I have been on here for some time now and I have to say the mutual match thing sucks because all the matches I get do not even have enough courtesy to respond back to at least say not interested instead of nothing,eather your hear for dating or not.
I would like feedback on this one please

it seems everyone has complained about mutual match. thing is the internet is a strange place, and the people on here make it stranger. i'm sure a lot of people were eager and maybe a bit excited when they first joined, but this dating business is more work than play. in this age of have it now if not sooner people give up on things that don't happen instantaneously. i have been here for a minute and it seems to be that the forums are better for interacting with people. finding that special someone is possible here, i've seen it happen. hit the forums if you like, and at the very least you might find some friends who give a chit and will actually miss you when you don't log on

It took me about three years to figure this online dating thing out. My advice to you is to try saying something different. Try being more conversational in your messages and have fun with it. Use humor! Don't worry if she'll get the joke or not.

The best time to send a message is early on a Saturday or Sunday morning or about 6PM during the week. Or anytime she's online. You're more likely to be at the top of her list and more likely to be read.

Don't focus on one woman at a time. Send out ten messages a night to ten different women. Don't worry if you may be out of her league, let her decide that for herself.

Good fishing!

Your post's name,,already upset me....

as there are MANY user's on the Net,,Both men and women,,but,,Grrrrr
yes,,,some just PLAY!!!

and the few who are REAL,,,YOU have to read well,,to know them,,or see them here...most won't match with you,,or send you the first email,,,as thats YOUR job to do,,,lol

Just be creative and funny,,the rest will take shape in time,,and in them seeing you in a post,,or through replies to a post..

time and being seen,,is VERY needed to do good at meeting anyone on here,,Good luck and have fun man..

Personally I come here for the forums. I believe in "chat globally, date locally".

Keep posting and don't forget to go back and contribute to a post you started...420 comes to mind...

my only mutual match was a 60 year old woman from the midwest...

i don't get this whole complaint. how is getting no responses from a sucky mutual match "game playing women" as the title suggests? anyway, get in the forums and mingle, lots of cool people here!

Welcome to the world of online dating my dear. My matches don't reply either. Manners these days are scarce.

actually, there are other options on this site beyon dating and relationship,, there is the option to make friends, and I think there is even a pen pal type option,,,

Keep in mind there are some women who don't log on anymore to this site....

scrabble
scruples
monopoly
strip poker
naked twister
black jack
arm wrestling
leg wrestling
beer bongs
quarters

I love games....