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Topic: Conflict and Consequences
Ontario's photo
Fri 12/08/06 07:45 PM
Lately...there has been several people, whom have either left the site,
or otherwise suffered some type of insult due to careless behavior.
Although I am usually joking I now realize that even joking can hurt, or
insult...therefore I apologize to anyone affected by my unsavory
conduct.

bogie's photo
Fri 12/08/06 07:51 PM
poor thing bless his heart

Morena350's photo
Fri 12/08/06 07:52 PM
that is very nice of you to say Ontario, have to give it to you ma, you
did the right thing, I like to see you joke around, but sometimes things
can get out of hand.


It takes a smart and caring person to apologize!!!!!!

iceprincess's photo
Fri 12/08/06 07:58 PM
very big of you hon your not the only one though i'm sure i'm in the
boat with you so I'm sorry also.your a very sweet person grumpy bear.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:06 PM
AWWWWWWwwwwwww that is the Ontario that I know but you have never hurt
my feelings in any way but now sometimes your post in the poems kinda
hit a few nerves lol but hey that is just you like I said just be you.

karmafury's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:06 PM
Very nice Ontario.

txazdesertgirl's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:12 PM
no offense taken here!! How can anyone take an anonymous chat site so
serious? This is just fun, if you don't like the subjects, or the
respondants, just move on! As you know Ontario, I've been insulted, and
so I just left, moved on to friendlier topics. No worries man, just
chill in the California sun...hell, we're just jealous!

no photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:13 PM
that was honorable ontario but you can't always apologize if someone
doesn't come to you about their feelings. some people blow a joke out of
proportion but then don't confront the person who made the joke. people
need to talk and clear the air instead of holding on to those feelings.
i'm with you ontario. i would apologize if i upset someone but they have
to let me know i did in the first place.

Ontario's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:16 PM
Yeah...but dude...I,ve gotten a ton of hate email from many
people...some I chat with regularly, and some I,ve never heard of. I,m
not here to upset people...!

iceprincess's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:20 PM
honey you don't upset us as for the hate mail ignore it unless they are
being legit sometimes people like to just jump on somebody elses
bandwagon.your really great grumpy bear truly you are

no photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:21 PM
i know that but some people don't understand that and they may think
that you are just rude. i know you ain't but they may not understand. i
found out early that not everyone likes to joke the way i do but the
thing is, it may sound rude but i only joke like that to people i like
because that is the way i was brought up. i wasn't blaming anyone i was
just sayin that if someone offends someone else people get further if
you let them know and give them a chance to reply instead of making a
big thing about it. i know i am always willing to listen to someone who
has a problem with something i did because i am not trying to offend
anyone either but not many people let me know.

you did the right thing though ontario

txazdesertgirl's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:21 PM
ditto. you are great, tell it like it is. anyone don't like it, tell
them to kma.

no photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:23 PM
i've noticed that people form little clicks when they get irritated and
that stuff needs to be handled between the ones it happened too and no
one else.

iceprincess's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:27 PM
it's all highschool darlinglet them beat their own drums when the
bonfire goes out they'll quite dancing and all goes on as before ignore
it whats the worst their gonna do call you names and send you little
notes. hey mayby you'll get a check yes or no one they're always fun.LOL

Ontario's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:28 PM
Well...you know I,m a jock and that locker room humor can be harsh to
some people...!

iceprincess's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:32 PM
you said your sorry hon but you can't please everyone be you and if they
have an issue then they will learn to deal or stay out of your way. i'm
a bitch everybody knows that some people stay away from me cause i've
told them i'm sorry my attitude offends you it's nothing personal but if
you choose to take it in such a manner i can't help you. i'm me period
take me or leave me it's just how it is. you are you i personally think
your great and so do a lot of others your real baby you don't change to
fit others and thats how you should be

no photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:48 PM
she is right ontario some people are sensitive to things even if they
weren't meant to hurt so don't stop being yourself. an apology when they
speak up goes along way

Tneal's photo
Fri 12/08/06 08:50 PM
lordy hope I have not offended anyone here. BTW grumpy bear.... you
need to go back to sleep.. I see bags under those eyes *weg*

michael1313's photo
Fri 12/08/06 09:09 PM
Thank You "Ontario"...

this means alot comming from you...
I'll pass it along too!..............M1313

no hard feelings here...

catchme_ifucan's photo
Fri 12/08/06 09:32 PM
.....HUH!........

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