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We don't have the right?
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I think a lot of medical history needs to be out in the open too. I'd be plenty pissed if someone was HIV positive and didn't want to tell me about it. Ditto with other STD's and other transmissable diseases. Privacy is one thing, general honesty and public safety is another. I also agree with the need to tell folks about transgender changes. I don't know how I would react, in a dating arraingement, though I personally have no problems with it. Good point. I wonder if they also feel that one with STDs has the right to with hold that information as well. That also is medical history, but I agree that it should be disclosed when dating. EXCELLENT Point! |
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Yeah, I think if you have to ask after like 3 years or so, then maybe there's bigger concerns with the relationship to worry about, but if you're just getting to know one another and just starting to date, I don't see anything wrong with asking, it's part of getting to know someone. Now, you got me to wondering, though...just how would one broach this subject? |
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I think anyone that wouldn't tell is being extremely selfish and deceitful. I don't understand why someone would not tell. Would they want to risk getting to really like the person, and later them finding out?
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How would you know, though Mark....if they didn't tell Mingle.
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I feel transgendered person should be upfront about it when dating. I can understand why they would want to with hold that information, but they should be honest and upfront about it. Not everyone is open to dating one who is transgendered, and they should respect others rights just as much as others should respect their rights to be transgendered. I totally agree. |
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I think if you had to ask maybe you don't know enough about that person to date them. But, I also do feel that it is HORRIBLY wrong for someone not to advise someone of this right upfront.
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I think it would be stupid of me to let other people's stupidity bother me too much, because I learned a long time ago I only have control of myself...and not even that when I drink too much  Go, dominate yourself in the bedroom and come out on top like a man. Well THAT was stupid..who says man is on top!  But, see  it doesn't bother me
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I think it would be stupid of me to let other people's stupidity bother me too much, because I learned a long time ago I only have control of myself...and not even that when I drink too much
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The stars twinkle, and the moon listens, and you are exposed...
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I like a 8lb Boston Butt, seasoned to perfection and cooked until it falls from the bone, then pulled and drenched in Sweet Baby Ray's BBQ sauce...YmmmmmmYummmmMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm MAMA!
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Speaking up might not stop ALL creeps. But, it sure will put a damper on that particular one at that particular moment.
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I think creeps will continue to deceive unsuspecting people unless people do speak up. I would risk a friendship to keep her safe. That is just me. My conscious would eat away at me, if I didn't say something and something really really bad happened. I like that banana better than the other one!!!  Yeah, this one is more like me...SEXY banana!
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Are you who you say you are?
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I find it very interesting that alot of folks that haven't been around in years are showing up to comment on things. Just find it interesting.......  Why would you find that interesting? How do you know they havn't been around for years? Is this an observation or something that really bothers you for some reason? I ask because you have brought this up several times on other threads. As if, for some reason they don't belong here. Or are up to something??? I find it interesting you keep saying this. And who are you speaking of? I'm up to something........... That is becoming obvious. |
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I think creeps will continue to deceive unsuspecting people unless people do speak up. I would risk a friendship to keep her safe. That is just me. My conscious would eat away at me, if I didn't say something and something really really bad happened.
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Yes, I agree. CONCRETE evidence would definitely have to be available before I would accuse anyone. I am not like that. But, the topic is if YOU DO HAVE that evidence and that person lied to is a GOOD friend.
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I would. Just because of safety. I just couldn't knowingly let someone I care about walk into a deceitful relationship.
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put yourself in your good friends shoes. would you want to know? Oh, I should have said that I would pass it on. I am not good at keeping secrets. :) I was speaking hypothetically for people's views on this. |
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If you knew for a fact that someone on a dating or social network site was NOT at all who they claimed to be and you knew this person was lying to someone you consider a good friend, would you pass on that info or feel they are adults and should find out on their own?
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Edited by
lilangel2
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Sat 05/19/12 10:40 AM
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What I am talking about is physical death. If you knew a way to live for say 500 - 1000 years and be healthy by doing certain things that might take some mental and spiritual or physical discipline, would you want to know how and would you be able to commit to doing it? this is a different question than the thread title being immortal is a bit different than living a long time but not an infinite time I Still wouldnt want to do it though, as a human, I do feel boredom and pain and I wouldnt want to recycle those things in different ways (As life does) for five to ten centuries... Yes, I changed the question when I found out how many people don't want immortality. People want to die. I find that hard to believe, but that is what I am hearing. We (our bodies) were not designed to live forever , so we probably don't have that desire. Like a good pair of shoes...they are really nice and comfortable at first, but there comes the time to replace them. We still keep our feet, but we get a new pair of shoes. I think there is much greater things after this life. Greater experiences. Plus it is the natural process to die, and I believe to be reborn. Okay, that is your heart felt belief. But what if you are wrong? And if you are right, that we will live on forever spiritually, then what is 1000 years compared to Infinity? If I could live to be 1000 and still be youthful, I would say yes. True, we can only speculate about this. Here is my comment on another thread (about reincarnation) "I believe reincarnation makes more sense than 1 life here on 1 measly planet to sort things all out! To me that would not make sense. Kazillion of universes and planets, yet only one physical lie to live in it all! This banana needs more than 1 life to sort it all out. I need more planets to explore, more universes and galaxies. I feel I have lived many lives before because I am so in tuned to things bigsmile But, I only actually recall one." And , in this moment in history there also is nothing to show that anyone can live to 1000 and still be youthful. If it was so, why not 2000...50,0000 or an infinity all in the same body? We will live longer in the future though, just by virtue of medical advancements, organ donations, etc. But, I would not want to live forever in the same body. I think I would get bored. I like the idea of having different peelings on my banana
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one is a girl and one is a boy
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