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Topic: I have a Question ?
SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:11 PM
I've been involved with a great woman for about 6 months !

Things can be amazing one minute, but suddenly she, for no reason at all has a mood swing.

She won't talk to me, she's not angry at me, but other stuff mostly from her past, but she won't discuss it with me.

She distance herself from me, and it's impossible for me to help her.

I'm ready to let go, can anyone give a valid reason why I should not?

Cambolaya65's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:12 PM
The Grudge III

Tankk's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:12 PM
Maybe her meds aren't working or she needs an increase in dosage.

no photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:12 PM
Have you talked to her about this???? huh

no photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:13 PM
Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:14 PM

I've been involved with a great woman for about 6 months !

Things can be amazing one minute, but suddenly she, for no reason at all has a mood swing.

She won't talk to me, she's not angry at me, but other stuff mostly from her past, but she won't discuss it with me.

She distance herself from me, and it's impossible for me to help her.

I'm ready to let go, can anyone give a valid reason why I should not?
flowerforyou its time to move onflowerforyou

SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:15 PM

Maybe her meds aren't working or she needs an increase in dosage.
Be nice dude !

SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:16 PM

Have you talked to her about this???? huh
Yes, I told her she makes me feel like an outsider !

crazy_lover's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:16 PM
you need to talk to her, maybe shes afraid you wont understand

SportsNut2007's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:17 PM

Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby !

bastet126's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:18 PM
maybe she's afraid of committment, you have to decide how much you want to put into it and if it's worth it; otherwise move on. flowerforyou

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:19 PM
Move on....

but get some naked pictures of her first and post them here.

no photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:19 PM
noway After 6 months, it's time to share & spill. She may not want to scare you or chase you away because of her issues, but she is doing so already by alienating you inadvertently. Put it to her to spill, so you can decide if her stuff is managable. If she won't, move on.

HMontana's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:19 PM


Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby !




If the answer was that easy for you - running to someone else - why bother posting?flowerforyou

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:20 PM
Don't let go! She need's to develope trust in you. That's hard to do especially when it's something you feel self doubht about, or, insecure about. It's too hard at time's. But you can make a stand about it. Tell her how important it is to you that she tell you. Tell her what will happen if she doesn't open up to you.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:20 PM

Move on....

but get some naked pictures of her first and post them here.
laugh laugh laugh

wickedlluccy's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:23 PM
Edited by wickedlluccy on Sat 04/19/08 12:24 PM



Seems like your not important enough to discuss her probs. with you. RUN! Okay, straight to you baby !




If the answer was that easy for you - running to someone else - why bother posting?flowerforyou





....you'll have to forgive her she(jet ski girl) had a bad crash last year on that thing left her w/ a lack of STICKTOITNESSS...or she had a blond moment....


somepeopleschidrennoway noway noway noway

Dragoness's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:24 PM
Letting go is sometimes the best thing. I would say ease up on the relationship and see what happens. Let her know you still care but need to give her some space and for her to let you know when she wants to see you. It will work one of two ways, it will give her the out she is looking for, not saying she is but just in case and second if she is unsure of you and her relationship or something about it the time away will allow for that to either resolve or maybe come to the forefront as it should be. Hope that helps

Lily0923's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:27 PM
IF she is a relatively stable person, it is a compliment that she even lets you know she is feeling down. What she wants is for you to "drag" it out of her, if she is a strong woman it is hard for her to be weak.

IF she is a crazy psycho-b*tch...run...she's bi-polar.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 04/19/08 12:27 PM
You can either be patient or leave. Only you can decide what she's worth to you.

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