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Topic: Jealousy
Peccy's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:20 AM
....is it sometimes a part of your life?

laughsandgiggles's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:28 AM
well- occasionally that green eyed monster rears its ugly little head- and its not usually a proud moment for me. ohwell

it usually happens when im feeling a bit insecure- i try to control the little bugger though.frustrated

Bandii's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:29 AM
Yes. Although people tend to suppress it and deny it; Truth is that EVERYONE has that emotion the thing is that different people have different ways to deal with it.

Some are expressive and violent, while others (Like me) just keep silent and try to stay cool.

But it don't mean that I don't feel it.

Everyone does.

ledi180's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:37 AM
Yes, but I'm working on it flowerforyou

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:40 AM
Maybe a little bit from time to time... but not usually.

misstina2's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:46 AM
Edited by misstina2 on Sat 09/05/09 07:05 AM
I've been reading up on astrology signs.I'm starting to think there's something to the sign you are.I would only be jealous if the relationship wasn't stable

jmvid2004's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:54 AM
Unfortunately jealousy is a horrible habit that can almost never be broken. No matter how hard you convince yourself that you will give the next person the benefit of doubt...

Vicious cycle!!

Lil_Drummer's photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:12 AM
i will admit, i sometimes have my moments, but for the most part i'm not that much of the jealous type. i figure if **** will happen, it will happen. and plus, your significant other shouldn't be doing things to make you jealous if he/she loves you as much as they do or respects you enough. so, i figure it's not a "true" relationship if the person has to be sneaky about certain things. that's why honesty and communication are the most important things in a relationship.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:20 AM
Can't say I'm a jealous person I'm happy when my friends do good never envy them for what they have. And if and when I'm with someone one as long as you trust them what is there to be jealous over........ The way I see it they will either stay with you or move on...you can't make someone love you.......noway

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:26 AM
Nope, I can honestly say its not. I begrudge no one their happiness. In fact, I can't really be happy unless others are happy and have what they need.

In my personal relationships, however, I will feel pain if my S/O is flirting with another or cheating. Not sure if that is a jealous feeling or more just feeling betrayed.

Jill298's photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:29 AM
Edited by Jill298 on Sat 09/05/09 07:29 AM
I'm only jealous when I think I'm not getting enough attention, or someone is prettier than me, or they make more money than me, or they have a better life than me. Other than that, it's not a problem. :wink: laugh

no photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:32 AM
I think at some times we all feel a bit insecure about one thing or another and get jealous.
I know I get kind of jealous when here I exist a mere mortal with all the age and stress of a real life showing on my body and all these hot young naked or near naked hard body types are flung in our faces as if they are somehow better and get attention for their looks. It can make me feel sometimes like a "less-than adequate female", and especially if the man I am with makes an exerted fuss over them. It's hard!
And sometimes I envy really BRIGHT people. Again, average, smart person here. But when someone is an over-achiever with a physisists brain, I can be jealous.
Now, I'm doomed when it's a young sexy hard body WITH BRAINS!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sat 09/05/09 07:46 AM

I think at some times we all feel a bit insecure about one thing or another and get jealous.
I know I get kind of jealous when here I exist a mere mortal with all the age and stress of a real life showing on my body and all these hot young naked or near naked hard body types are flung in our faces as if they are somehow better and get attention for their looks. It can make me feel sometimes like a "less-than adequate female", and especially if the man I am with makes an exerted fuss over them. It's hard!
And sometimes I envy really BRIGHT people. Again, average, smart person here. But when someone is an over-achiever with a physisists brain, I can be jealous.
Now, I'm doomed when it's a young sexy hard body WITH BRAINS!!! laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



Don't buy into what the media
tells us we're "supposed" to look like. A lot of people value the wisdom that comes with age. Value yourself, love yourself and treat yourself with kindness and respect. All of those young hard bodies will be our age one day.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:13 AM

I'm only jealous when I think I'm not getting enough attention, or someone is prettier than me, or they make more money than me, or they have a better life than me. Other than that, it's not a problem. :wink: laugh


laugh laugh laugh

countrybelle6471's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:24 AM
It only seems to happen when I'm dating someone..For some reason,that is way beyond me..the menhave always gotten jealous,or man in my life I should say tend to get jealous about anything & everyone,,in my life..And they have no reason to be,I'm honset & true to them,as anybody could evey as & more..ETCno need to drag this explantion on & on..but but they usually are the one's at fault 1st it seems..so there for I think they try & find fault in me to..to justify there guilt or whatever..again explaining & all..:wink:

Jess642's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:14 PM
Nope.

There's no room in my life for that kind of insecurity.

I tried it out on his Lordship back in the early days....he laughed at me...ohwell


and then I laughed too...slaphead :laughing:

Dan99's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:21 PM
If you are talking about in relationships then no, never. I have complete trust in my woman, and i dont ever feel jealous whatever she is doing.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:24 PM
Sometimes I do feel jealous

But that's very rare

And the man in my life is really never jealous!!

That's why he's so cool!!!:heart:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:26 PM
No relationship, nothing to be jealous about.....

I am a bit jealous of my sons's girlfriends because they are so DAMN YOUNG

and I am well...... NOT

Katzenschnauzer's photo
Sat 09/05/09 06:34 PM

If you are talking about in relationships then no, never. I have complete trust in my woman, and i dont ever feel jealous whatever she is doing.



Then take that chain off her ankle, Dan!!surprised

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