I DON'T DATE MARRIED GUYS OR GUYS THAT SAY THEY ARE SEPARATED,IN MY EYES UNTIL YOU HAVE THOSE DIVORCED PAPERS,YOU ARE STILL MARRIED.

I agree.

If they do advertising like other sites they generally don't know what ads they are accepting, they accept an ad agency to post ads on their site the ads are taken from third parties through the ad agency, accepting the ad agency is allowing the third parties that the ad agency provides service for to create ads to be put up by the agency. So directly I don't think they would have any idea what ads are getting accepted.

It is totally disgusting to date someone who is married That is someone's LIFE you are destroying, someone dream, whether or not it is on the rocks, that person is someone else's. Not to mention that couples CHILDREN. Only a selfish, pathetic, heartless, cruel ***** could do that to someone. And I think it is utterly pathetic. Those kind of people don't esrve hapiness with another person, and what's more, they will most likely never get it. It's pathetic.

i never understand why people want to date married people..but i do say what goes around comes around...and it just isnt right

I want a woman all to myself so i see no reason in seeing a married woman or one that is seeing anyone one esle at all,i'm selfish that way. I want her to see me and only me. As far as me seeing more than one? I only have the energy and time for one woman. I will give my all to the one that will have me and i want the same in return.

We all agree that it is wrong. The sad reality of it is that people still use it. Why would you want a married person? The answer is Sex.
But I am a firm believer of: What you produce is what you get.
That website may produce revenue now, but it will close. Its to easy to find scanless people, you dont need a website. It hard to find good ones.

It would bother my conscience to date a married person. I do like married people though. The way my ex and me used to argue we didn't need to cheat. There were always plenty of other things to argue about. A third person in a relationship I never cared for because they would usually side with her and I never got to win hardly any of the arguements. The wonderful thing about divorce is that I haven't felt the need to argue with someone. I think National Divorce Day should be a holiday.

If you are married and want to date, the solution would be to get a divorce! Why would you date someone that is married? I don't think its right to even date when you are seperated, basically, you are still in a relationship and you are still legally married. The only solution is this...your married and you want to date..GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE FIRST.
Have you ever been married to someone and found out they were cheating on you? Obviously not!! If so, you would not even think twice about dating a married person even if their relationship was rocky. A lot of times people say their relationship is rocky just to get someone into bed with them. So if you enjoy just being an extra piece on the side, keep doing what your doing...I am sure that married person don't mind at all!!!

It's not always about sex. Married people in loveless relationships sometimes stay so as not to disrupt their kid's lives. Do they not deserve some happiness? I am not talking about sex; I am talking about being cared for, loved, and having affection; things they dont' get at home. People are so harsh when it comes to this topic. I hope none of you are ever trapped in a loveless relationship. If the wife knows and doesn't care since she just wants her husband to stay so she doesnt' have to work; who is being deceived?

And by the way; yes, I have been cheated on. I just don't carry it around like a weapon. My ex husband found someone who was better for him than I was. How could I begrudge him that? Isn't life about being happy? She made him happy; I didn't. Who am I to say he should have stayed with me and been miserable. I don't want a prisoner; I want a partner.

Number 1, you never stay in relationship for your kids! Trust me, kids are not stupid..they will realize that you don't love each other and you are not teaching them how to be in a healthy relationship in the end! So if you are in a loveless relationship, you are not the only one who suffers...your children suffer also, get out and don't cheat!!
Number 2, you should never rely on your partner for financial reasons. If thats the only reason why you are with them, get a job!! Sure it may be hard to make the money that some men make, but go to court and get child support for the children. There are so many ways to get out of a relationship and be self-sufficient. You can't blame it on money. Go back to college and get an education, get a career..that is the American way!!
Sure life is all about being happy, but are you really happy being with a married person esp when they are not married to you? You do not get to spend the holidays with that person...he spends the important times with his "family." I would hate to think that I would lower myself and settle for seconds!!

