Who is and isn't, and who hates it?

Because I do not get jealous. I know what bed my man sleeps in at night (when I've got a man), so for me it's not an issue. But I do hate constantly being questioned.

Plus, it destroyed one of my recent relationships, and I didn't even do anything wrong.

Anyone?

JealosY is a sickness that needs to be controlled. JMHO


I think it is humane nature to have some' jealousY, sometimes..

Some may say it is about control................

But, I have No disire to control anYone, ever. And, I will be damned if someOne is going to change me.

In my experience, the problem is when I no longer Trust a person.. And, If I don't Trust a person I will not have AnY kind of a Relationship with them. None.

That is my way of(some what)controlling jealousY.

a little jealousy is ok as long as it doesn't get out of hand and the person becomes controling

A lot of components to jealousy...self esteem, that self-assured and confident attitude - without being cocky - that allows you to trust someone. Deception, lying and cheating are just some of the behaviors that can undermine a relationship...and jealousy is just one of many ugly results.

I love when you meet someone, and you ask them straight up if they are the jealous type, the answer is always no. Then you get involved with them, and it doesn't take long to see that they are, in fact, the jealous type.

Now, in some cases, I think that there are those people who will do things to see if there partner will get jealous. I don't why people wanna play games like this, but some do. In some ways, it can be fun if you do it to spice up a sex life. You know. Make your partner jealous by flirting hard with men/women and then go home and do it till you can't do it anymore. People will do this, and if both know it is going on, then ok. To each there own. But I would think that eventually it would lead to problems.

I also find that when one person is jealous, and the other did not do a thing to warrant the jealousy, then it typically means that the accuser is guilty of something.

Anyways....jealousy is a b*tch!

...personally i've never been jealous,i figure if someone wants to be with you then they will..and if not their loss..because i know i'm all that ..and a can of beanie weinies...

Jealousy is non productive emotion, and the quickest way to drive someone away from you.

I COMPLETELY agree with you on that.

Jealousey is poison to any relationship. It is cruel to play games trying to create it and insulting and abusive if you project it on undeserving victims. It is the fastest way to make me walk away. I refuse to compeat with anyone for my love interest. Either you are mine or forget it. I don't buy that "harmless flirting" is innocent and consider it deeply disrespectful. But just talking and being normal doesn't bug me in the least.

a little jealousy is OK.........but bein OVER JEALOUS is NOT good...........it almost turns into a "controlling" thing.....and I WILL NOT put up with something like that! Being over jealous only makes me walk-away all the faster!

These men that get jealous if you TALK to another male, is RIDICULOUS......they have a lot to learn.....!! when im WITH SOMEONE, im WITH THEM.....jealousy is the QUICKEST way to ruin a good thing!

Jealousy is never okay.

Jealousy is a sign you are insecure in yourself and fear losing something because someone else may be better than you.

Never entertain jealousy it will bring you down.

I don't do jealous

jealousy comes from being insecure in your position

and I hate that feeling. if I'm secure then there's no jealousy. If I'm insecure then there's no relationship

EDIT: heyyyyyy you said the same thing but faster!

I think you owe me a coke...lol

sighhhhh

I'm not allowed to drink coke, or dr pepper, or pepsi

but I can have root beer

Jealousy is an emotional pathology; a dysfunction; manipulaton; it’s ugly, immature and negative.

I am not jealous and I have no need for jealous people.

i like a little jealousy to knw he cares...but too much is a turn off. If i am jealous with a guy, then it tells me i don't trust him..hence: i wouldn't be with him

a little jealousy is ok, as long as it doesn't get out of hand..

Jealousy is not all bad. A healthy jealousy needs to be developed in family relationships. This type of jealousy is a protective fight to maintain your relationships. Would you sit by while a person seduces your spouse or deceives your child? No, you would fight for them. You would do all you could to declare truth.

Root beer is good. I don't drink soda anyway really but that is what the old saying says.

Anything with HFC is bad for you. Just say no!