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Tue 03/01/11 10:07 PM

I don't understand the question.
By making someone feel comfortable living with thier insecurities instead of getting help with them, you trap them into a false sense of security. This will help you to convince them that you are the one that understands them the best. And that you will love them unconditionally.

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Tue 03/01/11 09:45 PM
Edited by ChangeofHeart on Tue 03/01/11 09:47 PM
Just to keep them around. Would they love you without them?

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Thu 02/24/11 05:04 PM

Well good luck with this approach! Hope your nothing is meaningful, really the way you put this...I hope "nothing" is good for you. The way I read this, that means that any time you are not at work or working you are happy. So I wish you lots of time not at work!
Yes all true. But the one thing i dont get to do is cry. Eventhough any personal reason you want to use to do it is fine. That is one of the things i have no room for in my life. The other is a excuse for not having a job. My Mom told me Men arnt suppose to cry. She isnt here anymore, but i want to hold on to that. When it happens it will be a good cry.

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Thu 02/24/11 04:47 PM
Doing nothing. I dont like work, so i work like i love it. Then i go to my nothing. And i really love that,

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Tue 02/22/11 05:12 PM

Floating as we speaktongue2 smitten
wonderfulflowers

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Mon 02/21/11 05:27 PM

One Of The Best Sights To See
Is when a Woman is floating around because you make her feel special.

We need a tour bus :-)
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Mon 02/21/11 04:37 PM
Is when a Woman is floating around because you make her feel special.

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Sun 02/20/11 11:26 AM

Is it really true that no one else can love you if you don't love yourself? I don't think that's really true, though I do understand what is meant when people say that.
I DONT THINK THAT IS TRUE BECAUSE YOU HEAR ABOUT OR KNOW PEOPLE THAT LOVE PEOPLE WITH THE UNWILLINGNESS TO CARE OR LOVE THEMSELVES.

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Sun 02/20/11 10:56 AM

Not sure about some but I know who I'm just like I know what I like...

We are constantly learning not changing who we are...knowledge is something that we gain and may change our thinking at times but it does not completely change the person...whoa
KISSESflowers

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Sun 02/20/11 10:36 AM
THEY ARE WHO THEY ARE, IF WE ARE ALWAYS LEARNING WHO WE ARE?

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Sun 02/06/11 03:12 PM

The only thing that makes today mean anything, is that there may be no tommorrow.

Each kiss should be savored. Each meal should be enjoyed. Even the bad days have good things in them. Otherwise...what is the purpose of life if you never stand to lose it?
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Sun 02/06/11 11:29 AM
Worth being without the people you loved?

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Sat 02/05/11 01:48 PM
Instinct?

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Sat 01/29/11 08:06 PM

I'll be fine with a 75 watt. I don't want my life to outshine people. There's nothing really to see but the obvious...I'm living. happy
Its nice to be humble. But sometimes when you are good, You are good

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Thu 01/27/11 06:41 PM
Would Shine on Your Life? 10 being the Lowest. 100 being the Brightest

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Thu 01/27/11 06:25 PM



Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.
No. But some Men believe Woman lose thier Attractiveness, and in some cases thier Sexual Appeal. A Woman over 30 has to have exceptional genes, and good looks to continue to hold the same interest she did in her Teens and early Twenties.


uuhhh..maybe for you...I dont even try to go that rout..Im 50...the warranty on the body expired some time ago..what I have is confidence, experience and a hell of an independent spirit that many find waaaay more attractive than what a 20-something has to offer.
At times antiques hold there values more than something modern

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Thu 01/27/11 06:21 PM

My gosh ChangeoffHeart You are full of questions tonight!!


To answer seriously, I was almost totally dysfunctional for months after my husband died. The first few years were all faking it, faking being 'normal'.

So my answer is yes.
I enjoy how you answer with honesty, and from your heart.

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Thu 01/27/11 06:18 PM

Hmmmm Just a question, I read in one of the other posts that someone believes that women lose their femininity as they get older, so he likes women in their 20's, Just wondering what peoples opinions where on this.

I dont feel any less feminine and i am definately not growing man parts, so what does everyone else think.
No. But some Men believe Woman lose thier Attractiveness, and in some cases thier Sexual Appeal. A Woman over 30 has to have exceptional genes, and good looks to continue to hold the same interest she did in her Teens and early Twenties.

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Thu 01/27/11 06:03 PM

I don't do enough good for others to really have great karma going on.

I do keep a good attitude that treats others good even in my thoughts so I know bad karma won't be a problem.

I do try to be the best human I can be all the time.
I couldn't live with myself if I didn't.
Nice

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Thu 01/27/11 06:02 PM
Ever been normal for you?

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