Topic: Somebody be honest here
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Fri 11/21/08 02:42 AM
what the heck is my name now???surprised

TelephoneMan's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:49 AM
If the sex is good enough I won't even know my own name...

LOL

He came back for more, that is a plus...

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Fri 11/21/08 02:51 AM

If the sex is good enough I won't even know my own name...

LOL

He came back for more, that is a plus...
geeeeeeeeze you guys are not helping!!!noway noway noway noway

Mix message much????huh

bad_girl's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:51 AM
Edited by bad_girl on Fri 11/21/08 02:51 AM
This doesn't sound like a good situation, especially if he doesn't know your last name. And you have been dating how long, four months? Back away doll and find someone who will care for you

I was dating a guy for four months. His job and family life really took up a lot of his time. I only get to see him once a week and it usually ends up being about sex. He tells me he loves me and that its more than that. We have never been on a real date yet and i just found out last week that he didnt even know my last name. He's really sweet and we have awesome chemistry but can someone tell me if im wasting my time or is this normal and im overthinking? plz help. has the red flags gone up?

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 11/21/08 02:57 AM

from a guys look. you are dealing with a player. he only once one think. if that its what you want......run, run now. this want get any better


Welcome to the forums from one Georgia peach to another. And he is right.

CeeLicious's photo
Fri 11/21/08 03:10 AM
i guess u guys r confirming what i already know. its inevitable i guess. so wheres a drink when i need one? goodbye my chef, it was fun while it lasted but its time to move on and have some real fun. thnks everyonehappy

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Fri 11/21/08 03:16 AM
RESPECT~~!!!flowerforyou drinker

auburngirl's photo
Fri 11/21/08 03:18 AM
He only once one think. This want get any better...laugh Sorry I had to

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 11/21/08 04:12 AM
If he is not even divorced yet why would you think he would jump into something serious with you?

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 11/21/08 08:55 AM
Humm My opinion of all this you say ya'll have been dating for 4 months. Even mentioned when you get together which is normally only once a week and it is all about sex!!

Then you say he is not divorced yet but on the way or he says he is.

Tell me this have you actually been to where he lives and have you spent the night there? And does he spend the night with you when he does come over? Or does he leave real late or like 2-3 in the morning?

For if you say no to the first two questions and yes to the last one.

Then GIRLFRIEND he is still married and has no intentions of leaving his wife. He is using you and that is all it is about for him. Phone calls from work means nothing or he calls you in the off times believe me that is just because he is not around his wife and kids if he has any.

Time to cut the strings and move on for you will get hurt in the long run.

I promise you one thing if a Man does not know someone's first and last name by the end of the first 3-4 dates shshhs he don't want to know it and never plans on knowing it.

tenacity's photo
Fri 11/21/08 11:22 AM
seriously? he didnt even know your last name? Wow! Honey you need to drop the dude. He is not respecting you what so ever.

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Fri 11/21/08 11:43 AM
I think if your intuition has you wondering and asking questions here, you probably already have your answer. Good luck, either way :)

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Fri 11/21/08 11:48 AM
ditch him



especially if you need to ask advice here about it.


We pretty much all agree, you know, like that 'ask the audience life line' on 'who wants to be a millionare?'

lilith401's photo
Fri 11/21/08 11:50 AM
I think this is a perfect example of how we teach people how to treat us. If you tolerate this and it's not what you want, stop tolerating it.

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 11/21/08 11:53 AM
4 months @ once a week = 16 times you've been together and no actual dating and he doesn't know your last name? I don't know about anyone else, but it would have been over long for me before now.

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Fri 11/21/08 03:37 PM

Uhhhhhhh whats your name again???:wink:

Ok from my experience......guys who are interested in you not only know your last name but when your birthday is....what flowers you like, you fave colour, the perfume you wear, they want to know EVERYTHING about you.

Dump the losa!!!:banana:


I have to agree with Gypsy on this one. If I'm interested in someone, I want to know everything I can find out. Every little bit of new information helps me understand the totality of this person....

Tonebonetone's photo
Fri 11/21/08 04:41 PM
He seems like a nice guy. With any luck he'll get you pregnant.

beautyfrompain's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:05 PM
Sounds like lust and nothing more.....dead end road

itsasqueakthing's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:05 PM
opening a restaurant while in the process of a divorce?


I would see right through that. Why open a venture like that BEFORE your ex takes half? That's just stupid

hunky62's photo
Fri 11/21/08 05:13 PM
The answer to your question is in your own profile...What is your Worth?

Maybe you should read the crap you wrote...don't you pay attention to your own words...OR is it just a bunch of BS.

This guy is just banging you...and if you think you deserve better...time to listen to your inner voice.