Topic: so confused
no photo
Tue 01/02/07 11:53 PM
i have come on here before with problems and always got great advise and
need it one more time i am on a different dating site and have met a
beautiful woman we have only talked on the phone and emailed for a
couple of months now and feel that there is a strong connection but on
the other hand have been offered a great job oppertunity in another
state and dont know what to do so im asking what would you do please
help

lily38's photo
Wed 01/03/07 12:00 AM
Take the job offer! If the love is real, it will come together for you,
if not, you still have a helluva job.

backinthesaddle's photo
Wed 01/03/07 01:45 AM
Now you will feel no rain, For each of you willbe shelter for the other.
Now you will feel no cold, For each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there is no more loneliness for you. For each of you will be
companion to the other. Now you are two bodies, But there is only one
life before you. Go now to your dwelling place, To enter into the days
of your togetherness. And may your days be good, and lond upon the
earth.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/03/07 01:47 AM
Take the job you know it is real and will be there you don't know about
the woman. For there could seem to be a connection now but when you meet
them it's not always that way.

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 02:51 AM
i'd take the job considering you've never met.

redmange420's photo
Wed 01/03/07 02:54 AM
Dude, ask her if she'd be willing to come out to your new job and place
and tell her she could be a part of your new beginning.

Chuckee's photo
Wed 01/03/07 05:54 AM
This ones a no brainer, take THE JOB!! I agree with everything being
said, if its ganna work and she's the one, it'll find a way of working
itself out, but you have to prioritize, take the job. Good luck to ya!

Tneal's photo
Wed 01/03/07 06:29 AM
CHUCKEEEEEEEEEE how the hell are ya...??????????

Take the job. If she is real then it will work out...

greeneyes_69's photo
Wed 01/03/07 06:49 AM
I agree, take the job. It's not like your engaged to the woman, you
haven't even met her in person yet!

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 07:59 AM
take the cash!>... the job.

no photo
Wed 01/03/07 09:54 PM
LOL never seen this many people agree on one single
topic.................ummmm ditto dude THE JOB is the way to
go..................

no photo
Thu 01/04/07 10:16 AM
Have to side with what Lily said on this one my friend. Take the job and
continue correspondence. What will change? Nothing different than the
situation is now.....right?

Juliea's photo
Thu 01/04/07 04:40 PM
take the job

at least meet this lady

if you like her tell her where you 're going and take it from
there!

do you know how hard it is to meet someone

there's so many single people it's crazy

Dreamweaverangel's photo
Thu 01/04/07 06:14 PM
Willllll....fer sure, take the job, but meet the girl, also...if it is
meant to be, then you two will be together, no matter where your job
leads you...just make sure to meet the gal in person...many times, it
seems like you have a conection, over the internet or/and phone and
sometimes, when you meet, there MAY still, be that connection, but only
time will tell if that ''conection'' is a real conection or just a
''fluke.''

no photo
Mon 01/22/07 08:59 PM
Take the job.

Sluggo's photo
Tue 01/23/07 04:14 AM
Take the job

kojack's photo
Tue 01/23/07 08:34 AM
JOB

MikeMontana's photo
Wed 01/24/07 07:47 PM
Just to be different: Go see the girl. GO! What are you waiting for -
her to come to see you?

So lets say you go see the girl, and there's nothing there. You'll feel
foolish, and feel like you made a mistake. Oh well, come home, pack your
stuff & go to the new job. If you wait too long, you might lose the job
offer too. That would also be a mistake.

Lets say you dont go. What if... what if she was the One ?

You can live with a mistake,
but you cant live with regrets.