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Topic: guys - why?
EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Sun 07/12/09 06:38 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 07/12/09 06:42 PM
I get that from women

Solstice6363 Joined Thu 05/07/09 Posts: 6	Sun 07/12/09 06:43 PM
I'm in Orlando FLA... and i truly cannot say i LOVE YOU yet. Sorry, but i really need some time here LOL Maybe youre just so wonderful that you scramble their brains. Drop me a line and I'll let you know what the real reason is... Craig

lonetar25 Joined Mon 05/18/09 Posts: 3531	Sun 07/12/09 06:45 PM
alot of them were probly lonely, first contact, someone likes me, this is going great, whats next or they where ***** or you are hypnotisingly beautifull like that bird from the history books that was so fit, if you looked in her eyes you fell for her instantly hmmmmmm you are perty

fullmoonfairy Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 1788	Sun 07/12/09 06:45 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? Think positive. At least they ask you to marry them before they explain in graphic detail what they'd like to do to you after they've undressed you.

bikerbabe63 Joined Sun 10/05/08 Posts: 596	Sun 07/12/09 06:46 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? Be careful be very very careful

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Sun 07/12/09 06:48 PM
I get those as well(from women), and it tends to make me question a new acquaintance, till enough time has gone by to make an educated decision.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Sun 07/12/09 06:49 PM
They are in love of meeting you, the hopes of whatever they are looking for, the excitement of the possibilities or they are probably just horny like hell. Love takes time, for each new love it's takes different amount of time but 2 days and a few emails/talks is not love, just hormones.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Sun 07/12/09 06:51 PM
Thank you lonetar. Craig, you're funny. Your email cleared out however. Yes, i'm always careful. I just find it strange. We discuss music, the animals, neutral stuff. I don't even k ow how it jumps to anything more! Talking about chickens and pet turkeys isn't THAT exciting! Lol.

galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sun 07/12/09 06:52 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? Yes, it's a generalization BUT it's even weirder when you are my age and it's a 19 year old wanting to ummmmm...."love" you!

lighthouselover Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 1100	Sun 07/12/09 06:53 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? I honestly think that these are scammers. This is generally their GOP... anyone that tells you they love you from a few emails has some serious issues, IMO. those are the ones that I used to really press to meet in person...(of course, I knew that they would come up with 100's of excuses why they couldn't meet...) they tended to go away pretty quick... Please, be very careful.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Sun 07/12/09 06:53 PM
thats sad. ready to toss a ring on the ol finger without even a physical meeting. are we that desperate? yes we are, brian.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 07/12/09 06:54 PM
thats sad. ready to toss a ring on the ol finger without even a physical meeting. are we that desperate? yes we are, brian.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sun 07/12/09 07:10 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? They want a divorce within the year?

Homesteader2 Joined Wed 02/18/09 Posts: 30	Sun 07/12/09 07:11 PM
I agree with lighthouselover 90% of the time its they want something. The other 10% is insecurity.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Sun 07/12/09 07:14 PM
Lol. I would hope no one is that desperate. Lol.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Sun 07/12/09 07:16 PM
who spiked the pimp juice?!!

Neurofriction Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1840	Sun 07/12/09 07:22 PM
Cuz there freaks! Simple. Have no life or think you don't. One of the two.

daleray1606 Joined Tue 03/06/07 Posts: 3642	Sun 07/12/09 07:32 PM
Okay so this will probably come across as a generalization but I'm curious. The last 10 guys I've spoken with via email have come across with an almost instant "I love you" and I think we'd be great together. Within 2 days! These are men between 30 and 50 so I'd hope they actuaLly be mature. I'm slamming on the brakes trying to back up and figure out how we went from basic chitchat to a marriage proposal. And I point blank am telling them that I can't make any decision like that till we meet and am certainly not jumping that far ahead. What's up with that? Whoa... That's seems a bit fast and a touch crazy to me IMHO

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Sun 07/12/09 07:39 PM
Could be any number of things. Exceptional loneliness. Extreme insecurity. Just being overly happy that anyone at all is paying attention to them. A little ( or a lot ) out in left field. Scammer. Just trying to sink their hooks into some lonely, gullible woman.