Topic: do you always find what you are looking for?
Texas_69's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:00 AM
I have to ask this questions..

When you are looking for the right guy/girl, you have a list of what you he/she should be. (ex: blue eyes, big boobs, or tall dark and handsome, Caucasians or African American, smoking or non)

Do you actually find a person that person that has it all or do you just find someone that has most of what you are looking for??

I know that sometime you end up with the opposite personality as your own.

sexxyandsingle's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:01 AM
Edited by sexxyandsingle on Thu 02/28/08 10:01 AM
heh drinker drinker drinker drinker lafs

no photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:02 AM
I dont think that anyone is 100% perfect!!!noway

celticpride0280's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:03 AM
never settledrinker drinker

Cambolaya65's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:08 AM
My quest is an X-file......no clue what im lookin for.grumble

Robm248's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:09 AM
Well, first off my list never includes a hair color, or eye color. I mean... not so important. The rest of my list, however, keeps me waiting. And I agree with celticpride0280... never settle for someone who isn't right for you.
However, I also realize that what we think is perfect isn't always so... so that never settle part is for the things that are REALLY important! :smile:

tinabelle's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:19 AM

I have to ask this questions..

When you are looking for the right guy/girl, you have a list of what you he/she should be. (ex: blue eyes, big boobs, or tall dark and handsome, Caucasians or African American, smoking or non)

Do you actually find a person that person that has it all or do you just find someone that has most of what you are looking for??

I know that sometime you end up with the opposite personality as your own.

i think sometimes you will meet guy/girl that is (physically)
what you are looking for...but is wrong for you on other levels.

and then i think sometimes you will meet a guy/girl who might
not fit your physical criteria, but would be a good match for you...

so the question then becomes : are you going to have a borderline relationship with your perfect physical ideal, or will you get over the physical and perhaps find happiness with someone you might not have expected?

Goofball73's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:36 AM
I found a $20 bill the other week. Always wanted to find one of those, and now I have.:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

itsmetina's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:40 AM
i meet people with an open mind i however not attracted to overweight people but doesnt mean their body has to be perfect

knightless's photo
Thu 02/28/08 10:43 AM
I had it in my mind the perfect man was 5'7, brown eyes, dark hair, cowboy...then came the man of my dreams..and he was totally opposite of what I had pictured as perfect! This one was 6'0, blond hair, green eyes, and nicely built..and a musician...go figure!!

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Thu 02/28/08 11:25 AM
Im not sure what the package it comes in but I know what I want and what I will or will not put up with.....bigsmile

iamgeorgiagirl's photo
Thu 02/28/08 11:55 AM
noway
*Feels strong desire to answer sarcastically*
"Yes, I sure do usually. That is why I'm on a dating site."

*Rethinks and tries harder*
grumble
"Well heck no."

*Rethinks and tries a bit harder*
grumble grumble
"I thought so a time or two but no...here I am."
*Wonders if her expectations are too high.*
:cry:
?
Nah! noway
bigsmile
*Seriously ponders question*
"yes I thought I found the right person several times and found out different several times as well." "But, I am still looking."
*grins*
bigsmile










countrybumpkin2u's photo
Thu 02/28/08 11:59 AM

noway
*Feels strong desire to answer sarcastically*
"Yes, I sure do usually. That is why I'm on a dating site."

*Rethinks and tries harder*
grumble
"Well heck no."

*Rethinks and tries a bit harder*
grumble grumble
"I thought so a time or two but no...here I am."
*Wonders if her expectations are too high.*
:cry:
?
Nah! noway
bigsmile
*Seriously ponders question*
"yes I thought I found the right person several times and found out different several times as well." "But, I am still looking."
*grins*
bigsmile














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Fade2Black's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:33 PM

I have to ask this questions..

When you are looking for the right guy/girl, you have a list of what you he/she should be. (ex: blue eyes, big boobs, or tall dark and handsome, Caucasians or African American, smoking or non)

Do you actually find a person that person that has it all or do you just find someone that has most of what you are looking for??

I know that sometime you end up with the opposite personality as your own.



I don't have a list. Never will. It's all about chemistry straight out from the gate.

DevilDog1987's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:36 PM

I have to ask this questions..

When you are looking for the right guy/girl, you have a list of what you he/she should be. (ex: blue eyes, big boobs, or tall dark and handsome, Caucasians or African American, smoking or non)

Do you actually find a person that person that has it all or do you just find someone that has most of what you are looking for??

I know that sometime you end up with the opposite personality as your own.
remember,opposites attract

iamgeorgiagirl's photo
Thu 02/28/08 01:55 PM


I have to ask this questions..

When you are looking for the right guy/girl, you have a list of what you he/she should be. (ex: blue eyes, big boobs, or tall dark and handsome, Caucasians or African American, smoking or non)

Do you actually find a person that person that has it all or do you just find someone that has most of what you are looking for??

I know that sometime you end up with the opposite personality as your own.
remember,opposites attract

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Maybe that is what went wrong? Maybe they were really opposites and we were just attracted but didn't like each other. Hmm! That makes sense.

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