That's up to the man and woman. If they're serious then why not, unless they are shamed out of it by their so called friends and family.

I don't think it's so much an agenda to deceive but more of a way to hedge your bets. You know like the old saying "don't put all your eggs in one basket."

And that's why the only standard I have is that she has to be in at least as good of shape as myself. It takes almost three flights of stairs before I start to get winded and I only take the elevator if I have to go up more then six floors.

For me to find someone that would be willing to be in a relationship with me?

Well on a scale of 1-10, 1 being no problem and 10 being last man on earth type stuff, I'm going to have to say about 90.

Reason being, do you know what they call a relationship between two people that ARE NOT having sex? Friends!

I prefer a women that are in shape, you know physically fit, as in works out 4 to 5 times a week like myself which isn't really ether one of the options.

Contrary to popular beliefs skinny is not always physically fit because I've met some skinny women that can't even get up a flight of stares without getting winded.

It all depends on their reasoning for the need to brake up.

For example: if the reason is completely superficial like a clash in religious view, social class level, race, or appearance then I guess I am never going home for the holidays again. At least until they decide to pull their proverbial heads out of their posteriors.

If, however, they have proof that the person I am with is not who they say they are and said individual is unable to prove them wrong then I would probably brake it off.

This is of course all hypothetical because my family, after many years, have excepted that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life.

First it would help to know your definition of a "good woman"?

For example: good home maker, good cook, good in the bedroom, someone that takes care of you like your mother, or the mindless drone that is one step removed from house slave that was the popular view of a woman in the 40s and 50s?

Be attractive, be very charismatic, but if you can't do ether of those having a lot of money is the only thing you can do.

Good luck.

I "ASPIRE" to make a difference in the lives of those around or at the very least give them pause to think, but not be remembered for any of it and when I die there will be little to no proof that I ever existed.

Never been in that situation personally, but all I have to say to those who are is "STOP BEING SO GREEDY!" If the person you really want is already with someone then find someone else, stop trying to cut in.

I don't know, I think the roof being pealed off by the wind and the sound of waves crashing at the door would definitely add some excitement to a weekend party.

That's simple, they do it to try and impress others.

Ever thought of doing something you enjoy? I do and yeah the pay is just barely enough to live off of but I never dread going to work.

I hope you're speaking for yourself because I am far from desperate, how ever I do find strings like this highly entertaining.

Sorry, can't help you on this one ether. You see just like your previous post about best dates, I fear that I have not, nor will ever have an experience that I could use to give me enough insight to give you a good response. I also find porn/strip clubs very depressing because I know deep down inside that even if I had a chance to be with an attractive women she wouldn't stay with me for very long (trust me you don't want to know the "why").

As for the question "is it cheating?" I feel all humans are capable of cheating and all those who do always feel that they will have a legitimate reason for doing so. I have always sided with the bible on this one in the respects that any time you want something that's not yours it's lust, which goes for people or property. I personally would never because not only don't I have anything to cheat on but I lack the drive to do so. If I don't own it or can't obtain it without hurting someone ether physically or emotionally I don't need it.

I personally have never met anyone but I hear rumors that lots of people have.

Wait! THIS SITE IS FOR DATING?!?
Here I was thinking this site was only for social interactions and to help people like NEETs with social phobias .

Nice people are boring!!

At least that's what I keep hearing.

Then it sound like it's time to pass the torch and find someone single to had the collection over to. Then again I don't think anyone other then a collector is going to want it because the internet has made hard copies obsolete.

Okay, so I can see 2 and 3, and even 4 if it looks very well used but dude, why do you have a porn collection when you have the internet?