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Topic: A general musing...
VacantDreamer's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:00 PM
Ok I've been here almost 24 hours now, why doesn't anyone talk to me?? Just kidding, just kidding, don't flame me now :wink: devil

No, my question to everyone is, do people here actually take the time to read the profiles, or do the majority just look at the picture, say "oh s/he is HOT" and start nudging?

Just curious flowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:04 PM
I read profiles, I suppose some of them men do. My male friends have told me for the most part they don't....

no photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:14 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou Hi, yes I take the time to read them. I have met some good people here and my best friend when I was growing up lived where you do. Welcome to mingle have fun and good luckflowerforyou

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:14 PM
No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:17 PM

No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.


oink oink

number96's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:17 PM
I read profiles when part of it catches my eye. I read your profile, and if you lived in Cali, I'd definitely email you. I could use a beautiful mechanic.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:23 PM


No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.


oink oink


sssooooo wwweeeeeeee.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:26 PM
I read profiles. :thumbsup:

My profile is rather specific so it would be duplicitous of me to not return the gesture. Besides, I want to know about the person! If they offer zero information – they receive zero interest from me.

If you are only trolling the profiles you will have little to no success. Participate in the forums to meet active members.

Unsolicited emails or nudges from people who are unknown to another do not bode well. I ignore any friend invites, emails or nudges from strangers. I like to know people from the forums first.

Be patient. I dated someone for 7 months on Mingle. It took me 3 months to discover his profile. winking

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:27 PM


No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.


oink oink


laugh Oink, Oink from me too! flowerforyou

VacantDreamer's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:36 PM

I read profiles. :thumbsup:

My profile is rather specific so it would be duplicitous of me to not return the gesture. Besides, I want to know about the person! If they offer zero information – they receive zero interest from me.

If you are only trolling the profiles you will have little to no success. Participate in the forums to meet active members.

Unsolicited emails or nudges from people who are unknown to another do not bode well. I ignore any friend invites, emails or nudges from strangers. I like to know people from the forums first.

Be patient. I dated someone for 7 months on Mingle. It took me 3 months to discover his profile. winking


Oh I have been doing a little posting, but mostly just watching, reading, getting a feel for things here. I just wondered about the profile thing, because I plan to add to mine, but if it doesn't get read, and most go by what they see in the forums, then I don't really see too much point to it. Make sense? It did in my head :wink:

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:41 PM
it is not all about profile
sometimes just a chance interaction
poetry in the night
a distant inscrutable connection
with neither how
nor why

laugh

flowerforyou

welcome to mingle2!

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:44 PM
It all depends now I will read the profiles of those posting only to get to know them a little better..... And when going through the Mutual Match or Who Viewed me if they catch my attention I will read their profile as well...... whoa

74Drew's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:45 PM

Ok I've been here almost 24 hours now, why doesn't anyone talk to me?? Just kidding, just kidding, don't flame me now :wink: devil

No, my question to everyone is, do people here actually take the time to read the profiles, or do the majority just look at the picture, say "oh s/he is HOT" and start nudging?

Just curious flowerforyou
i read the part that said you are looking for a woman and thus haven't tried to get your attention since i am not a woman.


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VacantDreamer's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:48 PM


Ok I've been here almost 24 hours now, why doesn't anyone talk to me?? Just kidding, just kidding, don't flame me now :wink: devil

No, my question to everyone is, do people here actually take the time to read the profiles, or do the majority just look at the picture, say "oh s/he is HOT" and start nudging?

Just curious flowerforyou
i read the part that said you are looking for a woman and thus haven't tried to get your attention since i am not a woman.


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Ha ha thats the part most seem to be not seeing :wink:

skydancingA's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:48 PM

No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.

Come now.
No one really expects pigs to read.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 06/07/10 05:54 PM


No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.

Come now.
No one really expects pigs to read.


Of course not. That's why we just perv, nudge, and hope for the best.

tanyaann's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:03 PM
You will find that the majority of us that participate on the forums read profiles. But the more important questions is.... Do those that do not participate on the forums read profiles? what

74Drew's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:05 PM



Ha ha thats the part most seem to be not seeing :wink:
well if you ever get bi-curious i'm usually single. but i'm not going to try to convert you.


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skydancingA's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:12 PM



No, all us men are a bunch of pigs who can't read.

Come now.
No one really expects pigs to read.

Of course not. That's why we just perv, nudge,
and hope for the best.

Easier to learn to read :-)

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 06/07/10 06:31 PM

You will find that the majority of us that participate on the forums read profiles. But the more important questions is.... Do those that do not participate on the forums read profiles? what


They probably do not sad2

I have such a low tolerance for those that join a dating site, looking to meet someone, but they are too lazy to read a profile. If a person can't take 3-5 minutes learning (by reading) about a member - it demonstrates their lack of detail and potential ennui in a relationship.

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