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Topic: Is it really better
Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 03/22/08 05:04 PM
to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all?

hottpinkilicious Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 552	Sat 03/22/08 05:05 PM
no....before it happened, you didn't know what you were missing....

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/22/08 05:05 PM
Deep thoughts by Peccy!!

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 03/22/08 05:06 PM Edited by Peccy on Sat 03/22/08 05:13 PM
not hardly PATS!

hunter870 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 772	Sat 03/22/08 05:09 PM
yes

hottpinkilicious Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 552	Sat 03/22/08 05:09 PM
Just lost a little boy I was trying to adopt. His biological mother starved him asnd his sister. He was 8 pounds at 4 months. The sister was 14 months old and starved to death. The courts gave the little guy back to her. Everywhere I see a little boy, my heart breaks hoping he is okay. Before I loved him, I never truly knew what love is...

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Sat 03/22/08 05:11 PM
I would say yes because how you choose to react to this, be it positive or negative, are the building blocks that are used to define us as a person.

MrMxyzptlk Joined Tue 03/18/08 Posts: 628	Sat 03/22/08 05:12 PM
loved and lost = memories (good or bad) never have = ignorance is bliss I'm confused......

yashafox_F4X1 Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 2079	Sat 03/22/08 05:12 PM
Sure. I learned from all my relationships. Made the time pass better, too.

CyPoet Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 12494	Sat 03/22/08 05:13 PM
Just lost a little boy I was trying to adopt. His biological mother starved him asnd his sister. He was 8 pounds at 4 months. The sister was 14 months old and starved to death. The courts gave the little guy back to her. Everywhere I see a little boy, my heart breaks hoping he is okay. Before I loved him, I never truly knew what love is...

david1972 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 323	Sat 03/22/08 05:15 PM
well i lost a child at 4 months old and every moment i was with him is a memory ill always have

Marie55 Joined Wed 08/30/06 Posts: 7007	Sat 03/22/08 05:16 PM
Hottpink - I am so sorry for your loss in the adoption. I just don't understand the court system sometimes. I understand they want to keep families together, but how awful after she had already killed her daughter. So sorry you were hurt like that, I can only imagine the pain.

tonia25 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 844	Sat 03/22/08 05:16 PM
loved and lost RATHER than never to have loved at all...IMO

hellkitten54 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 11707	Sat 03/22/08 05:16 PM
Just lost a little boy I was trying to adopt. His biological mother starved him asnd his sister. He was 8 pounds at 4 months. The sister was 14 months old and starved to death. The courts gave the little guy back to her. Everywhere I see a little boy, my heart breaks hoping he is okay. Before I loved him, I never truly knew what love is... That really breaks my heart. Im so sorry.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Sat 03/22/08 05:17 PM
Not sure i've never loved so yea

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 03/22/08 05:17 PM
to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all? yes

lulu24 Joined Sun 02/11/07 Posts: 6033	Sat 03/22/08 05:39 PM
no.

texasrose9 Joined Fri 08/17/07 Posts: 1140	Sat 03/22/08 05:42 PM
loved and lost........ but sometimes, the losses make it harder to keep trudging on..........

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 03/22/08 08:28 PM
idk i'll tell if i fall in love again

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sat 03/22/08 08:35 PM
to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all? No, I think it's better that you never loved at all than to have loved and lost.