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mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Sat 04/04/15 02:38 PM
a big turn of for you when looking for someone or on a date, and then what is a turn on for you in the same situation. :)

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Sat 04/04/15 02:52 PM
Biggest turn off Sullen, pouty, bitter, resentful. Biggest turn on Bright smile with sparkling eyes.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Sat 04/04/15 02:57 PM
Drama and talking about other people in a not so nice way is a turn off. Turn on is a smiling happy person

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 04/04/15 02:58 PM
Off - too serious �\| On - sense of humor :)

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 04/04/15 03:09 PM
turn off no junk in the trunk.. Turn on lots of junk in the trunk

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10640	Sat 04/04/15 03:17 PM
Big turn off on a date? showing disinterest in what I say/not asking me questions. Big turn on? Treating me as if I were the most beautiful and special woman in the room.

JaSaSam Joined Sun 02/15/15 Posts: 53	Sat 04/04/15 03:28 PM
Off - too serious �\| On - sense of humor :) I share the same sentiments

JaSaSam Joined Sun 02/15/15 Posts: 53	Sat 04/04/15 03:31 PM
OFF>>>> wanting to touch me inappropriately (on thighs, breasts, butt), boasting and wanting to have sex....esp on the first date ON>>>> very well mannered, good sense of humor, discovering that we like so much things in common.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sat 04/04/15 05:04 PM
That he's hot.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Sat 04/04/15 05:05 PM
Turn off, that he's not hot.

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 04/04/15 06:21 PM
Biggest turn off for me anywhere any place any situation... Negativity...Put downs of others to make one appear better. Biggest turn on for me genuine interest... communication is a must...

Shaan80 Joined Tue 03/31/15 Posts: 24	Sat 04/04/15 06:54 PM
Good step wish good

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 04/04/15 06:56 PM
being rude or pompous or self absorbed or vulgar or unhygienic TURNOFFS being chivalrous, considerate, attentive, witty, and smelling good are huge TURNONS

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 04/04/15 07:00 PM Edited by no1phD on Sat 04/04/15 07:01 PM
.. picks the old lady up and carries her across the street to safetyIHAVE SUCH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE RIGHT NOW.. .. and I smell so good..lol

Duttoneer Joined Sun 07/01/12 Posts: 4681	Tue 04/07/15 12:38 AM
Turn off. Turns up looking 3 dress sizes bigger than in her profile pics. Turn on. Turns up looking like her profile pics.

kazza_nz Joined Sun 04/05/15 Posts: 30	Tue 04/07/15 01:35 AM
Turn on's Someone who I can have a good conversation with and that has a similar sense of humour. Also someone who has a positive warm personality. Turn off's Negative, aggressive, pessimistic or sullen.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Tue 04/07/15 01:44 AM Edited by Awatersign on Tue 04/07/15 01:45 AM
Turn offs;negative attitude,immaturity,to loud,on the phone often,looking at other guys,divided attention! Turn ons;sense of humor,lots of eye contact with a genuine smile, and intelligence!!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Tue 04/07/15 01:56 AM
Turn off- Usually the biggest turn offs don't show up until it's too late. I think the biggest turn off would be their name on the domestic violence registry ...oh wait they don't have those of course. The biggest turn on is all the qualities that anyone can act out even if they are false...charming, witty, chivalrous to name a few characteristics that can be falsified easily but are so attractive to us women.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 04/07/15 10:13 PM
Off: Bad hair On: Awesome baking skills.....and kinkiness factor with a spatula.

Deepudarkchocolate Joined Sat 02/21/15 Posts: 91	Tue 04/07/15 10:24 PM
off - an arrogant and loud mouthed girl on - simple, innocent, soft spoken girl with a sweet voice is a big big on (yummy) :)