so yes basically i give up on LOVE, it's not for everyone obviously! can't try anymore.

i'm done, it's obvious how he feels about me....so i'm done!

no wants to date me.....some men are just wayyyyyyyy too young or way toooooooooooo old and ugly. sorry to say that, but some ppl should know that if i don't respond....it's because of those reasons.

i'm just tired tryn with this one guy i was talking to, plus if i go to talk to someone else....they are fake! they might talk all the good stuff, but they see a pic of me.........and take off running. or something got them running, maybe it's because i'm too real and they want to play. too old for that.

wow...u hit that dead on the nail! but what he does was there before me and will be there after i'm gone. sad to say! oh well......

that's more like what he meant, because to be truthful, both of us we don't work together, because both of us have a temper. his gets to the point where he almost want to get physical. so yea, he care but we can never be together.

really when he said, i don't want to be with u anymore, he probably had his beer and puff puff in him. but he still call and hold a convo sometimes. so he tryna string me along to see if i'ma change. but i shouldn't have to lower my standards so low down where he at, basically beneath the ground. just not enough love there, and i can tell. but if i was to really, REALLY move on....he'd probably have a little problem excepted that. idk

they're a what????

i'm not as strong as ya think, i'm depressed and mad all the time. i know i have to let go in my heart, and it would help if i had another man to get involved with. but that's not the way to be, although that would ease the pain. my heart's gonna turn stone one of these days.

Well he says he cares, but can't be with me! That makes it a little more plainer for me to understand. Oh well......next!!!

i know how ya feel! i'm sick of being single too, lonely, and frustrated. i take things out on ppl because of my unhappiness. so i know what it's like. i even got two sons, and that ain't getn it, cause they be cutn up terrible, that don't help.

so just know, u are not by urself in this!

cute

just called the doc for both my children fro other reasons, poor things broke out in something, smh.

but i'ma sure talk to the doc about referring him to the urologist.

OH WOW....... I'M CALLING THE DOCTOR!!! THX

WOW thanks. As far as his father, that's a dead stick, because he takes em out places, but it's with the other brothers. he got a kid with her and she got another one also. so when my kids go over there, it's 4 of em. Now maybe i can do that, since it's just me him, and his older bro here with me.

My youngest son is almost 8 and still using it on himself, and i'm not talking bout thru the night. He still does that sometimes, but i'm saying thru the day time, number 1 and number 2. The boy is VERY smart, gets As and Bs in school, figures out how to do things on his own, such as in video games and other things. All i can figure out what's wrong is, that me and his dad split and his dad married one of his half brothers' mom. Nothing is helping.......i've tried talking, whipping, everything. NOTHING IS HELPING, his dad even prays about it, THIS BOY STILL DOES IT. I take away things that he likes to do, he still does it. HELP................

them lames.....do they really think we gonna fall for that mess. smh

ok thx

i know, sorry bout that. i was also on an itching pill last night that had me whoozie lol.

but the thing is....we been on and off since november, so i guess he just cares for me, but don't want to be with me anymore. i'm not PASSIVE enough. plus, i think, dude just got his hair redone, so he might think he has a chance with other females too. that's just my opinion........but if that's what he wants, i will back off. no need in tryn for someone that don't love u, right??

ur ok lol.....that made me smile!

yea, thx