Limits aren't always going to be set before.

When a woman sternly says "NO!" (About anything) she needs to be able to stay firm and determined, and back it up. A man needs to learn that NO probably means NO and he should not gamble on that.

When I was a young girl, three guys were playing around at a swimming hole and let me know that they intended to pick me up and throw me into the water. I was not feeling good and I said NO don't! They ignored me and all three approached me.

I really meant "no."

The three of them ended up getting kicked, some in their privates I'm sure, by a kicking screaming crazy woman. (Me). I was not kidding. They did not appreciate it, but they refused to hear me when I said NO!

Well, why not? If a man is expected to be able to control his sexual urges, then why can't a woman do the same?

Come to think of it, a woman can do the same, which is why plenty of women here say in their profiles that they aren't going to have sex until marriage. They say up front that they aren't into playing games. They have said "No" before anything happens.

I will give you this much. A man should ask a woman what her limits are, instead of waiting until reaching the point at which she says "No". That way the man doesn't get himself worked up for nothing.

What this thread is really about: Women just aren't interested in banging/being around ugly guys. Interpret that how you will. Ugly doesn't always mean exterior.

That isn't what this thread is about.

Hahahahahaha. Oh, that's awesome.

I feel like I can narrow this down!

DON'T HAVE NON-CONSENSUAL SEX WITH WOMEN. DON'T HAVE CONSENSUAL SEX WITH GIRLS UNDER 18 (in America, at least... unless you're under 18 too... and then if that's the case why the hell are you here?)

There are actually women that are really into rape fantasies, but that's definitely something that should probably be clarified beforehand, because most sane men won't be able to pick up on that secret desire.

If you're into BDSM, try using a safety word or the color system (yellow, red, purple [indebted to the one who taught me that]).

I think that covers it. I hope.

But seriously, don't rape women.

This came up in another thread, but I thought it could use a thread of it's own.

No means no. Do you agree with that? If not, why? What circumstances would make you not agree with it?

It ought to mean NO!
That's why you also have YES and MAYBE in the Language!

Exactly....No means no...Ladies, you can say it anyway you like...Soft and sexy, loud and mean...If the man you are saying no to refuses to stop, after he finishes, go straight to the police station, file a report, and request an escort to the nearest hospital...Tell them you have been raped and you want them to collect evidence and test you for STD's....When you are finished, go home, shower, rest...Make an appointment with a good therapist (you will probably need one) and wait for the trial...Let the man who refused to stop when you "told" him to explain his reason(s) to a judge and jury....Everyone is entitled to due process, even you....

What this thread is really about: Women just aren't interested in banging/being around ugly guys. Interpret that how you will. Ugly doesn't always mean exterior.

What this thread is really about: Women just aren't interested in banging/being around ugly guys. Interpret that how you will. Ugly doesn't always mean exterior.

Have you never been to a strip club? How would this thinking work there...How would you slow the bus down in that environment man.

You may find that T-bone on your eye or worse, if the bouncers feel like justifying the situation.

When I say No, I mean No. If a man thinks otherwise; he will be in for a painful surprise.