Topic: How many people do you communicate w/ online at once?
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Tue 03/24/09 11:28 PM
I'm curious to find out how many people you normally communicate with online...

I think girls usually have multiple people contacting them. Guys may be in this situation, too.

I personally have found it to be very difficult to keep emails/calls going concurrently with more than ... a couple people. I do want to take my time and focus on getting to know them (if there's interest).

What do you do then? Maybe hide your profile in the mean time?


I_am_will's photo
Tue 03/24/09 11:29 PM
as many as get sent to me

Queene123's photo
Tue 03/24/09 11:30 PM
im normally on invisable mode in yahoo. for i know my guy and several other people know that and if i show online that would be not often

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 03/24/09 11:32 PM
two right now ...but i have chatted with 6 people at a time !laugh

MmmmHmmm's photo
Tue 03/24/09 11:33 PM
i communicate with many many many people in the forums. by email it varies depending on the day. some i also keep in contact with via text and chatting on the phone. yes, all people i met here.

you would probably make friends more easily if you had any kind of information about yourself in your pro...flowerforyou

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Tue 03/24/09 11:34 PM
I don't communicate with very many people in a concurrent fashion, which is probably because I don't have all that many people to communicate with in the first place.

MmmmHmmm's photo
Tue 03/24/09 11:40 PM

I don't communicate with very many people in a concurrent fashion, which is probably because I don't have all that many people to communicate with in the first place.



or because he just chooses not to communicate with too many people...:cry:

Adamal29's photo
Wed 03/25/09 10:56 PM
I like about two at a time. More than that, and I get real sick of typing the same stuff about myself over and over.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 03/26/09 07:52 AM
I'm currently emailing 7 differant women on three dating sites. I'm also dating three women in real life.

To meet the right person, you have to meet a lot of differant people.

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/26/09 08:01 AM

I'm currently emailing 7 differant women on three dating sites. I'm also dating three women in real life.

To meet the right person, you have to meet a lot of differant people.


You the MAN! laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 03/26/09 08:18 AM

I'm currently emailing 7 differant women on three dating sites. I'm also dating three women in real life.

To meet the right person, you have to meet a lot of differant people.


You're busy! laugh

Destin2gocrazy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 08:36 AM
funny you should ask that because I was thinking about that last night.

I have been chatting with some of the same men for 9 years now. They are in Canada, Ireland and other places. I will more then likely never meet them and saying that- we are very close and actually ok with our online relationship.

I came to this site- to not only have support on the message boards, but to dive into the REAL LIVE thing now that I feel ready :tongue: - actually meeting and dating. I have recently met someone I like and will have our first date this weekend. Does this mean I will not talk to other men and maybe meet them? I dont think sonoway ...

I am talking to another guy on here and have gone out with yet two others from work.. so for now I am not limiting who I talk to. One day I may meet THE ONE (not looking though) and that will change. But for now I say BRING EM ON!smokin

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Thu 03/26/09 08:40 AM
I'm talking with people on two different sites. And more than one in each. One guy started off with what nearly sounded like a marriage proposal.

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Fri 03/27/09 01:35 AM

I'm currently emailing 7 differant women on three dating sites. I'm also dating three women in real life.

To meet the right person, you have to meet a lot of differant people.


Wow,u are quite the multitasker..I am guessing you are never bored..lol


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Fri 03/27/09 06:04 AM


I'm currently emailing 7 differant women on three dating sites. I'm also dating three women in real life.

To meet the right person, you have to meet a lot of differant people.


Wow,u are quite the multitasker..I am guessing you are never bored..lol




I always wonder how people find the time to date multiple people. Are they always out and never home? Or, do they only see each person every once in a while?

prisoner's photo
Fri 03/27/09 06:50 AM
:smile: a gentleman does not "kiss and tell" be seeing you

TheShadow's photo
Fri 03/27/09 08:43 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Fri 03/27/09 08:44 AM
if i'm interested in someone, and see that they feel the same way. All my attention is on that person. But knowing i have a lot friends on here. some emails are shorter then others.

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Fri 03/27/09 09:07 AM
There was a time I talked with several men at a time, I was very upfront and honest about I am not in the least interested in being exclusive and I am open to friendships. When I accepted dates from them it was very very casual and I always offered to pay my share of the date or I would treat them to the next one.

I think a person has to do what is comfortable for them. I know some can "multitask" others can't they only talk to one at a time.

Now as far as friends go I talk to many many a day online some I have met and others I would love to meet one day.

I also have several overseas guy friends that I chat with on voice chat or skype webcam.

Do what you are comfortable with, I have to say though I wouldn't hide my profile till you were in an
exclusive relationship and then if you were out here for forums Why???