Topic: Would it bother you ?
TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 06/26/10 10:48 PM

To me it doesn't matter where we go as long we can talk.

Fast food wouldn't be my first choice. If he want to go cheap I wouldn't care but would hope that we could think of something better than fast food. Maybe a picnic on the beach or in a park??


Those are great suggestions as well. Which most would enjoy a bit more..... Hey hot dogs from the cart in the park would be great or the beach if you happen to live in areas that have either of those things........whoa

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Sat 06/26/10 11:04 PM


To me it doesn't matter where we go as long we can talk.

Fast food wouldn't be my first choice. If he want to go cheap I wouldn't care but would hope that we could think of something better than fast food. Maybe a picnic on the beach or in a park??


Those are great suggestions as well. Which most would enjoy a bit more..... Hey hot dogs from the cart in the park would be great or the beach if you happen to live in areas that have either of those things........whoa


We don't have hot dogs from the cart in a park. Although that does sound very lovely.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 06/26/10 11:13 PM



To me it doesn't matter where we go as long we can talk.

Fast food wouldn't be my first choice. If he want to go cheap I wouldn't care but would hope that we could think of something better than fast food. Maybe a picnic on the beach or in a park??


Those are great suggestions as well. Which most would enjoy a bit more..... Hey hot dogs from the cart in the park would be great or the beach if you happen to live in areas that have either of those things........whoa


We don't have hot dogs from the cart in a park. Although that does sound very lovely.


Well we don't either nor is there a beach where I live............

I prefer somewhere that is public for the first meet and plenty of people around me....I will not go for the park thing here the first time that would be too secluded in order to be with them the first time......

I'll go to that Whataburger, Wendy's or Jack-in-the Box instead instead of the more private areas....

chelsea466's photo
Sat 06/26/10 11:21 PM
The one park we have is always full of tons of people. So that one I would go to but I would go somewhere too private.

We also have a very classy coffee place called Coffee Culture. It is also cheap! That is deffinitly a bonus. smile2

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Sun 06/27/10 02:11 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 06/27/10 02:12 AM

if a guy took you to Wendy's or Jack In The Box, for dinner on the first date ? How bout a mexican hot truck, for that south of the border, parking lot atmosphere ? Can I have extra cheese ?



yes,, at 41, I would expect a first impression to be worth more than that,,,

if it was ON the way to a show or to get some videos for relaxing at home,, that would be different,,, but I dont even go to those places for dinner myself, I just hit the drive through on the way to someplace else

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Mon 06/28/10 11:30 AM
doesn't bother me. I actually like fast food. I'm not there for the food anyway, but I'm there for the company.

OKCUTIE67's photo
Mon 06/28/10 12:27 PM
Wouldn't bother me at all....especially if it was just the first time meeting. The purpose is to sit and talk and see if there is anything there...not to be impressed by how much money he can spend on you?

Besides...Jack in the Box tacos are DA BOMB!!!! bigsmile

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Mon 06/28/10 12:32 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Mon 06/28/10 12:33 PM
Would love it...I could be more relaxed..drinker :banana: love drinks

besides...I wouldnt know,what Fork to use...anyway.surprisedlaugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 06/28/10 12:34 PM
I don't, can't eat fast food.. ill

Seakolony's photo
Mon 06/28/10 12:45 PM

if a guy took you to Wendy's or Jack In The Box, for dinner on the first date ? How bout a mexican hot truck, for that south of the border, parking lot atmosphere ? Can I have extra cheese ?


if a guy took you to Wendy's or Jack In The Box, for dinner on the first date ? How bout a mexican hot truck, for that south of the border, parking lot atmosphere ? Can I have extra cheese ?

Not as long as the food, they have some choice of fresh veggies or fruit and the company is good (can't eat certain foods make me sick)...what did it matter where you go or what you do?

unsure's photo
Mon 06/28/10 12:53 PM
I actually wouldn't mind meeting someone at Wendy's. I wouldn't want to eat though..I don't like having dinner on a first date, that is just not my thing!! What is the difference between Wendy's and a coffee shop...oh wait, the price!! :wink:
I get all stressed out IF I have to eat in front of someone on the first date. I would rather just have a coke and talk...let me be relaxed people!!!!

msmyka's photo
Mon 06/28/10 12:56 PM
The only acceptable fast food joint would be In-N-Out Burger love

mightymoe's photo
Mon 06/28/10 01:09 PM
i took a date to long john silvers once... never herd from her again. no more fast food, it's at least chilies or better...

RowBaby's photo
Mon 06/28/10 01:11 PM

The only acceptable fast food joint would be In-N-Out Burger love


Agreed :thumbsup:

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Mon 06/28/10 01:14 PM

i took a date to long john silvers once... never herd from her again. no more fast food, it's at least chilies or better...


I :heart: LJS...especially the crunchies laugh
But then again, I eat BBQ ribs on a first date. They might as well know what they are getting into huh? laugh

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Mon 06/28/10 01:17 PM
All of you pretty Ladies post so many conflicting answers. How does one get the right answer?
Any Mc D's type place seems wrong to me, but how does Starbucks or Beaners rate any better?
It's a "meeting". I did scratch a meeting because she insisted on a $50 a plate fish joint for a first meeting.
Sorry, I'll happily treat you like a queen, but NO gold diggers need apply!

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Mon 06/28/10 01:20 PM

All of you pretty Ladies post so many conflicting answers. How does one get the right answer?
Any Mc D's type place seems wrong to me, but how does Starbucks or Beaners rate any better?
It's a "meeting". I did scratch a meeting because she insisted on a $50 a plate fish joint for a first meeting.
Sorry, I'll happily treat you like a queen, but NO gold diggers need apply!


Are you expecting one right answer for all women? I'm fine with meeting at a coffee shop as a place to sit and chat. Much more comfy than any fast food restaurant in my opinion. Other women may not agree. Your best bet is to talk to the woman you're looking to meet and find out what she's ok with as a place to meet.

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Mon 06/28/10 01:29 PM

All of you pretty Ladies post so many conflicting answers. How does one get the right answer?
Any Mc D's type place seems wrong to me, but how does Starbucks or Beaners rate any better?
It's a "meeting". I did scratch a meeting because she insisted on a $50 a plate fish joint for a first meeting.
Sorry, I'll happily treat you like a queen, but NO gold diggers need apply!


everyone has their own preferences. I like shooting pool on a first date. Women and men have their own preferences on things. There is no right or wrong answer.

I prefer a more laid back setting, like fast food or coffee (not a walk because summer in Texas is too hot laugh )

First dates are nerve racking enough for me without adding a more formal setting

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Mon 06/28/10 01:49 PM
U both have a great answer, you both should have posted that first and saved all of the confusion.:wink:

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Mon 06/28/10 01:51 PM
It isn't our fault you couldn't figure out all women are not the same. :wink: