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Topic: What's a keeper?
MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:13 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper?

WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?laugh

Updawg's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:14 PM
Did you say, Thats ok cause I dont want to be a kept woman. See ya!!!

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:15 PM

Did you say, Thats ok cause I dont want to be a kept woman. See ya!!!


Actually, I think I probably just looked confused and said OK.ohwell It would have made me think less if he had just said I'm not into you.bigsmile

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:18 PM

When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper?

WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?laugh


I've been working on a Super Soaker that I fashioned into a new and improved 'Llama-Ray'...so far all I can get it to do is turn people into toads though...

Maybe you should try the same thing?

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Sat 01/30/10 04:19 PM
He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:20 PM

He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with.


Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial?bigsmile

Fear, please let me know when you have perfected it. I hate Llama's.

no photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:30 PM


He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with.


Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial?bigsmile

Are you really looking for someone to date and have fun with, or are you wanting to be loved? Because it will shine through, men will pick up on it either way.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:34 PM



He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with.


Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial?bigsmile

Are you really looking for someone to date and have fun with, or are you wanting to be loved? Because it will shine through, men will pick up on it either way.


K, I'm confused. Don't all relationships (friendship, sexual, long term) start with dating and having fun. No wonder I'm no good at this.grumble

Goofball73's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:38 PM

When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper?

WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?laugh


Soooooo.....you are looking for an intimate encounter eh? Sweet!!!:thumbsup: tongue2 :laughing: :laughing:

no photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:45 PM
What is it you truly want?

Dates with different men, or just one guy ?


MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:46 PM

What is it you truly want?

Dates with different men, or just one guy ?




I think when I start dating I want to meet different people and have fun. Then if there is one I like, who knows.

no photo
Sat 01/30/10 04:55 PM


What is it you truly want?

Dates with different men, or just one guy ?




I think when I start dating I want to meet different people and have fun. Then if there is one I like, who knows.


Well then that was just his way of saying he wasn't that into you.

NEXT!!!!!:wink:

XenomorphEyez's photo
Tue 02/02/10 10:26 AM
I think it means you are gf/spouse material and not just a fling. I would take it as a compliment.

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/02/10 10:48 AM

I think it means you are gf/spouse material and not just a fling. I would take it as a compliment.



Ditto...................and if that is not what your wanting to be then brush it off and go have fun..........bigsmile

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:52 PM
A fish of a certain length that you can keep to eat. If their too small, throw em back in so they can grow up.

The fish was really THIS>>>>BIG! I swear!

happy

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Tue 02/02/10 09:57 PM

When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper?

WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?laugh


spock he said THIS,,because he was out looking for a chick to have a threesome with him and his wife..

















laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl




AND HE KNEW "YOU" WOULDN'T GO THERE!!!!!rofl rofl rofl rofl

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 02/03/10 04:00 PM


When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper?

WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?laugh


spock he said THIS,,because he was out looking for a chick to have a threesome with him and his wife..



Now T, this I actually understand.laugh













laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh rofl rofl rofl rofl




AND HE KNEW "YOU" WOULDN'T GO THERE!!!!!rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 02/03/10 04:06 PM
You should be pleased, none of the guys I ever tried to be with considered me a keeper. flowerforyou

newarkjw's photo
Wed 02/03/10 04:30 PM
I do think that was a compliment. He probably wasn't quite at the right place at that time. That is why I don't date.......

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 02/03/10 05:05 PM

You should be pleased, none of the guys I ever tried to be with considered me a keeper. flowerforyou


Cal, I doubt they could verbalize the truth. That is hard for some. Easier to just walk away.flowerforyou

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