Topic: Is it bad luck?
Miss_candykisses's photo
Mon 02/21/11 02:01 AM
So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?

1956CLEO's photo
Mon 02/21/11 03:02 AM
Nothing is wrong, except for the times...folks are just not committing. So get it ou of your head, that anything is wrong with you, now chin up!!

jayseek4u's photo
Mon 02/21/11 03:10 AM
There is nothing wrong with you. You are a very beautiful an very sexy young lady. You have just been picking the bad ones. You will find your true love you just need to keep looking.If I was not old enuff to be your father I would show you the way a real man treats his lady.

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Mon 02/21/11 06:14 PM
there most certainly was something wrong with you. thing is you have solved that problem. now take your time and test the water before you dive in. there are lots of guys for you to choose from, so get to know a few before you decide. thing is, communicate with them before you fall for them. there is nothing wrong with bitting a chocolate from the box and tossing it aside if it is not to your liking. i guarantee i guarantee you will end up with the best man if you don't fall for the first one you see (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Totage's photo
Mon 02/21/11 06:16 PM

So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?


Who said you weren't pretty enough? How do you come to that conclusion?

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Mon 02/21/11 06:22 PM
My guess is that you entered these bad relationships kinda quickly. Slooooow dooooown. Take the time to learn what a person is about. Also, guys your age are not very good for long-term relationships. They are babies. I certainly was at your age. If you just have to mix it up with a guy, I wouldn't criticize, but be aware. Reputations really matter at your age.

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Mon 02/21/11 06:22 PM

there most certainly was something wrong with you. thing is you have solved that problem. now take your time and test the water before you dive in. there are lots of guys for you to choose from, so get to know a few before you decide. thing is, communicate with them before you fall for them. there is nothing wrong with bitting a chocolate from the box and tossing it aside if it is not to your liking. i guarantee i guarantee you will end up with the best man if you don't fall for the first one you see (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)


Prncs backs up Bulldogs guarantee:thumbsup:

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Mon 02/21/11 07:05 PM
I have one rule as to why relationships don't work. It simply was not meant to work. Or, it was not meant to work out at the present time (sometimes people need to evolve and then perhaps life will bring them back together). It's always easy for the person who got dumped to question what they did wrong. And, I guess we all just have to go through that process. I think that the best thing you can do is look back at your past relationships and see what went wrong. I always look back and see what I could have done better. I know I'm not perfect, so I try to look and see where I can improve. It's just a thought.

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Mon 02/21/11 07:10 PM

So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?
You state that you are dating the wrong guys, have you tried dating any guys that do not remind you of any of your ex's? Dating seems like playing the lottery anyways, some people get the winning ticket right away while others never do...

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Mon 02/21/11 07:37 PM

So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?


Stop dating a**holes. Because that is only type of guy I know who would say something like that to a beautiful lady like yourself.

Most guys just count themselves lucky if they find a girl who likes them and has a vagina. Pretty is bonus points.

If I were gay, I would be your stalker.

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Mon 02/21/11 07:42 PM

So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?
drinker Here's to THAT five month ISSUE,,that ALSO covers the Ladies who only stay that long,,,wink,,

ITS A WE THING,,,WE AIN'T FOUND THE RIGHT ONE YET!!!laugh :wink:

ron62449's photo
Mon 02/21/11 09:23 PM

So ever since i have started dating I seem to date the wrong guys..in all my relationships they have never lasted over 5 months and I have always been left because they found a prettier girl than me, couldnt see me as their gf, was told im not hot enough, i have been left for exs', and they couldnt see me as their gf...is it bad luck or am i doing something wrong?


....a prettier girl....not hot enough???? Yes you are dating the wrong guys....Stupid! You are pretty, sexy and hot. Look more mature than most 19 year olds. I read your profile too. A bar in your spine? May intiminate them too, they don't know how to take it. Chin up and the right guy will come along.

Ron