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Topic: first visit to his/her place
seamac's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:26 PM
What turns you off or on the first time you see your new 'dates' place?

Among my turn offs are lots of clutter and dirty dishes, a dirty bathroom is a real turn off. If it should go that far, dirty sheets are just gross - run!
Conversly, clean is good! Lived in is good, some clutter - signs of life happening...

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:29 PM
Cats

msmyka's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:29 PM
I'm not a neat freak so I don't expect guys to be but a place that is filthy dirty is a turn off. Also, signs that another female would be not so good.

talldub's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:32 PM

What turns you off or on the first time you see your new 'dates' place?

Among my turn offs are lots of clutter and dirty dishes, a dirty bathroom is a real turn off. If it should go that far, dirty sheets are just gross - run!
Conversly, clean is good! Lived in is good, some clutter - signs of life happening...

Her parents teeth in a glass in the bathroom

evilbabe277's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:37 PM
A dirty home there is a difference between messy and dirty..

Porn laying out in the open..

No food/drinks in the house..

The gas and electric being shut off..

Smelly..

No furniture..

Dirty laundry piled up..


no photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:38 PM
No bed:banana:

tngxl65's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:39 PM
her mother

Dan99's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:39 PM
You should at least wait until the second visit before you start leaving any clues you are a total slob.

talldub's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:39 PM

A dirty home there is a difference between messy and dirty..

Porn laying out in the open..

No food/drinks in the house..

The gas and electric being shut off..

Smelly..

No furniture..

Dirty laundry piled up..



Sounds like a class act!

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:47 PM

Cats


Yep.laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 03/31/09 03:53 PM
Dirty mags in

the bathroom

Dirty dishes
dirty clothes on the floor


no photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:04 PM
It's downright disrespectful to not clean your place up when you knew you were gonna have company.

2 1/2 strikes.

seamac's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:10 PM

No bed:banana:


LOL!!!!!!!! a lot

seamac's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:14 PM

Cats


cats - good or bad? After all what is it worth without a little *****?

I have one, her name is Little Bella. Hmmmmmmmmmm

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:15 PM
Lived in is acceptable but filthy, nope not for me. Cluttered to the point of not bein able to see the tops of tables or the floors, oh no.
If he knows I'm comin to visit I would hope that he would take the time to try an clean up abit. If I know company is comin I always clean an make an effort to have the house lookin nice. shades

willing2's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:20 PM
A row of urns on the fireplace mantle.

no photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:22 PM
I remember the first time I visited my ex husband's apartment. It was all clean and tidy. He opened the closet door to get something out and must have forgotten he stuffed all his crap in there before my arrival. It all came sort of sliding out at him and he was trying to stuff it back in before I saw. God, that was funny.

njmom05's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:27 PM
Thankfully most of the men I've dated have been great about keeping their home clean. I am usually the messier one.

no photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:29 PM

Thankfully most of the men I've dated have been great about keeping their home clean. I am usually the messier one.


Well it's not like you don't have other things you have to worry about first!

papersmile's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:30 PM
I don't like to see garbage splat on the cupboards when it's missed its target and I can't stand to see hair on the bathroom floor.

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