Topic: To All Men
BlackForkFella's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:12 PM
I had a girlfriend who's aunt passed away and left her $100,000. We broke up soon after that. She wanted to party and smoke dope and I told her to invest it in a modest house paid and clear. So I kicked myself out the door.Money doesn't mean anything as long as the bills are paid and you're with someone you love.

singlelovin's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:19 PM

You gotta Benz...
I gotta busket...
Gimme a dolla...

Lovin you. Very funny and taken in the true spirt that it was meant to be.happy

singlelovin's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:22 PM

I had a girlfriend who's aunt passed away and left her $100,000. We broke up soon after that. She wanted to party and smoke dope and I told her to invest it in a modest house paid and clear. So I kicked myself out the door.Money doesn't mean anything as long as the bills are paid and you're with someone you love.

Very Cool. I really just asked the question because I saw where a guy asked how to spot a gold digger. I wanted to see what the men would say if a women asked the same thing about a man. I have to say I am very impressed with most of the answers that are coming across and yours is one of the best. Thanks

singlelovin's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:24 PM


How do you know when a man is after your money ie: a man digger?


Better question: Which one are you in that photo?

The one on the left, the dark hair one.

singlelovin's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:25 PM

if you can't tell you may want to consider taking a break from dating while you figure it out, otherwise people are just going to take advantage of you.

(not to sound harsh, just my opinion)


Wow, way harsh. I was just wanting to see what the men would say when a women asked the question about men who go after womens money because I have been looking at the answers to where a guy asked how do you know if a women is a gold digger. Its all in fun my friend but it is funny to see how you took it. What is it hun? Have you been there and done that?
Sorry if this was to harsh but right back at you. lol

RKISIT's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:28 PM
i think my answers get ignored cause they are to the point and the OP can't handle the truthful sarcasism:smile:

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 12/31/08 06:50 PM
If they want to move in immediately
If what they say they do and what they really do don't match
The sex will be dry and unfulfilling literally! There will be a quality like he is not really all that into being in bed with you.

REAL DEAD GIVE AWAY!
They talk about money...
...especially yours!

Another is when they become evasive about their income and money.
Some guys are thick headed remembering dates and I am one of them. You should be able to tell when he is sincere about forgetting something like an anniversary or B Day. Stress can do weird things to people. But if his forgetting is endemic then there is an issue or red flag there.

Another dead give away is when they want to cojoin credit.
Look, if you really got money you do have to watch out. Gold Diggers come in both flavors!
Look for these signs as well,
Do you always pay when you go out?
If so you are defiantly playing into the game.
How much of his flash is on credit?
Is he really honest about his money?
Can you confirm what he says?
There are ways to run a credit and back ground check on him just to be sure. There are companies that will for a fee look for skeletons in his closet and also Private investigators can dig stuff up as well.

!!!! C Y A !!!!!

Real men pull their own weight!

canaryrx8's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:01 PM
I just hate seeing people get taken advantage of, I thought you were asking because you honestly didn't know, not because it was just some experiment to see how people react to your question. Again I'm sorry if that sounded harsh, but it was more out of concern than trying to slam you or anything like that. Good luck out there, and yes, it did happen to me actually, which is another reason why it sucks to watch other people go through it.

Krimsa's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:03 PM

How do you know when a man is after your money ie: a man digger?


Did you mean to ask this question of the women? I think you made an oops Anyway, Ive never had this problem arise.

seahawks's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:04 PM

If he turns down sex, it's a dead giveaway!
laugh laugh laugh laugh

wanttachat's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:06 PM
when he doesn't want to work

RKISIT's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:07 PM
actually it could be the bloody hand in my pic from chronic masturbation in 2008 with my right hand,hope things will change in 2009 like to my left hand:smile:

no photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:08 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

a woman with money.......

I'll stear clear thanks......

it aint worth it!!!!!

Money comes and money goes......
there is sooo much more that is important


alonenotlonely's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:09 PM

For real. Have you ever met a man that said no to sex?


Well . . .

I really don't . . .

er ummm . . .

ask very many.

It was just a guess, I swear!

RKISIT's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:09 PM
sometimes when i take a shower the soap in the soap dish turns me on:smile:

sniker0721's photo
Wed 12/31/08 08:39 PM
i have given up on trying to find a rich woman, i cant even find one that will get a damn job!

usernamefayou's photo
Wed 12/31/08 11:30 PM
Wouldn't a lady with money want to take care of a guy?

Where's that invisible hand all you capitalists?

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 01/01/09 04:24 AM
For real. Have you ever met a man that said no to sex?


Yes. Me. Contrary to popular belief, there ARE men out there who aren't slobbering dogs.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 01/01/09 04:27 AM

How do you know when a man is after your money ie: a man digger?







drinks When he moves in with you and quits his job.drinks

transientmind's photo
Thu 01/01/09 04:30 AM
Edited by transientmind on Thu 01/01/09 04:32 AM

For real. Have you ever met a man that said no to sex?
More precise edit: I have said no.laugh