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Topic: Trust or Lust?
Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 02/23/15 08:35 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship?

ALBYAK Joined Wed 01/27/10 Posts: 283	Mon 02/23/15 08:44 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? Is he black or tall??? WTF are you talking about??? I can't see any correlation in those two words

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Mon 02/23/15 08:48 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? lust,,,guess its what you want trust comes from something you see

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76372	Mon 02/23/15 08:50 AM
Humm I would hope that you trusted anyone you were actually starting a relationship with.. I really don't see where these two go together.. Trust is something I give till they give me a reason not to. Anytime I have been in a relationship I knew if it was lust or if I genuinely cared for them.

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Mon 02/23/15 08:50 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? its 2 different emotions, Estelle.. totally different feelings... you will know when the time comes.

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Mon 02/23/15 08:51 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? did you say starting and lust,,,,i guess you leaped befor you looked'''''EVERY WOMAN,,, IT'S IN HER BEST INTEREST SHOULD MAKE THE GUY ''EARN IT'' AS YOU GET OLDER YOU MAY REALIZE THIS......

ALBYAK Joined Wed 01/27/10 Posts: 283	Mon 02/23/15 08:51 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? lust,,,guess its what you want trust comes from something you see Do you really understand what she is saying...I sure do not!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 02/23/15 08:58 AM
If you are going to start a relationship with someone there is always a risk and excitement, this is why trust and lust are connected. At least for women, men are not really that way..

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Mon 02/23/15 09:00 AM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? lust,,,guess its what you want trust comes from something you see Do you really understand what she is saying...I sure do not! No I Didnt.. But Tried My Damndest To Answer What I Thought Was The Question

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 02/23/15 09:15 AM
Lust can get in the way of good judgment, ever heard the saying 'blinded by lust'? So, do you go with that feeling or do you test him to see if you can trust him first? And how do you do that when you're not thinking clearly?

ALBYAK Joined Wed 01/27/10 Posts: 283	Mon 02/23/15 10:00 AM
We are all different, if I saw someone I would lust over that much to get in the way of good judgment, I would never message them with the idea of dating in the first place. I have to look at myself in the mirror every morning and though I want someone physically fit and not overweight, do not want one to lust over as I understand it. Just a good simple partner to do things with. Lust to me is not a health way to start a relationship!

dyophysitism Joined Sun 02/09/14 Posts: 16	Mon 02/23/15 11:02 AM
Lusty trust

CallMeMB Joined Mon 01/05/15 Posts: 262	Mon 02/23/15 11:04 AM
Having both IS possible... Just sayin'

ifas Joined Wed 12/17/14 Posts: 141	Mon 02/23/15 03:33 PM
Unfortunately for most men its just lust. Its just how some people have been programmed and not how old some people get their eyes always are wondering even if they have been in a relationship for over 20 years

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 02/23/15 03:39 PM
Lust can get in the way of good judgment, ever heard the saying 'blinded by lust'? So, do you go with that feeling or do you test him to see if you can trust him first? And how do you do that when you're not thinking clearly? No way do those two words go hand in hand Estelle? It's you who isn't thinking clearly on this topic!!!

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Mon 02/23/15 03:43 PM
How do you know if you trust or you lust the person when you're starting a relationship? Lol those two are inconsistent with each other i like your sense of humour

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Mon 02/23/15 04:02 PM
Having both IS possible... Just sayin' Yep. Woman: "That guy is a jerk. However, I feel lust toward him because he is outwardly attractive and because he can give me the lifestyle that I want. So, I will trust that he won't be a jerk to me if I date him."

smartwithsparks Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 2439	Mon 02/23/15 04:13 PM
Lust can get in the way of good judgment, ever heard the saying 'blinded by lust'? So, do you go with that feeling or do you test him to see if you can trust him first? And how do you do that when you're not thinking clearly? I Think Testing People Is A Game Ive Never Tested Anyone.

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 02/23/15 04:35 PM
If you dont have trust, you dont have anything at all..

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Mon 02/23/15 04:40 PM
There's always a question in the start of a relationship whether you trust that person. People are betrayed by a partner they have been with for decades or days. What's the difference. The answer is people are unpredictable and relationships are a gamble. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.