People like what they like in both personality and appearance.

Are we to assume that you have NEVER turned down a girl's advances because you weren't attracted to her? Highly unlikely. I'm sure you have preferences too; that doesn't make you shallow.

<---Shallow biotch

Yeah, but you're hawt, so it's ok.

<<--- shallow bastid

Confidence goes a long way. From this post, it doesn't seem like you have much of it.

how do u know that women are shallow when it comes to standards? Are u certain that it is looks that drive womens' choices?

Shallowness is rampant in our society.

To hear men speak of a woman's weight, dogishness, etc... you wouldn't want to even give them the time of day let alone a date.

I have heard some women do almost the exact same thing and I feel sorry for whoever gets with them.

Shallowness means that if a person doesn't fit your physical ideal of attractiveness, you dismiss them as unworthy and unfit for your time and consideration.

The problem with shallowness is that it creates hollow people.
All these people care about is the outer image.
When you meet one of these people you can usually tell and you know that they are not going to be a positive influence in your life.

Shallow people speak about what makes one look better constantly and constantly talks of others inadequacies in their eyes.

My observations on the subject.

I avoid shallowness it is a negative influence in room.

The dating pool is rather shallow.

Even this site offers mutual match which is almost 100% based on looks only...

Just because one has a preference of whom they will date it does not make them shallow. It just goes to show they know what they are looking for within another....

If it was not for preference very few would be single but then would they be happy always knowing that there is something missing?...

I agree.

Deep down I'm really shallow

It's easier to blame it on someone else than to own the idea that it was us who was just a jerk...

Why do people start threads and never come back to them? Are they so self-absorbed that they never really cared about anyone else's opinion in the first place?

The dating pool is shallow and there isn’t enough CHLORINE to sterilize the “ickies”!

The Gene pool needs more chlorine too!

<<<-----shallow hermit

I like boobs

I like how this twisted over to them being insecure or embarrassed.

Their preferences don't match up with who you are. Sucks, oh well, can't do anything about it...move onto someone else. Everyone has preferences, it doesn't make them shallow, it just simply means that they know what they want and don't want.

I have noticed certain individual attractive patterns for myself such as certain personality traits that make a men more or less attractive to me and I seem to be attracted to a stockier male figure over thin or heavy...everyone has tastes male and female.....welcome to mingle2 and good luck to ya