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Topic: dont rush things!
robroe77 Joined Sun 05/02/10 Posts: 32	Tue 05/04/10 04:23 PM
im recently divorced and since ive been single i have learned one thing about relationships..DONT rush things..get to know the person in and out..there likes...dislikes..everything you can know about them..i think thats the problem nowadays... ppl settle because they dont want to be alone and jump into relationships and then they wonder why there alone again a couple moths down the road...just my opinion!!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 05/04/10 04:25 PM
I agree. I have rushed things in the past (when I was young ) and it seems going from the frying pan into the fire. Just enjoy yourself and meeting people until you find the right one

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Tue 05/04/10 04:33 PM
well, sometimes papersmile and I rush things like at the airport when she or I first get off the plane it's not always a bad thing to rush

robroe77 Joined Sun 05/02/10 Posts: 32	Tue 05/04/10 04:51 PM
I agree. I have rushed things in the past (when I was young ) and it seems going from the frying pan into the fire. Just enjoy yourself and meeting people until you find the right one i know exactly what you mean and i am enjoying!!!

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 08:13 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss.

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Tue 05/04/10 08:15 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. There is no other like you Goofball, Thank Bejesus

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 08:26 PM
And that's why momma only had one of me.

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Tue 05/04/10 08:32 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. Didn't I go out with you last week?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 08:34 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. Didn't I go out with you last week? Yes....and those strawberries were not cheap either young lady!

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76377	Tue 05/04/10 08:35 PM
And that's why momma only had one of me. Sure one of you is all this world can handle

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Tue 05/04/10 08:37 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. Didn't I go out with you last week? Yes....and those strawberries were not cheap either young lady! OMG dude you're awesome

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76377	Tue 05/04/10 08:38 PM
But as far as the question I have never seen any hurry in rushing things. Seems after a few months at times you find all those things out about them they did not reveal in the beginning..... So time and patience is well worth it in the end.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 08:41 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. Didn't I go out with you last week? Yes....and those strawberries were not cheap either young lady! OMG dude you're awesome No...No....Cool Whip is Awesome!

beauty314 Joined Sat 04/19/08 Posts: 1709	Tue 05/04/10 08:50 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. Didn't I go out with you last week? Yes....and those strawberries were not cheap either young lady! OMG dude you're awesome No...No....Cool Whip is Awesome! damm where's Yanni when you need him?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 08:58 PM
Yanni is the gangsta of love.

Tessa02 Joined Tue 02/16/10 Posts: 2519	Tue 05/04/10 09:03 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. What the heck is taking you so long, man?

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 05/04/10 09:07 PM
If I am not in the panties of the chick within 2 hours of verbal contact, then I consider it a loss. What the heck is taking you so long, man? I am trying to be a gentleman.

Phuque2 Joined Thu 11/20/08 Posts: 4927	Mon 05/10/10 08:33 AM
im recently divorced and since ive been single i have learned one thing about relationships..DONT rush things..get to know the person in and out..there likes...dislikes..everything you can know about them..i think thats the problem nowadays... ppl settle because they dont want to be alone and jump into relationships and then they wonder why there alone again a couple moths down the road...just my opinion!! I hear ya on that...No need to rush things, but it has to be a little faster than......""a herd of turtles"".......

skydancingA Joined Mon 11/30/09 Posts: 1605	Mon 05/10/10 08:56 AM
Sometimes. There is a NEED for speed :-) For when it is 100% reciprocal.