You are very much welcome.

A Day, a Season, a Lifetime!!!!
Ups, I already answer this,

My final thought, in a simple form, being lead on means not being honest.

I will like to add two more examples I found in the web,
They sleep around

If they are sleeping around when they are meant to be with you run away now. If this is making you want them more - leave now or forever hold your peace.

They have a boyfriend or girlfriend
It never works out for the other women/man - never - unless you are Angelina Jolie. If you look like Angelina Jolie go for it I suppose.

This can be an example of being lead on, "If you are "leading someone on," then you are letting them believe that you have sincere, romantic feelings toward him or her and that you are interested in pursuing a relationship that is more than simply physical when, in reality, you are only interested in the other person ..."

Meaning of being lead on, Verb. 1. lead on - entice or induce especially when unwise or mistaken. entice, lure, tempt - provoke someone to do something through (often false or exaggerated) promises or persuasion.

I agree till the forgiveness. This is because I strongly believe, once a cheater, always a cheater.

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Thanks to all that post, all this comments do help me understand and to analyze the the concept.

I understand you and feel for you, hope you the best. The pain is unique, lost of trust worst. There is always hope of a better life.

Now what I think I am asking, Am I being to harsh. Will a lie can stop a relationship?. I step back and wonder.

Love, Trust and Lies. How they are measure and level relationships.

Thank You all again.

Dreamerana, I hear and read your concerns, you are so correct and at the point. From my first relationship of many years, I let pass many lies, till the last one that I said enough. I promise myself to respect myself and not to allowed this situation again in my life. So then comes my present relationship, I found a lie, up to a point I can forgive, but staying true to myself I rather not. This is because , even I truly love this human being, which I think she is unique in many ways, this lie brought me back to my last relationship. That I know, just one lie.

Thanks to all that reply here,it help me view this concept better. What I can understand, when dealing with this situation, step back is the action to do, I did step back, not sure if I will allowed it back in my life. I am not the only one that has walk this road. Whether we accepted in our life or not and I am not letting it in my life, when people do this, we can positively say that they are not going to change. It saddens me how lies can destroy a relationship.

Something I forgot to mention, this are tools that help me from getting destroyed again, another reason why I brought it up here.

Hi SweetRose,

This sound interesting, can you be so kind to elaborate.

Thank You Tom,

I deeply believe that we can not control nor change anyone. This is one of the reason Love, Trust and Lies are like a tool for me not to get hurt.

Thank You Rosie.

Thank You Moe.

I agree, what I will like to ask is others opinions on this matter. I place Love, Trust and as part of trust, Lies on a same level. So I wonder if the three are as strong as impose on stepping back as one of them may fall.

Can we forgive a person that lie to a point that we can get back together?

I Love someone. I trusted this amazing women. I realized she lie. My life experience, after many years living with a liar that promise and never change. I promise myself to be careful and do not fall in the same situation. So here I am again. My heart is in shambles. Love, Trust or Lies is the question. How can we compare and weight these three?