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Topic: Got Dumped Yesterday
itry Joined Sat 10/27/07 Posts: 1236	Wed 06/18/08 02:41 PM
I got dumped yesterday. I only received a text and with no reason.It was only a six month relationship but I am hurting pretty bad.I have never been dumped before,just because I rarely date. How long does the heart break last for and whats the best way to move on?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Wed 06/18/08 02:42 PM
6 months?!? Walk it off.

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Wed 06/18/08 02:42 PM
2 hours/tequila

sexi_PHAT Joined Fri 02/01/08 Posts: 1301	Wed 06/18/08 02:43 PM
I got dumped yesterday. I only received a text and with no reason.It was only a six month relationship but I am hurting pretty bad.I have never been dumped before,just because I rarely date. How long does the heart break last for and whats the best way to move on? it will get better with time

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 06/18/08 02:43 PM
everyones different, things will get easier with time

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Wed 06/18/08 02:45 PM
Sorry to here that, Have a beer bro ,

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76355	Wed 06/18/08 02:45 PM
There is no real time frame of when if or how. You take one day at a time and finally get back out there.

Tankk Joined Tue 03/11/08 Posts: 1450	Wed 06/18/08 02:46 PM
Pain stops the minute you find a prettier, thinner girl.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 06/18/08 02:47 PM
go for a walk - reflect - get it all out - things will be better soon

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 06/18/08 02:48 PM
Fall off a horse, get back on & try again. Feelings hurt, lick your wounds & move on.

MississippiQueen Joined Thu 06/12/08 Posts: 373	Wed 06/18/08 02:48 PM
I am so sorry for your loss...if you need a friend...JUST SAY HI!!!!!!.....take it one day at a time.....

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 06/18/08 02:48 PM
via text message? how lame is that! man up, it doesn't seem like it was all that much if it can end in a text message. you'll be OK.

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Wed 06/18/08 02:49 PM
one more thing - don't communicate to her until heart-break is over - just my experience

purplecat Joined Tue 10/10/06 Posts: 35756	Wed 06/18/08 02:50 PM
awwwwwwwww awwwwwwwww , that sucks ! but jeez! you cant text message break up ! what a terd!!! your better off !! http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

Carlos007 Joined Mon 01/01/07 Posts: 1	Wed 06/18/08 02:50 PM
life most go on!!! moving on is the best punishment... they always come back in one way or the other

dae11x Joined Thu 10/25/07 Posts: 1554	Wed 06/18/08 02:51 PM
I got dumped yesterday. I only received a text and with no reason.It was only a six month relationship but I am hurting pretty bad.I have never been dumped before,just because I rarely date. How long does the heart break last for and whats the best way to move on? Sorry to hear that. I don't know how long the heartache will last - as others have said each situation is different. Put yourself first and do things you really like to take your mind off of things for a while.

BlndwBdge Joined Mon 10/30/06 Posts: 473	Wed 06/18/08 02:51 PM
Pain stops the minute you find a prettier, thinner girl. ....

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Wed 06/18/08 02:51 PM
Pain stops the minute you find a prettier, thinner girl. geeeeze

LookinRound Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 7894	Wed 06/18/08 02:53 PM
Dumped via text??? Classy. Sorry that happened to you. There is no published timeframe, no rules at all... depends on how much of your heart was vested in it, how serious it was...some days will be worse than others. It's like the stages of grief -- anger, depression, denial, bargaining, acceptance. As with any grief process, you can go thru any of these stages in a matter of minutes...it's not deal with one totally and move on to the next stage. And as cliche' as this sounds...time does heal. Truly. Take care of yourself. Do what you enjoy. Focus on yourself. Don't try to jump back in to stay busy, take the time you need for you. You'll find that each day gets better overall...

justme32 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1515	Wed 06/18/08 02:53 PM
I got dumped yesterday. I only received a text and with no reason.It was only a six month relationship but I am hurting pretty bad.I have never been dumped before,just because I rarely date. How long does the heart break last for and whats the best way to move on? I'm sorry to hear this. Your heart will mend in time. There is no time limilt for when the heart will heal. All I know is it takes time. You can occupy yourself by doing the things you love to do to take your mind off of it. Or start doing something new.