:-)Hello, ve u heard why men invade marriages today?
:-)What r their reasons?
:-)10 reasons for this.
My readers, wat do think or contribute. Till i meet u again to diggest it for u, take care.

Invade or evade?

I'm trying to decide if this is about war or a retreat.....

good question, cause a man has to have a woman to marry, (for now anyway)


so is the question why dont men want to marry?
easy enough, they think something better is gonna happen along once they commit to 'only' one...

I think it is that a single man is hanging with his married friend. Making a pest of himself with the wife. Lingering in the married life without getting married his self.

They are insecure.

They want to feel more confident, so they feel that using women is the answer.


They are control freaks and use manipulation.


They don't have enough brain cells.

hey lets b clear wat invasion are we talking about here, am very confused.pls help!

Are you asking why they invade on someone else's marriage?

What did I just read?

The answer is D) all of the above.

something about 10 commandments, invasive marriages, men, some digging in the digestion....reasonable contributions,caring about what you think...


is this dude a politician?

when my son was a baby i was also married to my son dad
and i had been downtown and there was a guy that was trying to get to know me and i told him i was married
he didnt seem to care but of course i did
and that was the last time i had talk to him
and i learned later he happen to be a friend of mine brother
why i didnt know that it was because my friend never talked about his brother before.. and when i told him about the past situation he said im glad you didnt get together with him

This type of man, or could be a woman too for that matter, wants to have a sense of belonging. They are those who boost their ego by getting someone else's 'possession'.

I agree. It's like having the most toys...or proving you "outdid" someone else.

"Hey man, I have a confession....I'm in love with your wife."

"Good! Please take her!"

"Oh f**k...what the hell did I just take?"

I'm going to take the approach of "evading marriage". The answer will depend on the age of the man:

1. In this day of TV, satellite and internet younger men have mountains of information about why marriages fail and the aftermath compaired to when I was a teen (1960's).

2. Younger men read and hear about older men's experiences and many are afraid they will be the next statistic.

3. Younger people today (teens and twenties) seem to have more sex more often then married couples. When younger men hear this they feel why should I get married only to have my sex life disappear with a woman (now wife) living in the same house.

4. Young men hear their older friends and male family members talk about loosing everything in a divorce. Another fear of marriage.

5. Many women change their priorities after children come. Where the husband was number one now he is three or four yet he is expected to keep her as number one. A rather dissapointing future.

Older men have experienced marriage and many have an unconscious requirement that a perspective bride ABSOLUTELY prove she won't do to him what his ex-wife did. The list could be long but they are just as hesitant to open their hearts as older women are to men.

The most appealing women I've met were already in relationships. I guess the good ones don't stay single long.

Boys are fancy on the outside.
Girls are fancy on the inside.



http://pbskids.org/rogers/songLyricsEverybodysFancy.html

Um, invade?

How do they invade?

Unless they are the "boy on the side"?

Guess I must be one bad girl as I am still single. I have to agree that with the rate of divorces these days; it would scare off both young and older men alike. I also don't think its the emotional scar of a bad marriage but the financial burden on men that is caused by divorcing their wives. I think before any guy or girl gets married; a prenaup should be signed.