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Topic: Pick one!
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Sat 02/07/09 01:13 PM
I checked my mutual matches today just for the heck of it. Call me anal, I like to keep even that area clean and organized. Today there were 2.

Someone who lives thousands of miles away and seemed "creepy".
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A couple looking for a third person to complete their fantasy.

If you HAD to pick one.....which one would you choose and why?

Cristina4fun's photo
Sat 02/07/09 01:18 PM
The "creepy" guy, he's too far away to do any damage. If you pick the couple, well you're pretty much locked in, no?

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Sat 02/07/09 01:28 PM
Distance does seem to be a plus in this instance. Is that who you would pick if you had to make a choice?

Cristina4fun's photo
Sat 02/07/09 01:31 PM
for sure, if I HAD to pick one, a married couple looking for a third freaks me out more then a creepy guy does any day of the week. I mean I ride a bicycle not a tri, u know what I'm sayin

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Sat 02/07/09 01:32 PM
Oh, the chick was hot too!......just saying in case that might sway someone's opinion...haha.

And guys, just put a creepy woman in place of the creepy man.

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Sat 02/07/09 01:36 PM
Edited by durtydduck on Sat 02/07/09 01:37 PM
thats why there is a "no" button.. use it with all due diligence...smokin


Oh to clarify my choice if I "had" to pick one...unplug the computer for a month. I don't feel under any circumstances I "have" to pick one smokin and btw I have more then my share of creepy women in my life..

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Sat 02/07/09 01:39 PM
Well of course I used the no button silly. Sometimes it's just interesting to see what choice a person makes when you actually have to make one. The lesser of two evils in their own mind, get it? But yes, by all means refuse to play, it's your right.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 02/07/09 03:02 PM
Are either of them paying me at all?:tongue: laugh laugh

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Sat 02/07/09 04:58 PM
Lately I always click yes, then delete them.
They don't reply to email, and they live very far away, some are in their 20's. WTF????
I have one now and she deactivated before I could contact her, they only reason I didn't delete her in the first place is she actually lives near by.

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Sat 02/07/09 05:06 PM

I checked my mutual matches today just for the heck of it. Call me anal, I like to keep even that area clean and organized. Today there were 2.

Someone who lives thousands of miles away and seemed "creepy".
and
A couple looking for a third person to complete their fantasy.

If you HAD to pick one.....which one would you choose and why?


How can you possibly figure out that much from "I don't know what to write here"....?

shades


MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:13 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Sat 02/07/09 05:24 PM
Hi happy

I'd pick the couple only because you know what their expectations are up front. If you felt the guy was creepy then his intentions are probably hidden.

I use this example too:

If I went into a bar and I saw the devil at one stool and a priest at another -- who would I sit by?

I'd pick the devil! I know he is a son of a b*tch and I can't trust him. My guard is up because he wears his evil like an ugly tie. tongue2

The priest, however, is a wolf in sheep's clothing. He has skeletons, pervertions, and probably a BDSM basement (not always a bad thing) where no one can hear you scream! scared

DISCLAIMER: I used a priest at an attempt at bad humor. I, in no way, consider all priests to be the type of person portrayed in my example. winking

Melody :heart:

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Sat 02/07/09 05:25 PM

Are either of them paying me at all?:tongue: laugh laugh


I dunno..but I'm sure someone would!!


Lately I always click yes, then delete them.
They don't reply to email, and they live very far away, some are in their 20's. WTF????
I have one now and she deactivated before I could contact her, they only reason I didn't delete her in the first place is she actually lives near by.


Well the couple lives near me...maybe I should have clicked yes.....might be the only action I'm getting in the near future...laugh

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Sat 02/07/09 05:26 PM


I checked my mutual matches today just for the heck of it. Call me anal, I like to keep even that area clean and organized. Today there were 2.

Someone who lives thousands of miles away and seemed "creepy".
and
A couple looking for a third person to complete their fantasy.

If you HAD to pick one.....which one would you choose and why?


How can you possibly figure out that much from "I don't know what to write here"....?

shades




It's all in the vibes oh wise one...smokin flowerforyou

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Sat 02/07/09 05:27 PM

Hi happy

I'd pick the couple only because you know what their expectations are up front. If you felt the guy was creepy then his intentions are probably hidden.

I use this example too:

If I went into a bar and I saw the devil at one stool and a priest at another -- who would I sit by?

I'd pick the devil! I know he is a son of a b*tch and I can't trust him. My guard is up because he wears his evil like an ugly tie. tongue2

The priest, however, is a wolf in sheep's clothing. He has skeletons, pervertions, and probably a BDSM basement (not always a bad thing) where no one can hear you scream! scared

DISCLAIMER: I used a priest at an attempt at bad humor. I, in no way, consider all priests to be the type of person portrayed in my example. winking

Melody :heart:


Well aren't you just cute as a button! Great analogy too. Welcome to Mingle...I hope you find what you are looking for.

scoundrel's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:32 PM
I'll complete their fantasy, if they are both blindfolded and tied down when I arrive.

Oh.

That wasn't their fantasy?

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:34 PM
I mean no disrespect Heather and maybe it's because I am missing something, but a person does not know who the mutual matches are unless both parties click on yes. You may get an email saying that someone has clicked yes on you, but you won't know who it is unless you also click yes on them. Am I wrong?

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:46 PM

Well aren't you just cute as a button! Great analogy too. Welcome to Mingle...I hope you find what you are looking for.


Thank you! This is a fun site. I had no idea when I registered that a co-ed community existed in unison with matching! :banana:

Melody :heart:

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:49 PM

I mean no disrespect Heather and maybe it's because I am missing something, but a person does not know who the mutual matches are unless both parties click on yes. You may get an email saying that someone has clicked yes on you, but you won't know who it is unless you also click yes on them. Am I wrong?


I'm really new, so I have a larger margin of error in using the site but I've received Mutual Matches from profiles I didn't 'match' or sometimes even view.

Melody :heart:

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 02/07/09 05:55 PM
Creepy guy. Otherwise it's two against one. And, creepy guys aren't usually very strong. A can of pepper spray should do the trick.

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Sat 02/07/09 06:01 PM
If I had to pick one, I'd pick my nose!!!

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