Topic: Would u get back w/an ex?
Snoman1951's photo
Sun 01/03/10 06:39 AM
Wouldn't buy back an old car of mine
Wouldn't go back with an ex bigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 01/03/10 06:44 AM
Too many variables in this situation to say yes or no. It just depends on the individuals involved and why you broke up in the first place. I wish you both the best of luck. flowerforyou

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Sun 01/03/10 07:00 AM
Personally, wouldn't get back with an Ex myself,
But am looking for my next EX:wink:

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Sun 01/03/10 07:00 AM
Some people break up because they get angry or hurt about something. Anger is usually just fear in disguise. Every situation is different. I would ask myself-is the smallest amount of time being with the person worth the pain you went through the first time they left?

People aren't always on the same time-lines as far as relationships are concerned. Things don't always fall in place when you want them to. If you think the connection is like no other then you try again. Just be prepared for the pain if they leave again. Not an easy thing to go through.

MotherTucker43's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:29 AM


:heart: I met this guy on this site....we dated...got engaged...and we just recently broke upbrokenheart ...
He says he still loves me and misses me....If it was true love...do you think getting back together is worth it?
Would you?

Do you ever dream about getting back with an ex? Has there ever been a time where you couldn't sleep or stop thinking about the person?

I'm going on a date tomorrow with him and I'll know if the fire is still there after one kiss!

Opinions appreciated,
Cristina

:banana: P.S> Happy New Year Everyone!!!


If you have to ask if it's worth it to get back with an ex, the answer is NO. I would personally just remain friends, nothing more. I would make it clear that we would only be friends and nothing more.


I have to completely agree here. If you have to ask if it's worth it than more than likely the answer is no. This question can not be easily answered because there is so many variables that come to play. How long were you guys together? Why did you break up? How long has it been since you have broken up? But the big question to me is what has changed since you guys broke up?

Have I ever thought about getting back together with an ex...yes. Looking back I think it was more the rejection I felt from him not knowing what it was he wanted. I found that after agreeing with the breakup and backing off that ex started to question his decision. He would tell me he missed me and all it ended up doing was prolonging the healing process.

Whatever it is that you decide to do in this situation I hope it works out to what is best for you. Let us know. :)

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 01/03/10 09:35 AM
getting back with an ex?

that's like asking "would you like to stick your hand under this blowtorch?"

XenomorphEyez's photo
Sun 01/03/10 10:36 AM

:heart: I met this guy on this site....we dated...got engaged...and we just recently broke upbrokenheart ...
He says he still loves me and misses me....If it was true love...do you think getting back together is worth it?
Would you?

Do you ever dream about getting back with an ex? Has there ever been a time where you couldn't sleep or stop thinking about the person?

I'm going on a date tomorrow with him and I'll know if the fire is still there after one kiss!

Opinions appreciated,
Cristina

:banana: P.S> Happy New Year Everyone!!!

Doesn't sound like you are over your ex and are not ready to date. If it's a fresh break up, then if you want to move on, you need to distance yourself and not be a fallback booty call. You'll only get hurt. Spend a year not talking to the person, then if there's still feelings, get back together.

The best way to get over someone is to get under an new one.

silly's photo
Sun 01/03/10 11:26 AM

Personally, wouldn't get back with an Ex myself,
But am looking for my next EX:wink:


if u go into a relationship with looking for your next ex then u won't found true love.

silly's photo
Sun 01/03/10 11:27 AM
I don't go back I move forward.just move along.

FETTS61's photo
Sun 01/03/10 11:31 AM




Do you ever dream about getting back with an ex? Has there ever been a time where you couldn't sleep or stop thinking about the person?

yes

and id get back with her in a second if she would have mebigsmile


i should clarify...1 certain ex yes in a second, the rest...Hell no

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/03/10 11:45 AM

getting back with an ex?

that's like asking "would you like to stick your hand under this blowtorch?"


I SO agree

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 01/03/10 11:46 AM
I dream about getting BACK AT an ex. Never WITH. laugh devil

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:11 PM
sometimes I miss my ex-wife

but I'm hoping that, with practice, my aim will improve

isaac_dede's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:27 PM

I dream about getting BACK AT an ex. Never WITH. laugh devil

:thumbsup:!

s1owhand's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:28 PM
"If at first you don't succeed, try try again.
Then quit. No use making a dam fool out of yourself..."

-W C Fields

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:33 PM

"If at first you don't succeed, try try again.
Then quit. No use making a dam fool out of yourself..."

-W C Fields




laugh perfect! laugh


dnc4Him's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:33 PM





Do you ever dream about getting back with an ex? Has there ever been a time where you couldn't sleep or stop thinking about the person?

yes

and id get back with her in a second if she would have mebigsmile


i should clarify...1 certain ex yes in a second, the rest...Hell no


Have you tried...after enough time has passed you never know...

MotherTucker43's photo
Sun 01/03/10 03:28 PM

I dream about getting BACK AT an ex. Never WITH. laugh devil


drinker I have that same dream....laugh

ashley_renee's photo
Sun 01/03/10 03:37 PM
Sexually - I had gotten back with an ex for two years after we broke up. And I was willing to get back into a relationship with him.

Guess it's a good thing we didn't. =/

sparkey01's photo
Sun 01/03/10 03:47 PM
Tried it once but found out what bugged me the first time around still bugged me the second time around. frustrated