning the other person on

semiloco2007 Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 232	Tue 01/08/08 07:55 PM
Well I'm sticking with my fav answer

gracekelley Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 255	Tue 01/08/08 09:05 PM
B or E

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Tue 01/08/08 09:57 PM
Semi, I think you are getting the cart before the horse. You cannot possibly know or be able to decide for yourself if you even want a 2nd date. So, on this first date, you should make sure that there are plenty of details to share with us on JSH. THEN, start a thread about your date, seeking advice on whether or not you should go on a 2nd date. IMPORTANT! Make sure that the thread is AT LEAST 3 pages long, so you have plenty of quality input and advice. Once you get a consensus on IF you should ask her out for a second date, THEN, repost this thread to figure out the timing.

Unknow Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 64077	Wed 01/09/08 12:42 PM
You want to go on a second date with them. Should you A. Tell them before the first date is over B. Contact them the next day C. Wait for two or three days then contact them D. Contact them immediately after the date E. Wait until they contact you or my favorite answer jump her bones and show her what a real man you are hahahaha JK This should be interesting. Hmm. Depends on the chemistry....

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Wed 01/09/08 12:47 PM
You want to go on a second date with them. Should you A. Tell them before the first date is over B. Contact them the next day C. Wait for two or three days then contact them D. Contact them immediately after the date E. Wait until they contact you or my favorite answer jump her bones and show her what a real man you are hahahaha JK This should be interesting. Well, from the topic it appears you've had a first date so that reduces options. However, if not, I'd suggest nothing except concentrate on that first date - spontaneity & sincerity.

kirota Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 3771	Wed 01/09/08 01:09 PM
#1 just be honest and upfront.

Paul46 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 120	Wed 01/09/08 01:14 PM
I have to agree with kiroto on this if the dates going well then just ask they can only say good night