"When you stop looking, somethings wrong."

So I just wondering, gals and guys alike, is it a problem when your significant other out of the corner of their eye sees a beautiful body somewhere while your both out and about?

Not really, assuming she is going home with me...if she runs over and locks lips with the guy, well, then there is an issue.

Yes, I'm too insecure to understand that just because someone looks doesn't mean a damn thing. In fact, I worry that if she so much as glances at another person, she'll realize that we're not the only ones left on the planet and she'll just randomly run off and leave me for the next guy she sees.


Looking at someone in real life is just as meaningful as checking out someones profile online. It means NOTHING.

Yep, jealousy is a big word and has big meaning that amounts to nothing, trust is a small word, means more, and gets better results. Unless they liplockin somebody else!

it depends on how he looks at her and/or what sort of hooting calls come out of his mouth.

personally i find it very offensive if i don't have all of his attention when we are together and if he's noticing other women, yes, i'd be quite jealous. and probably pissed off too.

OMG papersmile "hooting calls"? I wouldn't blame you a bit for freakin the h*ll out on him. What a piece of crap to do that in the presence of someone he sposed to care about. As far as getting and keeping all of his attention, well to me thats up to the other person to draw. Try hard enough to keep my attention and you'll have it! And I'll add that you look capable of keeping ANY mans attention

This would depend on the sense of security one feels in a relationship. If you're sure that your partner is not the kind to play around and your love for each other is very much concrete and unshakable, then this would not even affect you.

I mean, I wouldn't want to always have an urge to put some blindfolds on him whenever we'd go out. There will always be a lot of beautiful women around, whether he's with me or not. The important thing is knowing I'm the most beautiful for him. Besides, if I ever see Brad Pitt walking, rest assured I will look! lol!

Not a problem I have said those same words many of times..............Besides I may be getting older but I'm not blind and I will gawk till the day I die ......... As long as I don't touch or yell it out when I'm with someone else I don't see any harm in it........

I like eye candy! Lets just say that the person I with deserves respect from me, and always will get that respect. If it made them uncomfortable for me to look, I would try not too, though.

i guess the way i look at it is if i'm dating a guy, he IS the best possible looking guy and i don't even notice any others, at least not in that way. however cliche it sounds, i truly only have eyes for him.

I don't go out looking to stare at a woman when I am out in a public place with my beautiful lady. I am for the most part deeply into just her....But it is the non-sense that gets to me....You looked at the waitress, and you smiled at her, you made her laugh....Did you just look at that womans buttocks that walked by?? AAAAhhhhhh

Ya know I feel the same way myself, but will admit at times another has caught my attention not talking anything but within the looks department and yeah I look but........don't do it in a way that it would make the one I'm with uncomfortable... For I would not want that done to me. And it is never within a sexual way wishing I was with someone else. For if I'm with someone I'm with them 100%. Heck I notice a Beautiful women as well the way I see it if the one I'm with really wanted to be with someone else they are free to go....

But now if it is to the point it makes the one they are with uncomfortable they are going to far.. one needs to be discreet when looking not sitting there with their tongue hanging out.... then it is a big no no.....

It doesn't bother me at all if they take a glance at another woman. It's the comments that a man can make that at times can bother me.

My ex boyfriend once said when we were leaving a store and passing the soda machines "Hey do you have a quarter?" I stopped and started to get into my purse---assuming it was for a soda---and he said "Nevermind". I asked "You don't want the quarter now?" His reply "It's too late. I was going to bounce it off that womans azz as it was tight."

Needless to say I didn't talk on the ride home.

Just because I am on a diet doesn't mean I cannot look at the menu...

Like most others have said, a passing glance is fine. Staring, drooling, hooting are not. Even when I was married I would still glance at an attractive girl. The important thing is that it would never be more than that.

It's ALWAYS okay to LOOK ... it stops being okay when 'look' turns to 'act' ...

I think jealousy is like guilt.
It can eat you up, out of all proportion
to the situation.

I automatically assume, if my male is
looking at someone else, he is comparing
me favorably to them...go for it :-)

So, yeah, looking keeps you human, drooling
on the other hand, might require a little
reality check of the same medicine.

Honestly? I'd prolly tease him about it.

"oh should I leave so you and hotty pants over there can have a moment alone??? "

Looking is fine...I look. Just as long as it doesn't go further.

Gotta wear the shades when out with the lil lady ... I'm not gonna stop my people watching but I can be considerate and not let it be so obvious?
Often she'll turn to me and ask "did you see that body of hers?"

The safe answer is always "Uh No Why? Where she go?"

Dear Abby used to say........

"When a man is through looking....he's through."

Actually I have no problems with a man I am with looking. I look all the time. There is a difference between looking and drooling.