Topic: Pets and partners
Quietman_2009's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:19 AM
then again

it's not just dogs

if I had a date who said "I don't like your couch"

or if she says "I don't like your car"

or if she says "I don't like your curtains"


she's outta there



msharmony's photo
Mon 01/11/10 07:59 AM

then again

it's not just dogs

if I had a date who said "I don't like your couch"

or if she says "I don't like your car"

or if she says "I don't like your curtains"


she's outta there






lol,,sensitive about your couch and your curtains? I would have never guessed that about you

now, the car,, what guy isnt sensitive about their car,?,,,understandable

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:01 AM

As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day.


yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much.

A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not.

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Mon 01/11/10 08:05 AM


As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day.


yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much.

A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not.


I don't remember comparing a dog to a child.

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:22 AM



As long as they take care of their pets well, I don't see an issue. I'd date someone who has pets over someone who didn't like animals any day.


yeah, I like pets too, had dogs my whole life. As a mother who has carried two children however, I have a hard time seeing the similarity or comparing the two types of 'children'. My ex used to always go there with 'would you do this to your child or do that with your child' in reference to our dog. I didnt appreciate it much.

A baby child is MUCH more defenseless and dependent than any dog,,pack animal or not.


I don't remember comparing a dog to a child.


you didnt, I was referring to my ex

morgannicole's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:36 AM
No... because I've had such a large variety of pets, it really doesn't shake me.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 01/11/10 08:56 AM
I had a boyfriend who had a female cat that would go into heat and attack me to the point of my legs bleeding. He refused to spend the money to get her fixed at the vet.
We are no longer together...not only for this reason though.

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 01/11/10 11:49 PM
I'm good with a person with animals. Don't see the point in roaches, however. Love snakes, but not willing to feed them. Love rats and mice more.

However, I get tired of those with "convienent" animals, especially dogs. It's convienent to have them around, but okay to board them all of the time if vacationing. My dogs have always vacationed with me.

I also get tired of those who don't take care of their animals, like Cutie mentioned, not spay/neutering them. An intact any animal is a waste. Especially with the amount of work I do with rescue.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:01 AM

dogs are pack animals. they are traumatized when seperated from their pack

and people are their packs

people who have dogs (ususally) bond with them. and it is as hard to be away from them as it is a family member

new people and dates and such have to be aware of that. they are not enetering a relationship with just one person but a bonded pair. and some people can't take that

and its just too bad for them


I have to totally agree, my dog and I are so bonded and well I am a package deal. Not something I will even entertain the thought of changing. We are constant companions, she goes to work with me etc.

I was thinking of going to visit a friend in Aussie land.. Hand to change plans I was trying to get my dog to stay with my friend a bit like over night. She loves this person til I got out of her sight then not so happening. She went through horrible seperation anxiety.Vet told me to deal with it.

I did look up that Bird spider there is now way I could cope with that. I don't do spider's, snakes and a lot of other creepy crawly things.

Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:26 AM

Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"?


Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. slaphead :tongue:

If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 01/12/10 12:30 AM


Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"?


Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. slaphead :tongue:

If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den.


rofl rofl rofl There's a scary thought! LOL!


Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:04 AM



Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"?


Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. slaphead :tongue:

If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den.


rofl rofl rofl There's a scary thought! LOL!




I know! Can you imagine what a lion would do if you pooped on their rug? scared

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Tue 01/12/10 01:20 AM
Ya it would be totally weird 2 find out smeone has more than 2 of any animal especially if they hit double digits lol

But wat totally annoys me is if someone cares more for their pet than me or humanity in general... u know the guy who loves his dog so much tht if he had 2 choose between u or the dog it would be that's right the dog...

Like seriously I know pets r gr8t companions but get ur **** 2gther lol ..just sayn'

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:30 AM

Ya it would be totally weird 2 find out smeone has more than 2 of any animal especially if they hit double digits lol

But wat totally annoys me is if someone cares more for their pet than me or humanity in general... u know the guy who loves his dog so much tht if he had 2 choose between u or the dog it would be that's right the dog...

Like seriously I know pets r gr8t companions but get ur **** 2gther lol ..just sayn'


What's the difference between saying I'd choose my animals over you, vs I'd choose so-n-so over you? The human factor? What makes any one person worth saving, especially a total stranger?

Sorry, I'm taking all of my animals over people. I know very few people worth saving, and those who I do know and like acknowledge that I'd choose the animals over them. Heck, they're the type that would put their animals before me, so it works fine.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:31 AM




Does the kind and/or number of pets a person keeps influence your initial feelings toward him/her? For instance, if a person has a large number or cats or keeps a python in their apartment. Can you tell something about them? Does it bother you? What kind of pets would you consider "normal"?


Of course it says something about them. Obviously they like animals. slaphead :tongue:

If you think about, is it really "normal" to have a pet? All I'm saying is you never hear wild animals talking about how "smart their human is", or posting on the internet pics of their pet person sleeping in their nest/den.


rofl rofl rofl There's a scary thought! LOL!




I know! Can you imagine what a lion would do if you pooped on their rug? scared


:laughing: Somehow I think those claws would be really bad, then!

Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:36 AM
Or, what if they were to spay/ neuter us? scared

Now I'm freaking out! laugh

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:38 AM

Or, what if they were to spay/ neuter us? scared

Now I'm freaking out! laugh


That might be a good idea!

Totage's photo
Tue 01/12/10 01:40 AM
laugh

beachbum069's photo
Tue 01/12/10 03:22 AM
My dog used to try and hump my dates legs.slaphead

no photo
Tue 01/12/10 04:37 AM

I wouldnt go near a women that treats her cats like they are her kids.

Freaky!
not just cats, but any animal. when I have a pet I love it, but realize it's just an animal that I can live with or without..