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Topic: Scary people
lynn2275 Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 43	Thu 07/10/08 04:46 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what?

SAEgirl10 Joined Sun 06/22/08 Posts: 804	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
not at all this guy emailed me and said he loved me and asked if i would have sex with him and him mom

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
sorry sweetie

Butterfly5163 Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 53	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? No you are not a prude..I hate men that think they can go there.

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
I just think you were being careful! You seem to have hit a nerve with this guy and judging by his sudden deactivation, the truth hurts!

anthsm22 Joined Mon 12/24/07 Posts: 727	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
nah......just if they start being that way, just play there game and get them all worked up and then cut em off..lol remember, while online, it is simply your computer talking to his computer so no real harm is done

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Thu 07/10/08 04:48 PM
not at all this guy emailed me and said he loved me and asked if i would have sex with him and him mom Was it Chris...he did that to me too

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Thu 07/10/08 04:49 PM
not at all this guy emailed me and said he loved me and asked if i would have sex with him and him mom OMG That's just

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Thu 07/10/08 04:51 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? I think you are exaggerating as nearly all men say these little words especially in emails and IMs.

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Thu 07/10/08 04:51 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? I think you are exaggerating as nearly all men say these little words especially in emails and IMs.

beachbum069 Joined Mon 04/07/08 Posts: 14325	Thu 07/10/08 04:51 PM
It wasn't me this time. I swear.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Thu 07/10/08 04:51 PM
You did the RIGHT THING!!! Of all the nerve. Some are just slowly smarmy thinking they have to "work it", but smarmy is smarmy!!

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Thu 07/10/08 04:52 PM
No you're not..I prefer to be called those names by my significant other.. not random men.

lynn2275 Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 43	Thu 07/10/08 04:54 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? I think you are exaggerating as nearly all men say these little words especially in emails and IMs. well "sweetie" was ok, sort of, "sexy" was too much. It's the first time we've ever talked. I used to think "sweetie" was nice, but I swear the older I get, the more it gets on my nerves!

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Thu 07/10/08 04:54 PM
If they do something like that don't contact them again. Place a block on their account. "I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere." Not finding fault with you (as he was the one with a problem) except writing him after he closed the window may not have been too smart. Guys are asses. I hate men. Sorry you went through what you did.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 07/10/08 04:54 PM
Within one or two conversations I start calling people hon, babe, sugar, etc. Sorry! Bad habit, huh?

cplichristmd Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1557	Thu 07/10/08 04:55 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? i love you lol

lynn2275 Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 43	Thu 07/10/08 04:55 PM
I'm just saying....at least buy me dinner before you start calling me "sexy".

chris1979 Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 4987	Thu 07/10/08 04:57 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? yes i do. i really really do

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Thu 07/10/08 04:59 PM
There are some scary people on this site. So, this guy emails me and we start IM'ing. He seems ok, but of course, he's not... He started calling me "sweetie" and "sexy" and I told him that I was not comfortable with that b/c we didn't even know me. He then immediately closed off his IM. I sent him an email and told him I was a smart girl and that if he was looking to take advantage of someone, to look elsewhere. He then called me a "f**** bit" and deactivated his account. Anyway, do you think I'm a prude or what? I think you are exaggerating as nearly all men say these little words especially in emails and IMs. well "sweetie" was ok, sort of, "sexy" was too much. It's the first time we've ever talked. I used to think "sweetie" was nice, but I swear the older I get, the more it gets on my nerves! If I think you are sexy , what am i supposed to say : ygly ??!.