Topic: Stretch marks
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Sun 09/22/13 07:44 AM

Well the way I seen it was when I was with my kids mum, I helped put them there, so whats the big deal?


flowerforyou

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 09/22/13 03:44 PM
Yay why can't all guys take responsibility for women's body after childbirth, they say they want you to have their baby then leave you when your body changes, really rude.

ForeverYours999's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:01 AM
I have stretch marks. I honestly haven't met anyone without them. Even the tiniest people I know have them. For heaven's sake I started noticing them when I was in sixth grade. Granted, I had NO idea what these little red marks were, but alas... stretch marks. I was growing. I don't find them attractive nor unattractive. Just a simple part of the human body.

msharmony's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:40 AM
I don't understand how tattoos can be attractive but stretch marks not,,lol


use your imagination people, pretend the person had a tattoo placed on them that shows road maps,,,lol

massiel's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:43 AM

I don't understand how tattoos can be attractive but stretch marks not,,lol


use your imagination people, pretend the person had a tattoo placed on them that shows road maps,,,lol


rofl I LOOOOOVE it. Best response yet!:thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Thu 09/26/13 07:41 PM
I think all women are embarrassed of their stretch marks.
But why be? most men couldn't care less as long as you carry your self with pride, good hygiene and some class.
after all that's not the first ting they see.

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Sat 09/28/13 05:17 AM
Some men are just arrested adolescents looking for their Barbie doll. They live in a fantasy world.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 09/28/13 05:22 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Sat 09/28/13 05:23 AM
I have them..........so sue me!!!!


they are my battle scars...my war wounds....in fact



mine are kinda pretty!:heart:

Rhonda911's photo
Sat 09/28/13 05:48 AM
Edited by Rhonda911 on Sat 09/28/13 05:49 AM
I think it depends on how extreme, I have a kid but I made sure to take care of my belly the whole time, no stretch marks there which was my main goal, plus I was small when I got pregnant so I was active and ate super healthy. I didn't realize my upper outer thighs had gotten big so I have faint ones there but I don't think guys would notice them. My friend had twins and she has awful ones, to each their own but I do not blame her for not flaunting them because I'm sorry but they are disgusting, her middle looks like a 3D map, she wants a surgery, not sure a tummy tuck can fix that but hope for her sake something helps!!!

love_war1978's photo
Sat 09/28/13 08:57 PM
To be honest with y'all, I think stretch marks are somewhat attractive on a woman.

love_war1978's photo
Sat 09/28/13 08:58 PM
To be honest with y'all, I think stretch marks are somewhat attractive on a woman.

Queene123's photo
Sat 09/28/13 09:51 PM

Oh my God......lets see.....

I got stretch marks...

I have had 2 C-sections...so I have a muffin top..(that will never go away)..cut into the muscles.second one had to be made longer due to,deadly blood clot found at time of birth.

I keep my mustache shaved..lmao..along with all the other hairs...laugh

I am NOT and never will be again..a skinny barbie doll typeohwell whoaI am what most consider fat,,curving..chunky..obese..wtf..Thick..laugh

flowerforyou boobs...great...hotbox..tiny..never used..lol..laugh


oh and ha ha...I have ONE pair of shorts...that make a "camel toe"..bahahahaha...it is my white ones...dont know why..so do not wear them often..laugh slaphead



i also had 2 c-sections
and i still have stretch marks
my sisters was saying that vit b is good for that
she actually used it when she was pg with her son
it helps fade away the stretch marks

Queene123's photo
Sat 09/28/13 09:51 PM

Oh my God......lets see.....

I got stretch marks...

I have had 2 C-sections...so I have a muffin top..(that will never go away)..cut into the muscles.second one had to be made longer due to,deadly blood clot found at time of birth.

I keep my mustache shaved..lmao..along with all the other hairs...laugh

I am NOT and never will be again..a skinny barbie doll typeohwell whoaI am what most consider fat,,curving..chunky..obese..wtf..Thick..laugh

flowerforyou boobs...great...hotbox..tiny..never used..lol..laugh


oh and ha ha...I have ONE pair of shorts...that make a "camel toe"..bahahahaha...it is my white ones...dont know why..so do not wear them often..laugh slaphead



i also had 2 c-sections
and i still have stretch marks
my sisters was saying that vit b is good for that
she actually used it when she was pg with her son
it helps fade away the stretch marks

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Sat 09/28/13 11:25 PM
I used to have that cute small, flat abdomen that I could flaunt around and wear the skinny bikini until I got pregnant. I was underweight and had big babies. I put everything under the sun on, took my vitamins, ate healthy and exercised and I got stretch marks. On top of that, I had two c-sections. My abdominal muscles were cut and torn, but I have two beautiful kids. These are like my battle wounds. I have to face the fact that gone are my bikini days.

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Sun 09/29/13 01:32 AM

What do guys think about stretch marks. Many mothers have them or people who gain or lose weight rapidly.
I have heard men complain about what a woman is wearing whether it be clothes too much make-up, or if their legs aren't smooth enough, if a girl has a mustache but I've never heard a man complain about stretch marks. Why is that?

* And I'm not saying I have a mustache or anything, lol. But I hear men make comments about all sorts of stuff. What about stretch marks? I never hear a guy say, damn, that girl had some stretch marks! But i hear them say, look at her camel toe...(not to me) lol


The reality is that if you get stretchmarks they are permanent and any time you get heated up they will be more visible again. For extreme cases from pregnancy you do have an option like getting surgical help but then youll have a scar.
Stretchmarks from birth are nothing to be ashamed of.

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Sun 09/29/13 03:38 AM
i think as a man the best thing you can do is make your woman feel comfortable with her insecurities, let her know its ok and you accept her for the way she is.. dont go saying hey i like your stretchmarks cuz thats bs.. nobody like stretchmarks but its ok to have em and nothing to be shy about.. personaly it never bother me much.. bad breath ugly tatoo or biten of nails is turn ofs not stretchmarkss.. i know my oldest daugther of 16 has them and she was very insecure about it we talked about it many times and now she knows that if some1 is so shallow for just looking at this she is probably better of without the person in her life.. also i red an artical that swimming helps a lot because of the pressure of the water? i dont know if its true..

viveka0's photo
Sun 09/29/13 03:59 AM
I beleive women should stop thinking about what this male-dominated world thinks about them or how they want the women to be! Just believe in urself give-up thinking from their perspective and stop worrying about trifling things!

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Sun 09/29/13 05:28 AM
The women in my family get them when we go through puberty. I do not care how fit we are, as soon as puberty hits, they start popping out on our hips. Now do not get me wrong, of course we also get them during pregnancy too. My daughter who is 15 and very fit and athletic has them across her hips. I asked her if they bothered her and she said no mom, lots of girls have them at school. She said she knows because she was shy at first when the girls were dressing for PE class at school then she got over it quick when she realize most of the girls had stretch marks. I am so proud of her for keeping a positive self image of herself and realizing quickly how girls/women relate to each other when it comes to our bodies.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 09/29/13 02:53 PM
I saw a thing on fb that had a pic of a mother holding her baby, it said, "You're a tiger, you earned those stripes, embrace them.." Something like that but I thought it was cool.

massiel's photo
Mon 09/30/13 05:31 PM

I saw a thing on fb that had a pic of a mother holding her baby, it said, "You're a tiger, you earned those stripes, embrace them.." Something like that but I thought it was cool.


:thumbsup: I agreeflowerforyou