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so late last night on this site i had a conversation with a guy .. in my own town that was so awesome it gave me sweet dreams (get your mind outta the gutter).
so its the next night... and i'm scared. i'm scared if i message him he'll feel weirdly smothered or whatever. but i'm scared if i don't ... he won't message me and it would have all been a fluke. its very hard to explain. what should i do? 
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allow yourself to be pursued or run to him......whatever!
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Well, I've never believed in the 3 Day Rule...if you feel like chatting...do it! If he gets skeered off, he wasn't man enough for you anyway!
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I think I would wait until tomorrow and maybe send him a funny e-card or a short joke that picks up on a part of your conversation. Keep it light and flirty.
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Live large...
No guts, no glory! |
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Edited by
Gumbyvs
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Sat 07/25/09 09:25 PM
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so late last night on this site i had a conversation with a guy .. in my own town that was so awesome it gave me sweet dreams (get your mind outta the gutter). so its the next night... and i'm scared. i'm scared if i message him he'll feel weirdly smothered or whatever. but i'm scared if i don't ... he won't message me and it would have all been a fluke. its very hard to explain. what should i do? Club him in the head, and drag him to your Woman cave. |
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Geez...
She did say 'get your mind outa the gutter'. Having no idea of the conversation she is refering to.. She might be just wanting to continue it. I do that myself. Doesn't mean she has a 'romantic' idea going. |
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Fa get abot it
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Live large... No guts, no glory! |
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Just give him some time to pursue you. Let him chase ya a little and feel like a man! If he doesn't contact you by the end of the week, limit yourself to one message letting him know you're still interested and would like to hear from him. If he doesn't respond, wish him luck... in your head.
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he must be one special guy
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Message him Socks.. What do you have to lose?
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Fear is the little death.
Fear is the mind killer. Be strong and have no fear! |
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Well, I've never believed in the 3 Day Rule...if you feel like chatting...do it! If he gets skeered off, he wasn't man enough for you anyway! Whats the three day rule? |
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Well, I've never believed in the 3 Day Rule...if you feel like chatting...do it! If he gets skeered off, he wasn't man enough for you anyway! Whats the three day rule? A game players play. teasing and stuff. Wonder how they both feel if both played it... Which is why I dont. |
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It is hard to give advice to strangers but I would say that an innocent message is the way to go; it is not wise to overplay your hand.
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so late last night on this site i had a conversation with a guy .. in my own town that was so awesome it gave me sweet dreams (get your mind outta the gutter). so its the next night... and i'm scared. i'm scared if i message him he'll feel weirdly smothered or whatever. but i'm scared if i don't ... he won't message me and it would have all been a fluke. its very hard to explain. what should i do? is that like nature's pocket? yeah i think i'll leave it alone for tonight and wait. Club him in the head, and drag him to your Woman cave. |
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he must be one special guy If "Socks" is impressed by him I would think so. She's a smart cookie. |
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I finally met someone on this site. It was nice until he showed up and told me that he had met someone else. Nothing against me he says. If it doesn't work out with her he wants to come back. It was great. I don't think I will ever have the courage to do something like that again. It took a lot for me to put myself out there and I got smacked down. Nope not again.
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so late last night on this site i had a conversation with a guy .. in my own town that was so awesome it gave me sweet dreams (get your mind outta the gutter). so its the next night... and i'm scared. i'm scared if i message him he'll feel weirdly smothered or whatever. but i'm scared if i don't ... he won't message me and it would have all been a fluke. its very hard to explain. what should i do? message him if that's how you feel like.
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