Topic: What are you willing to overlook?
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Wed 09/15/10 07:47 PM
I can overlook occasional random forgetfulness, refusing to eat my cooking (that would be occasional random honesty)laugh

you_dont_know_me's photo
Wed 09/15/10 07:49 PM


a zit on her nose, or if she scratches her butt in public
so, u have been dating baseball players, then?

actuly there is this lady plays for a company slow pitch softball
shortstop 5'2 110lbs dammmnnnnnnnnnnnn smoking hot brunette
i love sunshine park on saturday
she is hot enough to melt the hinges off the gates of hell

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Wed 09/15/10 07:50 PM

I am willing to overlook the fact that she might not want sex five times a day. I will go down to four times, but that is pushing it!
I'd be willing to overlook that he was cherry red from head to toe and had a face and body shaped like a pitcher.........well...........no, cuz I can'r overlook the no neck thing, sorry

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Wed 09/15/10 07:53 PM



a zit on her nose, or if she scratches her butt in public
so, u have been dating baseball players, then?

actuly there is this lady plays for a company slow pitch softball
shortstop 5'2 110lbs dammmnnnnnnnnnnnn smoking hot brunette
i love sunshine park on saturday
she is hot enough to melt the hinges off the gates of hell


what if she eats peanut butter out if the container with a spoon

some guys say that's a real turn offill

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 09/15/10 07:58 PM
My profile says "no smokers". My boyfriend that I met here smokes. Of course, he makes up for it in so many other ways. blushing

seahawks's photo
Wed 09/15/10 08:01 PM
im willin to overlook the crotch grabbers, altough frustrating, im willing to over look that.!!laugh laugh laugh :wink:

Goofball73's photo
Wed 09/15/10 08:04 PM


I am willing to overlook the fact that she might not want sex five times a day. I will go down to four times, but that is pushing it!
I'd be willing to overlook that he was cherry red from head to toe and had a face and body shaped like a pitcher.........well...........no, cuz I can'r overlook the no neck thing, sorry



Well, you are missing out, cause the ice cubs are to die for

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Wed 09/15/10 09:25 PM




a zit on her nose, or if she scratches her butt in public
so, u have been dating baseball players, then?

actuly there is this lady plays for a company slow pitch softball
shortstop 5'2 110lbs dammmnnnnnnnnnnnn smoking hot brunette
i love sunshine park on saturday
she is hot enough to melt the hinges off the gates of hell


what if she eats peanut butter out if the container with a spoon

some guys say that's a real turn offill


i wouldnt care if she dug it out with her fingers

RoamingOrator's photo
Wed 09/15/10 09:43 PM
I generally try to overlook a scenic vista.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 09/15/10 11:44 PM

Smoking doesn't bother me, tattoos don't bother me (although a tattoo of somebody smoking might make me wonder), piercings don't bother me (as long as they don't involve the brain or small rodents), religious differences don't bother me, political differences don't bother me, green shoes with orange laces don't bother me.

Once you get past my Big Three Deal-Breakers ©, I'm actually pretty flexible. Or I would be, if anybody ever got past them.


Tats and piercings bug the hell out of me; instant dealbreaker. Smoking, not at all unless she smells like a human ashtray or smokes weed all the time. Religious differences, not really unless they are part of the Latter Day Saints Church; I have a personal grudge against them. Political differences, as long as they aren't teabaggers, no problem. Excessive wearing of the colors chartreuse and fuscia.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/15/10 11:48 PM
i am willing to overlook the fact he cant get enough sex...and that he is EXTREMELY kinky..........


yea....


i'll overlook that!:heart:

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 09/16/10 07:09 AM

im willin to overlook the crotch grabbers, altough frustrating, im willing to over look that.!!laugh laugh laugh :wink:


Humm what as long as it is your crotch they are grabbing shshshsh :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 09/16/10 07:16 AM




a zit on her nose, or if she scratches her butt in public
so, u have been dating baseball players, then?

actuly there is this lady plays for a company slow pitch softball
shortstop 5'2 110lbs dammmnnnnnnnnnnnn smoking hot brunette
i love sunshine park on saturday
she is hot enough to melt the hinges off the gates of hell


what if she eats peanut butter out if the container with a spoon

some guys say that's a real turn offill
That's just kooky talk! It'd be really nice if she shared!

ProPhotographer's photo
Thu 09/16/10 10:20 AM
I'd be willing to overlook the top of her head...
I wouldn't date a chick over 6' tall

christbud's photo
Thu 09/16/10 10:23 AM

I can overlook occasional random forgetfulness, refusing to eat my cooking (that would be occasional random honesty)laugh
Are you a bad cook?:cry:

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 09/16/10 12:14 PM
Even though I quit smoking almost 8 years ago, I have many times over looked that they smoke. That is as long as they are respectful when they smoke around me. Therefore the least they could do is not smoke in my house or car. If they smoke in their house that is their choice but if they smoke in the bedroom while I'm in there it is a deal breaker....noway

Jess642's photo
Thu 09/16/10 12:43 PM

My last thread dealt with dealbreakers, things that would make someone undateable.
What are some things that you wouldn't necessary look for in another person, but are willing to overlook if the other person's better qualities outweigh their flaws, habits, or idiosyncrasies?

Here are some things I am willing to accept in an otherwise compatible person: extra weight (within reason), smoking (cigarettes, maybe cigars, but nothing else), tattoos and piercings, bizarre hairstyles, religious and political differences (nothing too extreme), light responsible drinking (as long as I am not expected or brow-beaten into participating), lower education level,and low English-speaking skills.

I look forward to reading your responses!


Nothing.

There is nothing I would 'overlook'...I would be lying if I said I would.

I know me....I know myself so well, I am capable of recognising the attributes in another that enhance or complement my nature, personality, and mindset....and am also capable of recognising those attributes/qualities/behaviours in another that do not.

Why overlook anything?


Why not be as clear, concise and HONEST, as one can.

Example...a few extra pounds...is it an emotional buffer, a lack of interest in healthy foods, a more sedentary lifestyle, a thyroid imbalance??...if overlooked, how will I know if the person who is carrying extra weight is remotely compatable to my lifestyle/behaviours/outlook on life?

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 09/16/10 01:04 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 09/16/10 01:06 PM
If I “overlook” something that means I am settling. I don’t settle.

I either take someone as they are or not at all. If a characteristic of theirs bothers me then I chose not to date them. I’m not going to give them grief and ask them to change – that’s not fair. Conversely, I don’t want to put up with something that might bother me down the road.

I accept them without judgment or compromise.

To me, when I date someone, they are purrrfect regardless of how anyone else views them!

Goofball73's photo
Thu 09/16/10 01:27 PM

If I “overlook” something that means I am settling. I don’t settle.

I either take someone as they are or not at all. If a characteristic of theirs bothers me then I chose not to date them. I’m not going to give them grief and ask them to change – that’s not fair. Conversely, I don’t want to put up with something that might bother me down the road.

I accept them without judgment or compromise.

To me, when I date someone, they are purrrfect regardless of how anyone else views them!




I knew you wouldn't let me down. :thumbsup:

krupa's photo
Thu 09/16/10 01:44 PM
I can get past her long and bony clitoris. Then again I think that unibrows are sexy too.