Topic: celibacy
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Thu 02/25/10 10:15 PM


I worked in a psychiatric facility that had group therapy for sexual anorexia. The premise was that when you deny yourself sex you have other underlying issues much like the anorexic and food, and of course you need help to become sexual.



seriously? how sad,, more proof that the psychological industry will label ANYTHING an illness if they can make some money


I agree, this was the only facility I worked in that had this particular group. They also provided therapy for sexual addiction.

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Fri 02/26/10 04:35 AM
i decided to hold off on sex til i meet the one person i truly love with all my heart when i was 14 and am still celebate sure there are times when i want to have sex but those are the times i just keep my mind occupied with something other than sex and if that dosen't work then a cold shower works everytime.

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Fri 02/26/10 06:49 AM

i decided to hold off on sex til i meet the one person i truly love with all my heart when i was 14 and am still celebate sure there are times when i want to have sex but those are the times i just keep my mind occupied with something other than sex and if that dosen't work then a cold shower works everytime.



wow,, u mean its possible to be healthy and NOT HAVE SEX?! (just joking)

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Fri 02/26/10 09:01 AM

i decided to hold off on sex til i meet the one person i truly love with all my heart when i was 14 and am still celebate sure there are times when i want to have sex but those are the times i just keep my mind occupied with something other than sex and if that dosen't work then a cold shower works everytime.


I admire anyone that makes that choice and carries through with it. Good for you.....:thumbsup:

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Fri 02/26/10 09:41 AM

i decided to hold off on sex til i meet the one person i truly love with all my heart when i was 14 and am still celebate sure there are times when i want to have sex but those are the times i just keep my mind occupied with something other than sex and if that dosen't work then a cold shower works everytime.

smitten {j/k}laugh http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e79wDMhO_hA:wink:

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Fri 02/26/10 09:46 AM
Any yous guy who has a hot-to-trot galfriend and you don't wanna' do her, send her my way and I'll take care of her while you celibate!pitchfork :banana: pitchfork shades

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Fri 02/26/10 10:54 AM

Celibacy does take restraint and 'won't power'. Hats off to anyone
that does it while battling the urge to not. I however live only one
life and would rather enjoy every moment and never pass up on the
opportunity to enjoy the bestest feeling in the world. Waiting for a
long time before getting it on is a waste of time for me.

Can't improve on that :-)

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Fri 02/26/10 12:20 PM


Celibacy does take restraint and 'won't power'. Hats off to anyone
that does it while battling the urge to not. I however live only one
life and would rather enjoy every moment and never pass up on the
opportunity to enjoy the bestest feeling in the world. Waiting for a
long time before getting it on is a waste of time for me.

Can't improve on that :-)

Yeah! And my balls could explode from the semen backing up!scared shocked surprised tongue2 :angel:

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Fri 02/26/10 01:51 PM
Well, ever since the H1N1 outbreak, I have decided to abstain from any kind of fluid contact with a chick. I mean...that is how you catch that right?:tongue: laugh

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Fri 02/26/10 01:55 PM
Awwww hell go ahead if all five of you are into it!
Just be safe!

drinker laugh

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Fri 02/26/10 01:57 PM
celibacy and blue balls.... go di(k in handlaugh drinker

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Fri 02/26/10 02:01 PM

Well, ever since the H1N1 outbreak, I have decided to abstain from any
kind of fluid contact with a chick. I mean...that is how you catch
that right?:tongue: laugh

Ahhh. What a shame.
I can clear this up for you.
Wrong animal.
You are not to touch a pig.
See?
You can go back to fluid contacts.
Unless.
The chick is also a.....??

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Fri 02/26/10 02:40 PM
Edited by everydailiv4u on Fri 02/26/10 02:46 PM

i decided to hold off on sex til i meet the one person i truly love with all my heart when i was 14 and am still celebate sure there are times when i want to have sex but those are the times i just keep my mind occupied with something other than sex and if that dosen't work then a cold shower works everytime.


Wow. This is very admirable. I thank God for the sexual revolution, but maybe things got a little out of hand, what with kids having sex on school buses and tweens having "friends with benefits". As for adults, to each his/her own.

Sexual anorexia is an interesting concept, given that there is a name for the opposite "syndrome": sexual addition. If one's sexual needs are not being met, perhaps one finds an alternative outlet. However, I don't think anything can replace GOOD sexual intimacy.
flowerforyou

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Fri 02/26/10 02:42 PM
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AYFKM!!!!!!!!NEVER.....

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Fri 02/26/10 02:47 PM
Come on. Tell us how you really feel:smile:

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Fri 02/26/10 02:56 PM
Hmmmm!shall I mention....No!wait.Perhaps it would be best if don't venture into a crumbled Catholic foundation.Next this thread will be shifted over to the Religion Forum & I'll find myself in some heated debate with some wacko.No Thx! scared

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Fri 02/26/10 03:12 PM



I worked in a psychiatric facility that had group therapy for sexual anorexia. The premise was that when you deny yourself sex you have other underlying issues much like the anorexic and food, and of course you need help to become sexual.



seriously? how sad,, more proof that the psychological industry will label ANYTHING an illness if they can make some money


I agree, this was the only facility I worked in that had this particular group. They also provided therapy for sexual addiction.


Sorry to prove your groups theory wrong, and not you personally, so please dont take this as an attack on youdrinker but I was celibate from May 27th 1989 - Sept 13 2001.

It wasn't because I wasn't sexual, sensual or anything. I was just more into my 68 Camaro, my 4x4, my G-SXR, and doing a lot of driving around neighboring states and having fun with my toys.

I will say I'm happy to say my sex drive peaked when I hit in June of '07, now I'm twice as sexual and sensual as I probably would have been. Throw in some freakishness to spice it up...lol. I'm glad it worked out for me. It's going to be here for a while.:banana: pitchfork :tongue:

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Sat 02/27/10 09:57 AM

Well, ever since the H1N1 outbreak, I have decided to abstain from any kind of fluid contact with a chick. I mean...that is how you catch that right?:tongue: laugh


It's caught from the air literally, if some one sneezes or coughs and you are close enough the virus will enter your respiratory system. Wear a mask. laugh laugh Nothing to do with sex.

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Sat 02/27/10 11:09 AM

Well, ever since the H1N1 outbreak, I have decided to abstain from any kind of fluid contact with a chick. I mean...that is how you catch that right?


I thought it was because women have cooties surprised :laughing:

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Sun 02/28/10 03:12 PM


Well, ever since the H1N1 outbreak, I have decided to abstain from any kind of fluid contact with a chick. I mean...that is how you catch that right?


I thought it was because women have cooties surprised :laughing:





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