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Ya know....it always amazes me how quick the folks here are to say " If you suspect him, dump him " or something closely resembling that.
Here's the deal. Some women ( and men ) have trust issues. Just because he/she may SUSPECT that their partner is cheating, that doesn't mean that they actualy are. I have been accused of cheating by a couple of my ex's, but I never have done that. Didn't stop them from suspecting me though I think, rather than just saying " just dump him ", suggesting a little self examination might be in order. Just to be sure that the problem isn't on the one who suspects. After all, the other person could very well be completely innocent of any wrongdoing. |
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Here is the question.... why are you asking us? Ask him. Tell him how you feel.
Communicate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Just ask him and hope he is honest with you. Suspicions in a relationship are horrible and will be the downfall
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Edited by
Ilovemusic4ever
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Wed 07/23/08 09:33 AM
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You must first have trust before things get too far. If you trust each other, then you will have a great relationship. Give it a try, and talk, keep your communication lines open. Don't jump to conclusions. That is very important. Good Luck
 
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Wed 07/23/08 10:01 AM
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The reality here people here is, she don't trust him at all and if she did, she wouldn't be trying to find a way to find out if he is cheating or not and the communitation is gone, this post proves it...
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You don't trust him, you are checking up on him, he feels the need to hide things from you, whether he is really cheating or not, you still have issues. Have you talked to him about it?
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i think my boyfriend might be cheating on me or cheating on someone with me..this is based on things ive seen on the internet about him and the fact that i caught him out on something and he's gone and changed all his profiles online so i can't find or see anything... so i was thinking how can i find the proof and not just except his work... i had thought maybe sending him some kind of sms message on this old number i havent used in years so he wouldnt know the number and say something like i miss you or i want you back and if he is up to something and thinks he knows who it is he proberbly wont go asking who is this incase it upsets the person...dont know... yes i must sound crazy and just dump the guy but i'd also like to be able to catch him out because he just seems so sly lately Nah. Just call that show Cheaters and they will handle it. 
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Find some self esteem and dump him! If you don't trust him then it's OVER! Doesn't matter if you're right or wrong (It's over)! Yes! That is so right! |
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Go with your instincts...that is why you have them...and then be honest and direct....
Usually if it looks like a rat, smells like a rat, it is a rat. |
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Go with your instincts...that is why you have them...and then be honest and direct.... Usually if it jist looks like a rat, jist smells like a rat, it is jist a rat. (((((FERAL)))) I fixed your post to suit my version of your response! 
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He needs to come clean or the relationship will always have this hanging over it. IMHO
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hope for the best, prepare for the worst...
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