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Topic: Are there some things better left unsaid?
Baabs's photo
Thu 04/02/09 02:27 PM



I have learned to tell them only what they need to know!!


Oh my god you sound like my roomate. Maybe I need to get inside your head! (peeking at your ears)


It's been my experience that the less you know the better off you arelaugh


In some ways yes. but...I think not telling me certain things takes a way my freedom to choice if I want to do something or not.

davidben1's photo
Thu 04/02/09 02:47 PM
for whatever and all oneself is, there is one that willing to embrace it all, and to withhold will work for a while, until self is miserable and canont figure out why???

if something is not accepted, it will hate itself, as the words of another it seek to love it, will be as way to serious, and pain inflicting, and emotional despair will surely come for all parties involved???

people accept more than what the mind say's they will, and after the emotion's of the mind pass, the heart comes out???

anything will respect total honesty for the sake of another's good, even if at first the "another" cry and scream???

there is truly no free person within, if it has to hide, as what oneself hide, another will feel, and in doing another will doubt and question itself, it's own senses, which is unto doubting it's very own sanity in time, as they will know they feel something, whether it is spoken or not???

one may learn to not speak, to preserve and get back what it wish, many times a man not wishing to hurt the feelings of a women, but just the same, it will never end the way self wished anyhow, as the very foundations of what itself wished were subverted, which was total honesty of all oneself, which be nothing more than all one feel and know and want???

if a man wish to screw 20 women at once, then it is his right if he find 20 willing women, but the effect it has on those 20 women not recognized, and taken into account, will come back to visit himself ten fold???

it is not wrong to want anything, but rather shall only bring pain to all involved, if the mutual effect is not considered in all things???

we all speak our reality, i but speak mine.

peace man









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Thu 04/02/09 02:58 PM

woodford's photo
Thu 04/02/09 06:43 PM
some secrets are best left alone. however after many years with the same person they all tend to come out. handing over a list at the start of a relationship to me would kill the fun in learning about the person Im interested in.

relationships can be like presents that you can keep unwraping and finding new cool things in.

mainichi's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:48 PM
I think that one should feel comfortable with telling their partner everything. Just -feel- comfortable. So, if they were hypothetically in a situation where they had to tell their partner everything, they could do it with confidence, knowing that they wouldn't mind. However, I don't believe (other than really major things, that your partner may be hurt at, if you choose not to tell them) you need to tell them everything. Especially if the opportunity never arises, it could get really weird, I think...

talldub's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:52 PM

:heart: Do you think that the person you love should know every secret you own, or are there some things better left unsaid?:heart:
There are things i'll take to my grave with me. No one will ever know them, they are my burden to bear and mine alone.

Drivinmenutz's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:53 PM

:heart: Do you think that the person you love should know every secret you own, or are there some things better left unsaid?:heart:


Definitely...


noblenan's photo
Fri 04/03/09 01:09 PM
Edited by noblenan on Fri 04/03/09 01:11 PM

:heart: Do you think that the person you love should know every secret you own, or are there some things better left unsaid?:heart:


Know every secret? Hardly! But, I would like to have someone I felt comfortable enough with to tell every secret, if I wanted to tell.


Interesting question! flowerforyou
Interesting answers!flowerforyou
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Fri 04/03/09 01:12 PM
Keep your mouth shut.....

sometimes.

misstina2's photo
Fri 04/03/09 05:12 PM
:heart: say what you need to say:heart:

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Fri 04/03/09 05:16 PM
Yes

TheOne0919's photo
Fri 04/03/09 05:25 PM
If you over indulge in details or events, you are just opening up the opportunity for the other person to over-analyze them and cause confusion or misinterpretation. But sometimes people want to know those little details. Honesty is the best policy. Its your call.

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