Oh - sorry ... I read the header and thought it said 'Good Advice For Convicts' and I was all, like, well, why are we givin' advice to convicts here 'n all that but now I see I was wrong and so I'm, like, all sorry 'n stuff for the misunderstanding 'n like not reading it write the first time so wow, like, y'all don't be bein' angry 'n stuff on me, 'mkay, 'cuz, like, anybody can make a simple mistake like thinkin' it says 'convicts' when it really says like 'conflicts' and a mine really is a terrible thing ...

Oddly enough...I am finding as I get older that I have less tolerance for stupidity and nonsense. Now you would think that would result in more conflicts in my life but it's quite the opposite. I am so much more willing to "let it go" these days as opposed to getting all worked up and fighting over it. I used to be the world's worst at holding a grudge or holding onto hurt/angry feelings so that they bubbled up and caused fights all the time. Nowadays I just go with the flow and if someone irritates me I just walk away.

Course the whole "letting it go" thing may be more due to the fact that I now have that C.R.S. (Can't Remember ****) disease than any conscious effort on my part!

You could avoid the relationship that causes the conflict. Wait. I think I should post that in the 'Why are you still single thread?".

If you get to the point that you'd rather stay at work than come home to yet another argument, it's gotten to the point where it's a problem. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, and promptly lost it in the divorce.

Have to shower in the morning. Baths before bed sometimes to relax. Nothing beats a bubblebath, candles and music. For relaxing, I mean.

I could ask the same thing about guys in their 20's. They are the ones who approach me regularly. It's frustrating. Guys in their late 30's and early 40's are non-communicative, not interested or both.

Disclaimer: Not ALL of them. But, a majority.

I made this logo today for my website. It's nothing fancy or anything, but please tell me what you think. What do you get from it?

I guess youve never heard the saying....

*squints eyes* its cool

And you do a wonderful job.
This from someone who has never posted a
thread of their own :-)

So.. Urrr telling us we dont know Jack?

It's not a relationship if there are no conflicts. Anyone who thinks you won't get into any fights or arguements in a love relationship, you are wrong. When you are in love, you get hyper sensitive to everything and conflicts will be happening. There will be things, that aren't turning out to be as you want it, and it doesn't even have to be serious. You hyper sensitivy is enlarging it.

It is how you handle it and it takes self control and sometimes sobering up for a few minutes and realizing how it's a big nothing you're arguing about and your emotions have more to do with it than the severity of the problem.

Mingle2 is like a destination resort.
Everything is there when you get there.
See or do as much or as little as you like.
The more relaxed you are, the better the
time you have.

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