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Topic: just freinds?
heartseeker82's photo
Sat 08/01/09 10:18 PM
please help me understand guys. i like this guy i am seeing he is sweet and cute we dated a couple of times before our second date he said he was looking for a one on one relationship after the second date he says we are just freinds he said before he wanted to be freinds but is that all he wants or is there hope for more should i be patient or continue to look i told him i would like to be his girlfreind he said in capital letters freinds but he had said before he wanted to take it slow am i hoping for somthing that will never be HELP!!!!!!!

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 08/01/09 10:19 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sat 08/01/09 10:20 PM
Sorry, but all it tells me that he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, just a friend. You either get in peace with this or move on and forget about him if it hurts you to just to be a friend. flowerforyou

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Sat 08/01/09 10:20 PM

Sorry, but all it tells me that he doesn't want to be your boyfriend, just a friend. You either get in peace with this or move on and forget about him if it hurts you to just to be a friend. flowerforyou


well said...i agree

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Sat 08/01/09 10:24 PM
I think this is the standard statement when someone does not want to be in a relationship with you. I think they know that you will probably never become close friends.

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Sat 08/01/09 10:32 PM
He's just not that into you. Next!flowerforyou

AdventureBegins's photo
Sat 08/01/09 10:37 PM
Breath...

Then decide if friendship with him is worth all this.

Like can you actually have a friendship with him? Or will you need more....

Then decide whats best for YOU!

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 08/01/09 10:37 PM
Your not his type, move on!

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Sat 08/01/09 11:17 PM
Hello.....

Wish You Happy Friendship Day...

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
0 1 2 3 4 5
No Scale to meausure...our Friendship bcuz
we can see where it starts but
Nobody can see where it Ends!!!!!

hope you enjoy ur Friendship Day......

please dnt forget in ur prayers and Dua'ss

keep smiling on ur face...

yours frnd

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Sat 08/01/09 11:19 PM

Hello.....

Wish You Happy Friendship Day...

,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
0 1 2 3 4 5
No Scale to meausure...our Friendship bcuz
we can see where it starts but
Nobody can see where it Ends!!!!!

hope you enjoy ur Friendship Day......

please dnt forget in ur prayers and Dua'ss

keep smiling on ur face...

yours frnd


huh

heartseeker82's photo
Sun 08/02/09 03:13 AM
I knew it oh well there is someone out there that is ment for me where the heck r u lol

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Sun 08/02/09 04:06 AM
anyone using the 'friends' routine walk away from flowerforyou

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 08/02/09 05:02 AM

anyone using the 'friends' routine walk away from flowerforyou


I dont think thats fair....the whole point of dating is to get to know ppl enough to know if ya want a relationship with them. Sometimes u know after the first date, sometimes it takes a bit longer, but a date or 2 does not equal long term commitment imo.

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Sun 08/02/09 05:03 AM
Edited by gayfifer on Sun 08/02/09 05:04 AM


anyone using the 'friends' routine walk away from flowerforyou


I dont think thats fair....the whole point of dating is to get to know ppl enough to know if ya want a relationship with them. Sometimes u know after the first date, sometimes it takes a bit longer, but a date or 2 does not equal long term commitment imo.


see i think the problem is i've never done dating so i don't really understand it

Pink_lady's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:04 AM

please help me understand guys. i like this guy i am seeing he is sweet and cute we dated a couple of times before our second date he said he was looking for a one on one relationship after the second date he says we are just freinds he said before he wanted to be freinds but is that all he wants or is there hope for more should i be patient or continue to look i told him i would like to be his girlfreind he said in capital letters freinds but he had said before he wanted to take it slow am i hoping for somthing that will never be HELP!!!!!!!


Let me try help u understand....if u have been on 2 dates, and the guy says he wants to take things slow...DONT tell him u want to be his gf.

earthytaurus76's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:07 AM
He said "FRIENDS ONLY". Couldnt have been clearer.

heartseeker82's photo
Sun 08/02/09 06:55 AM
was very drunk last night lol very drunk half a bottle of rum drunk please ingnore preveous postsat just freinds is lol was lonly and drunk anyway thanks for your responses

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:00 AM
Don't read into it!!!

He said what he said. That's it!!!:
:heart:

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 08/02/09 07:05 AM
but, maybe he didn't really mean it?

or he might change his mind?


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Sun 08/02/09 08:42 AM

was very drunk last night lol very drunk half a bottle of rum drunk please ingnore preveous postsat just freinds is lol was lonly and drunk anyway thanks for your responses


aha the old alcohol fuelled post! it don't taste nice, it don't make u feel good and recovery is worse so the point of it is??

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Sun 08/02/09 11:31 AM
He is not interested only as friends.

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