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Topic: need some serious advice
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Mon 03/17/08 07:37 PM
here is the situation. there is this girl that I went to school with from 1st grade to 7th grade. I had a crush on her back then. I found her a while back on another site. at the time she was involved with someone. since then she has become single. the only contact I have had is through messengers though. should I ask her out? and if so, how do I go about doing it?

merlot42's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:38 PM
heck yes...go for it!!drinker

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Mon 03/17/08 07:38 PM

here is the situation. there is this girl that I went to school with from 1st grade to 7th grade. I had a crush on her back then. I found her a while back on another site. at the time she was involved with someone. since then she has become single. the only contact I have had is through messengers though. should I ask her out? and if so, how do I go about doing it?
Easy..say "Will you go out with me?"bigsmile

justme659's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
call her, and say simply, how about we grab a cuppa coffee.

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Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
Sure you should why not? Just ask her.

lcjw's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM

here is the situation. there is this girl that I went to school with from 1st grade to 7th grade. I had a crush on her back then. I found her a while back on another site. at the time she was involved with someone. since then she has become single. the only contact I have had is through messengers though. should I ask her out? and if so, how do I go about doing it?


Go for it. Opportunity does not knock too many times in life! flowerforyou

willy_cents's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
just do it like fred flinstone did wilma...lol

Redneckmaninsc's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
YES, do....and just man up!

merlot42's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
first you steal her cat.... after a couple days tell her you found it! works every time!

chemung5's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:39 PM
tell her u should go out as friends and chill..... BS like that ........jmo

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Mon 03/17/08 07:40 PM
Maybe tell her you'd like to see her and ask her to lunch over the weekend....

blondguy42's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:40 PM
start up the conversation with small talk and when u feel the time is right, as her out, dont be shy, hope this helps.

lcjw's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:40 PM

Sure you should why not? Just ask her.

Irad you are such a good looking man.

dolphin14's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:41 PM
OMG, YES...i would start talking with her and see how she is feeling, then just ask her if she wants to meet for a drink or coffee...What do u have to lose? NOTHIN

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Mon 03/17/08 07:41 PM

call her, and say simply, how about we grab a cuppa coffee.


coffee is always a good way to startflowerforyou good luck

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Mon 03/17/08 07:41 PM

call her, and say simply, how about we grab a cuppa coffee.


Yeah and if she doesn't want to give her phone number to you then you know she is not that interested. Good Luck!flowerforyou

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Mon 03/17/08 07:42 PM

first you steal her cat.... after a couple days tell her you found it! works every time!
hahaha, that one I actually like, lol

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Mon 03/17/08 07:42 PM


Sure you should why not? Just ask her.

Irad you are such a good looking man.
Thank you.

Dominator55's photo
Mon 03/17/08 07:42 PM
The whole cat idea is good, but the coffee thing would prob work too. She's prob not gonna make the first step so you should definitely go for it!!!

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Mon 03/17/08 07:44 PM



Sure you should why not? Just ask her.

Irad you are such a good looking man.
Thank you.


No no... thank YOU. laugh :wink:

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