Sometimes. Kevin told me a while back there's a lot of special people here.

if you were to judge everybody! solely on what they posted on here..
.. you would think we were all crazy.
ok! you would think I was crazy.
. wait a minute, I am crazy .lol.. ..hi.. everybody.

sometimes if they seem to post things all the same in others post or their remarks are flirtatious all of the time ... but really don't care so much... as long as they are not to to problematic...

Crazy is, as crazy posts :-)

Hardly,but sometimes you just can't help it,I try to avoid the negative judgment at least,I'd rather judge them in a good way and be wrong, than to judge them bad and be wrong,to me it's like saying,"give them the benefit of the doubt",and i hate it when people judge me same way,#misunderstood!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Only till I get gifted with chatting with them " personally"...in the land of make believe ( cyber world).. You can be anyone...but from my experiences here in the forums...those that are here all the time are truly themselves and down right beautiful...

to judge or not to judge, or to judge accurately what exist now and shall exist.

I do, somewhat. But, it's more on the side of what makes me not talk to people. If someone is a jerk most of the time, I'm going to go with that and not try to get to know them.

I judge behavior and words, but not people,,,

words and behavior come from people, so dictate who and what that person is.

how can one judge behavior and words, and not associate such with any entity.

could be that this depends on the topic. I'm the first to admit there are a lot of things I don't understand. I know some people laugh at me as they explain what a certain thing meant in a post and what my response indicated.iI've found I have lots to learn.

because people are too complex to be known by any one moment,,I don't assume to know anyone that well,,,

I can judge the moment, and the actions and words within it

people are living works in progress,, and not set in stone,,,

I do slip and find myself falling into the trap of feeling I can judge the person, but it is a trap and not reality

indeed...

constantly moving in a direction...

and each moment words and actions tell what each one shall morph them self into by all it self validate each moment.

it takes no understanding of complexity to know that whatever behavior is validated by any person shall become the most reality they create.

I get what you're saying, but the question was "Do you judge people by their posts, not a post...So if a regular poster is consistently arrogant or consistently rude or consistently kind or consistently well versed, over time, how would it be possible to separate the behavior from the person?....

I would assess that they choose to present arrogant and rude behavior in the thread

in real life, they may be much different, or they may be going through some serious life changes,,,which contribute to their choice

I am very hesitant about judging or feeling I can judge the person, when there is so much more to know,,,

you are so beautiful...many smiles too you..so nice to see a good human...

understood...

still seems one would be caught uninformed and unprepared for any present reality, if one puts no merit upon current words or action as who another is and what they are capable of..

yes, people are changing, no doubts, as we are all effecting each other so changing each other, towards more better or less better...

excuse the primitive speak...

but reality still has to each moment be creating better, or worse...

maybe some just don't have any true constant concept of worse, and better, so hesitate to access reality as either one...

but it would seem very difficult for any accuracy of judgment as accurate perception to lead the actions of one self in this case.

Sparklers and Panty Liners

Yeah, I get that...I said the same thing earlier....But if you're judging words and behavior, you're judging the person...

so if i demand something of you, you would not be a beautiful person if you judged that as unacceptable?

such is but Utopian wishes of trying to think of one self as a "good person", so not to judge...

if i steal from another, are they the "not beautiful", because they judged my actions as unacceptable...

biblical notions of "judge not" are the only things typically defined as such that leave mayhem and chaos untouched, saying one should not judge.

for good people to judge not allow mayhem and brutality to exist.

such are notions believed by what cares only about it's own emotional happiness most, so seek and promote to judge not, but such has nothing to do with creating a better environment for all to live in.

for what be more beautiful than a better environment for all, by stopping the actions and words of those whom only care about a good reality for them self.