Do I bother with a girl who says " Lets take it slow? "

I don't know, do you?

of course get to know her

depends on if you are moving to fast i really dont see why she would need to say it if you wasnt moving to fast

Girls who say "Let's take it slow" usually mean one of two things: either "I'm really not that attracted to you but I think you're nice and I want to give you a chance to man up," or "I've been hurt in the past and I don't want to get hurt again."

In both instances what she really wants is for you to be a man, sweep her off her feet and prove her doubts and insecurities wrong. Every girl's secret desire is to find Prince Charming.

There's nothing wrong with "bothering with her," but give her what she wants or it'll crash-and-burn pretty fast.

Interestingly enough, usually what girls really want is for you to stop giving her everything she wants. Attractive girls are treated like queens all the time, and it's boring. Don't believe me? Ask one.

So don't be afraid to be a man, take what you want (I DO NOT MEAN RAPE! THIS IS BAD AND WILL GET YOU A NEW BOYFRIEND NAMED RALPH), and sweep her off her feet, ala James Bond, Han Solo and Will Turner. Go read some sappy romance novels and you'll see exactly what I mean. No, I'm serious. Go read some. FASCINATING insight into the female mind. There's a reason those things make up 40% of the American publishing market.

Huzzah!

Wait at least 15 minutes...

Of course! It means she wants to build a foundation with you, give it a chance to make it last. Then again, find out just HOW slow, "slow" IS!

I found out today what "lets take it slow " means ,it meant she was more interested in some one else and wanted me to hold on just for back up.

Don't hold on to her then. There's plenty of other people out there. No one deserves to be a door mat.

Well, you take it slow when you first get inside....and then you work up to a..............oh sh*t.....we aint talking bout that kind of slow huh? My bad!

goof .... you're a, well a ....................... goof

well then i say taker real slow. right down to zero.

oh well.

Taking it slow is boring.

Sorry dude... that sucks!! Don't hang around and wait for her though. She'll never respect that.

*sigh* sorry dude. I know what that feels like

always cause then it's all bout the sex....after that it's boring..nothing in common and it sucks........so always take it slow

Hell yeah take it as slow as she wants or needs then it will be worthwhile when the time comes.

agree with frank here on this

Yep, let's take it slow means... there is someone else I am willing to wait for, but if that doesn't pan out, then we can try. Sorry, go get another girl.