Hi Jimmy,
That's a very good question and I tend to agree that it seems like a lot of online sites are full of people just looking for a hook up instead of trying to find someone for the long haul. That stigmatism is probably what keeps the real folks out there who are looking for something more concrete away from dating sites. Good Luck.

Oh yea, the ghetto is a great place to be.

My son said to me this morning, Mommy how many more days till summer? I wish I could tell you only a few, but son, it's too many to count.

This snow ain't even pretty any more. It's dirty and piled high and I want it to go away.

Somebody make it go away, lol.

Well I would call that a mutual match


Welcome to the site Metronome

I believe the website picks some of your mutual matches, possibly based on the criteria you may have checked when you search. I think my matches are have been people who live close to me, and normally that's about all we have in common. The rest are more than likely people who have expressed interest in you through mutual match.

A good man is hard to find, but a hard man is good to find.

Good Luck.

Hey, it's kinda like spades but with a lot more freedom

Well maybe not technically, but I usually go by when I can start planting my flowers and it's normally almost June before the threat of a frost is behind me.

I have to be honest. If I have to look at you day in and out, you can't be ugly. But, I tell you the good looking ones (men) are normally lacking in other ways because their good looks have gotten them by. He doesn't have to look like Blair Underwood, but he can't look like JJ Evans.

Welcome to the Chi. As you probably experienced, last winter was just the pitts. We kept getting dumpted with snow and just when you thought it was over, there came more friggen snow. Omg, I thought I would lose my mind. The best way to get through it in my opinion is to make the best of it and do stuff like snow boarding, ice skating, snow ball fights, etc. As far as the cold, just try to stay in and do fun stuff inside. It lasts clear to the end of May sometimes gradually getting warmer around the end of April.

Ahahah.

It feels like smothering and you end up resenting the person.
I don't believe the behaviour associated with loving someone too much is actually love. I think it's over compensation. But then, that's just my opinion. Still, there has to be a happy medium.

Thank you for your interest in this position but I've decided to offer it to someone more qualified.

You can NEVER love a child too much but that's another topic all together. Still, love can be expressed in many ways.

Only a child needs that much love.

The older I get, the more it matters.

If you never found out why there is no closure so you accept that they weren't man or woman enough stand up and tell you why. Most of the time it has to do with people who can not deal with confrontations and they'd rather walk away and leave you hanging, than to deal with you asking them why.

Face your fear by not showing fear. Just because you're scared doesn't mean he has to know it. Pretend you are fearless, look in the mirror before you leave the house, tell yourself you are beautiful, snap twice, do the chicken neck and walk out the door, lol.

Only when you act like you care.

I take it you believe what the person told you?

Is there a possibility it's not true?

Have you confronted him?

What's going on with you guys now?

Nosey minds want to know.

Did I mention that I'm sorry this has happened to you by the way.