Topic: Has drugs ruined anybody elses relationships?
EquusDancer's photo
Mon 03/01/10 09:22 PM
Yep, the ex who threatened to behead the parakeets was going through cigarette/nicotine withdrawel.

Won't get involved with anyone who does drugs, legal or otherwise.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Mon 03/01/10 09:23 PM
No. friendships though !

no photo
Tue 03/02/10 07:58 AM
I am one of them.
Drank and used myself out of a marriage, college, life.




Clean and sober a long time now.

msharmony's photo
Tue 03/02/10 08:04 AM
weed never has,, but coke has. Dated what I thought was an EX cokehead who turned out to still be using. I saw one of his paranoid, aggressive, breakdowns and that was all it took for me to tell him get help or Im gone. He didnt get help, I left.

newarkjw's photo
Tue 03/02/10 08:07 AM


-As far as your question is concerned;No,I have never been
in that type of relationship nor would I ever allow myself
to be caught up in that type of living hell.I'm sorry that
you went through this & I sincerly hope that you learned
from this terrible experience.I did lose my sister-in-law
to drugs however.I loved her very much & miss her greatly;(
I dedicated this song"Little Sister"by Jewel Kilcher to her.
Dear Margaret R.I.P. Gone but never forgotten.:heart: flowerforyou
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f5Rjfyc7Gnc&feature=PlayList&p=DB0B5125F7C458F0&index=8


Don't we all just wish.
That after we are gone.
Someone remembers us.
Maybe in a forum somewhere, among strangers.
No matter the cause of our passing.
They speak of us with fondness, and respect.

How nice would that be?

Thanks for bringing that home.waving






I agree..... flowerforyou

skydancingA's photo
Tue 03/02/10 08:11 AM

I am one of them.
Drank and used myself out of a marriage, college, life.
Clean and sober a long time now.

I hope you are enjoying life more.
Nice thing to brag on :-)

Olerich's photo
Tue 03/02/10 10:29 AM
Yes!!!! It wasn't the only factor but yes it has. The one I just got out of.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 03/02/10 11:10 AM
Myself I have never been in a relationship where drugs was a factor. noway

Dict8's photo
Tue 03/02/10 11:11 AM

I am one of them.
Drank and used myself out of a marriage, college, life.




Clean and sober a long time now.

Congratulations!

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Tue 03/02/10 11:51 AM

weed never has,, but coke has. Dated what I thought was an EX cokehead who turned out to still be using. I saw one of his paranoid, aggressive, breakdowns and that was all it took for me to tell him get help or Im gone. He didnt get help, I left.

Wish more women had your backbone :thumbsup: No one (male/female) should have to deal with that.

no photo
Tue 03/02/10 06:47 PM


I am one of them.
Drank and used myself out of a marriage, college, life.
Clean and sober a long time now.

I hope you are enjoying life more.
Nice thing to brag on :-)


All in All....I am livin' Large!:banana:

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 03/02/10 07:51 PM
Razor Blade and Barb Wire

Hi, ya, Barbie, how's Ken?
Jeez, where you been?
We got a divorce.
Oh, sorry to hear that.
Yeah, life's a *****.

So, do you come here often?
That line is kind of wore out.
But no first time
since we split up.
Have we met before?

Oh, you don't remember
me then.
Well, you face does
seem familiar.
Last Christmas party, Barbie.

Oh, I remember you now.
Yeah, you were so wasted
that you peed in the punch bowl.
Yes, brings back old times, lol.
You're as sexy as ever, Barbie.

You men are all alike, Razor.
Hey, cut me some slack, babe.
Just cut the crap
I don't have time for this.
Damn, who pissed in your Wheaties!

So, what are drinking, Barbie?
I am drinking Tequila Sunrises.
Hey, bartender a drink
for the lady
and I'll have a Jack Daniels.

So, what happened between
you and Ken?
Well, I came home one night
and caught him with a new doll.
They were both in our bed.

Damn!, Barbie tough break, kid.
Yeah, I try not to think of it.
I can't believe it
after so many years of marriage.
Bartender, just keep em coming.


AlisonHo3's photo
Wed 03/03/10 01:31 AM
Edited by AlisonHo3 on Wed 03/03/10 01:37 AM

I saw one of his paranoid, aggressive, breakdowns

Omg it's so afull. But when your so deep in you feel their pain and just make excuses for them, but it doesn't last.
Like I'm not saying I never use drugs or anything, but I could never left it get like that bad that I would be hurting someone I love.

My Ex, has been in so many treatment centers and jails over the years trying to come off it and he just can't.

I lost another friend just over a year ago to Drugs. And the aftermath for his family has been afull, people blame them, but they done nothing but love and care for him. They're in so much pain but get judeged and so does his partner and daughter.

Then I have other friends who have been clean for a long time and they said they can't just get off it. Something has to happen.

msharmony's photo
Thu 03/04/10 07:45 AM


I saw one of his paranoid, aggressive, breakdowns

Omg it's so afull. But when your so deep in you feel their pain and just make excuses for them, but it doesn't last.
Like I'm not saying I never use drugs or anything, but I could never left it get like that bad that I would be hurting someone I love.

My Ex, has been in so many treatment centers and jails over the years trying to come off it and he just can't.

I lost another friend just over a year ago to Drugs. And the aftermath for his family has been afull, people blame them, but they done nothing but love and care for him. They're in so much pain but get judeged and so does his partner and daughter.

Then I have other friends who have been clean for a long time and they said they can't just get off it. Something has to happen.


sorry to hear of your loss,,,

no photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:12 AM
ANGIE

I saw a needle in the trash
When I got back from the store
I thought you said you weren’t
Going to do that anymore

Your mom said “Can you take her?
I don’t know what to do
And you’re the only one
She ever listens to”

Yeah, I guess I could’ve tried harder
I guess I gave up too soon
But you couldn’t stay away from the bad stuff
Like the time you stabbed me in the bathroom

The last time that I saw you
You were living in the woods
And the things you were doing to survive
None of them were good

You didn’t listen to me after all
And by now you’re probably dead
I wish I could go back and fix your life
Or maybe I should fix mine instead


FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:42 AM
The heathen weed will get you! It'll get ya! Heathen weed!

No, but really, yes I've had a relationship dissolve because of drugs...but then again, I was smoking weed at the time, she chose meth. It happens, learn from it, and don't reflect on what couldn't be changed in the first place. Some people get lucky and it never happens to them, but most will know what it is like.

Dict8's photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:45 AM
I had an ex that fed me Adderalls constantly. If she was pissed she would choose to not give em' to me. Talk about control. Been off em' for 2 years now...thank God. Those things ate me up! :tongue:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:46 AM

I had an ex that fed me Adderalls constantly. If she was pissed she would choose to not give em' to me. Talk about control. Been off em' for 2 years now...thank God. Those things ate me up! :tongue:


Lortab is better.:tongue:

Dict8's photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:50 AM


I had an ex that fed me Adderalls constantly. If she was pissed she would choose to not give em' to me. Talk about control. Been off em' for 2 years now...thank God. Those things ate me up! :tongue:


Lortab is better.:tongue:
Adderall trumps Lortabs ANYDAY, man! smokin

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 03/04/10 08:51 AM



I had an ex that fed me Adderalls constantly. If she was pissed she would choose to not give em' to me. Talk about control. Been off em' for 2 years now...thank God. Those things ate me up! :tongue:


Lortab is better.:tongue:
Adderall trumps Lortabs ANYDAY, man! smokin


And it all started with a terrible back pain, and awful concentration.smokin