Till death do us part. No were does it say until im bored. Or until your not good enough. Or just until I find better. Why did the other person fall out of love. Did he not have sex with her. I bet he did. They dont know what love is. Love doesnt fade away, and marriage is about making it work. He wasnt happy because He wasnt adult enough to see what You were worth. He stoped and eventually you did. He lost. He may seem happy, but he will be bored again. Sooner then later youll be happy or are now. Whats great about it is now you know what makes you happy He still doesnt. I am most likly wrong because I dont know you or him. But you are a good person just by your words, he is not by his actions.

Personally I wouldn't date a married man, seperated yes, married NO.

However although I do not condone such behaviour, and feel that if you do date someone who is married (as the other man/womsn) you're kinda stupid.

That being said, the 2 and only 2 people who owe anything are the 2 people who made the commitment. The third person took no vows to anyone. although they have their own issues, and problems for engaging in such behaviour, I don't look down on them. They didn't promise "To keep the unto each other"

But why be bothered with internet advertisement? Ignore it.go to a porn site and see all the advertisements there....Not that I'd know or anything...just heard some things, I mean I don't know first hand or anything...I mean...........awh, crap.

Actually I never thought it was committing adultery IF you dated a married person because you were not the one who was married. BUT that is totally wrong!! Even if you are the single one and you date a married person...you ARE committing adultery, now seriously, who wants to do that??
I believe that you need to get out of one relationship BEFORE you start another. Thats why I will not date someone who is seperated...you never know what will happen. They could work things out with their mate and then there is 3 people involved, not just 2. So, I will only be involved with a single man...for some odd reason, single men only seem attractive to me!!

The word Adultery means having relations with someone who is not your spouse, so if 2 people are single and having sex, they technically are commiting adultery. the connotation of thw word has come to mean a married person who is having extra-marital relations.

fornication - consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other.

adultery - 1} A married person having sex with someone that they are not married to and 2} A single person having sex with a married person.

Right that is what it has come to mean, I'm speaking of it's original meaning. Back in the days of yor....

each is born in a more "aware" time each second later in time........knowledge increases, as all we build and create shows.

to switch the goal of life from "goodness" to wisdom, than many things that are hard to accept, which lead to understanding, quickly become understood.....

"lawing" anybody with a blanket "rule" is not freedom.....each unhappiness has a solution, and each human and experience is unique, so each answer will be unique.....why forum discussion for solutions to problems is a tricky venture......

how can one answer be true for all when EACH be unique, with each a different experience input into their mind, and all a different personality, which mix the minds input or ingredients.....and many at a different age...........

if that were not enough challenges to hurdle, what about each wisdom in life in eaches own universe is learned at a different point in eaches own environement, or universe

no human learning has ever been as ONE people and at the same time together ever in history

humans seek right and wrong for happiness.....rather, happiness is the indicator of right or wrong for each being.....

Hmmmm... I like the word paramour myself.

It means a person who has unlawfully or immorally taken the place of a spouse. I learned that word during my divorce when it was used to describe my ex's current wife, who was then pregnant with their first child.

All I can say about this topic in a general sense is that cheating is usually very hurtful. However, there are circumstances and situations within everything that are mitigating and individual.

On this topic I cannot say cheaters are bad people. The act itself involves deception and a violation of intimacy, if the other party does not know or... well there are really too many other factors to list.

I think with this one... you got to take each situation individually.

I, unfortunately, have benn "stuck" in a very loveless relationship for many years. I also stayed for many reasons. One of which was my children, but that reason ended when they reached older ages and began to understand what they were seeing in our actions. Another reason was to try and try and try to make it work. How long and hard must one work at trying to save a saveless relationship? There were two people involved in creating the marriage but only one who was trying to save it.Eventually, all hope I had to save the relationship dissolved away with her insults, belittlements, hidden secrets, denial of anything sexual, and much more than I care to share with all of you. I am currently separated for over a year and divorce has been started. In leaving her and my marriage, I felt like a failure and it took, well, over a year before I forgave myself for my inability to save the saveless. Since then, I have begun to feel human again and discovered that I can be happy. I have found new friendships and a freedom from the harshness which I felt was "love". I now know that thelove which I thought I had was not love at all but more of a controlled feeling. Love is spontanious and exciting and make you think about her all day and all night. I can be happy again and I anxiously await them "papers" that say I am free from her cruelty and control.